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The Candies Table Your Perfect Table Setting Having Fun with Your Photos Featured Wedding: Appleton Featured Wedding: Sheboygan Featured Wedding: Pembine Wedding Details Top 50 Do’s and Don’ts

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38 Reception & Yacht Guide 65 Fashion 161 Honeymoon & Destination Locations 150 Marriage Laws 179 Bridal Shows 183 Directory of Services 193 Premier Bride Planning Pages

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Publishers ANGELINE GALLMEIER JASON GALLMEIER Art Director JENNIFER ERDMAN jennifererdman.com Executive Publishers SCOTT BROWN REBECCA REYNOLDS General Manager DEBRA SADOWSKI Fashion Director JEAN SHONKWILER Contributing Photographers artistgroup.net blackdogstudios.com lucyparkerphotography.com cameroningalls.com Contributing Writers RACHELLE DRAGANI MICHELE A. HOLLAND JENNIE SYKES-SCHWENK JENNIFER WALLA

Cakes Catering Flowers Formalwear Rings Invitations Music & Entertainment

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Photobooths Photography Reception Registry Transportation Videography Wedding Consultants

Contributing Artist IAN MASSEY Cover/Fashion Locations Cedarburg, Wisconsin The North Carolina Transp. Museum www.nctrans.org Cover/Fashion Photography THE ARTIST GROUP artistgroup.net JIM MERRILL JMT PHOTOGRAPHY www.jmtfoto.com Fashion Stylist: LAUREL GASSER Hair & Makeup: MANDI ENGLISH KYMM MCLEAN EMILY PHILLIPS

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Is your ring insured?

As soon as bring your engagement ring home, make sure that your insurance policy is updated to offer adequate protection in the event of a loss or theft.

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Rings

The CIRCLe oF LoVe: understanding the basics

It’s amazing, the power of a piece of jewelry to convey so much meaning… Engagement rings and wedding bands represent the never-ending love you have for each other, and let the whole world know you are married! Besides the exquisite beauty of wedding rings, there is a lot to know about metals, diamonds, and the care involved. This “Ring Primer” will help you understand all the basics.4

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RINGS KNOW YOUR METALS Gold Gold is classic, beautiful and popular. Pure gold is too soft for practical use, so it’s mixed with other metals for jewelry. 14-karat gold retains its brilliant gold color, but is durable enough for daily wear, and can be polished easily. White gold White gold is made by mixing pure gold with other white metals such as silver, palladium or zinc. It does have a slightly yellow tint, unless it’s coated with a very white metal called rhodium. This provides a very white metal look, but it’s likely that it will need to be re-coated every one to two years as the rhodium wears away. Platinum Extremely popular in the last decade or so, platinum is a very white, heavy (which many people like that substantial feel), and durable metal. It’s a gorgeous, longlasting compliment to diamonds! Popular demand for this metal has driven the price up quite a bit, and maintenance is more complicated than gold. Palladium A “sister” metal to platinum, palladium is a naturally white metal (whiter than white gold), and like platinum, it is strong, nontarnishing and hypoallergenic. It’s also less expensive than platinum, making it a good metal to consider if you like the white metal look.

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Titanium and tungsten carbide Usually used for men’s wedding bands, both of these metals are extremely durable, 100% hypoallergenic and relatively inexpensive. Titanium can be oxidized to create some brilliant accent

RINGS colors such as bright blue, purple and so on, creating a very unique and interesting look. Tungsten carbide is twice as hard as steel and almost impossible to scratch, making is a great metal for very active men. These metals cannot be resized once the ring is made, so order the size carefully. KNOW YOUR DIAMOND When shopping for a diamond, you will quickly be introduced to the “Four Cs” – cut, color, clarity and carat. All four features can make a dramatic impact on the quality, and therefore price, of a diamond. Cut Cut really refers to the proportions of a diamond and it’s facets, as opposed to its shape, which includes round

