REFLECT List your reasons for continuing in a relationship marked by these characteristics.
How do you contribute to continuing the relationship the way it is, with no changes or re-negotiation of agreements?
What benefits or advantages do you gain from the conditions that have prevailed thus far?
What should your role be to make a relationship work?
What would happen if you decided to move from the place in which you have been stuck in your relationship? What would happen to your partner? What would happen to your relationship? What would happen to you?
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