Thanksgiving Seating Arrangement that Make Everyone Happy
Thanksgiving, the time of year when thanks is the name of the game, but dinners are met with apprehension and passive aggressive motivation. You are making Thanksgiving dinner, but even after hours of preparation including cooking a large feast, deep cleaning the house and making sure all the kids are perfectly groomed and behaved, perhaps the hardest part is managing the adults who just can't seem to get along. At some point everyone is going to have to sit at the dining room table together and you would prefer for that to happen without incident. For this to happen, you may have to get creative with the seating arrangements. To begin with, you may as well know that there are going to be one or two people who are going to complain or make comments no matter what you do. You might seat them exactly where they want to be, away from the person they dislike most, but they could be sitting at the head of the table and not be happy. You may be tempted to put a lot of energy into where people like this sit at the table, but don't bother. Unless you make them sit in the corner by themselves, you are wasting your efforts. Instead of focusing on keeping people apart because they may not get along, why not focus on keeping people together who do get along, or better yet, seat people next to each other who rarely talk because they do not see each other very often or because they just do not normally get the chance to spend time together. Sitting at a large dining room table, they may be inclined to say a few words to each other. At the head of your table should be either you and your spouse, or two heads of the family. For instance, if you are not married, you might have your father sit at the head of the table and your mother next to him or at the other end. This is a sign of respect for your parents, or whomever you might choose to sit at the head of the table. Are the children going to sit at the same table as the adults or are there so many people that the children have their own table and seating arrangement? If the children are at a separate table, give them enough space between the adult table and the children's table that they have the freedom to joke around and be children without upsetting any of the adults.
Make sure everyone has plenty of room to get in and out. Place the table in the center of the room rather than just leaving enough room on the side of the table for people to get in and out. In this way they can be comfortable and not feel as if they are pushed against the wall. Place elderly or pregnant guests closest to the bathroom so that they have easy access. Arrange people in their seats for convenience and developing new relationships. Yes, you may have to keep a few people away from each other, but don't let this be the main focus of your seating arrangement. You can even use seating cards with the guests names on them so that they know where they should sit. For more information visit us at http://www.accessfurniture.com.
Published on Nov 11, 2013
Published on Nov 11, 2013
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