Seven years of same-sex marriage. Traditionally, that’s the amount of time it takes for straight folks to get sick of looking at each other over the breakfast table. On the other hand, even after 41 years of sweaty, shirtless float boys, we still have a twinkle in our eye for Pride. If your union is becoming less than civil, maybe this week would be a good time to recapture that spark … But how? Never fear — we’ve created a handy chart for you.