(brilliant), oval, pear, marquise, emerald, square (princess or radiant), heart and triangle. Regardless of its shape, a diamond gets its brilliancy from the cutting, and maximizing the reflection of light. When a stone is cut too shallow or too deep, the light that enters through the top is allowed to escape through the diamond’s bottom and minimizes its brilliance. Color The best color is no color at all (when desiring a white diamond), because it reflects the most light. The Gemological Institute of America (GIA) ranks diamonds on a standard 23-grade scale from D through Z. D, the highest rating, indicates a perfectly colorless stone, while Z, the lowest rating, indicates a light yellow stone.

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RINGS Clarity Clarity is defined by the number, color, nature, size and position of natural marks, called inclusions, contained in the gem. Inclusions occur naturally during the process of crystallization, when minute traces of minerals are trapped in the diamond. Excellent clarity means light can pass unimpeded through the stone and increases its value. The GIA judges clarity based on a standard 11-point scale from Flawless through Imperfect 3 (see the clarity scale at the end of this article.) Carat Diamonds are weighed in carats, which may also be expressed as “points,” where one carat equals 100 points. A diamond of 50 points, for example, equals ½ carat. Diamonds of more than

one carat are extremely rare (one in a thousand), and therefore very valuable. But remember that carat weight is only one factor in determining value. Two diamonds of the same size can vary considerably in value depending on the other three factors – cut, color and clarity. APPRAISE IT Once rings have been selected and purchased, request an appraisal. This is a written estimate of the value of your jewelry, and should include specific indications of the four Cs. Immediately after purchase, photograph your jewelry for insurance purposes, and make sure your current policy has adequate coverage. If it doesn’t, consult your insurance agent about amending your policy.

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TAKE GOOD CARE Although diamonds are the hardest natural substance known to man, a hard blow could still chip one, so don’t wear your ring when doing rough work. You should also avoid direct contact with chlorine bleach and chlorinated pool water, which could pit and discolor the mounting. To clean your jewelry, regularly soak them for about 30 minutes in either a commercial jewelry cleaner, or a homemade solution comprised of equal parts cold water and ammonia, or a mixture of warm water and mild detergent. Brush the stones gently with an eyebrow brush or soft toothbrush, then rinse thoroughly under warm water and pat dry with a lint-free cloth. Have you rings checked annually by your jeweler for loose prongs or settings. This is especially important if you have only four prongs, because just one broken prong will cause you to lose your stone. These precautions and gentle care will pay you back with years of enjoyment and pride in this precious symbol of your union.

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• SI1 & SI2: Small inclusions (noticeable under 10x) • I1, I2 & I3: Imperfect (flaws visible to the unaided eye)

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Our banquet facility can accommodate up to 220 guests and features its own private covered patio overlooking the waterfront and downtown Appleton skyline for you and your guests to enjoy. We specialize in our four course Trolley Car menu, as well as plated dinners, which offer many classic favorites and specialty entree items. Our delicious food and unparalleled location make Waterfront Banquets the perfect place for your wedding day.

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BACHELOR (ETTE) PARTIES take on a new look

During the last several years, there has been a trend away from the “party till dawn at a gentlemen’s club” affair or a “girls go wild” night. Bachelor and bachelorette parties are about friends getting together, sharing old stories and, perhaps, creating some new memories. The adventure bachelor parties give the best man a chance to sign the group up and then relax. From the time the groomsmen arrive at the destination city until they depart, everything is planned out and orchestrated. Choosing a destination close to home, within driving distance, or at a mid point that is convenient to all members, is a plus; too often out of town guys must make two costly trips to the wedding city. Five things to consider when planning the perfect party: 1. Who should be invited? The make up and size of the group will have an effect on the rest of the planning. If relatives such as dad, a favorite aunt or teenage siblings are to be included, it will influence the type of event, where it happens and how long it lasts. Two and three-day excursions or adventure weekends can accommodate participants of all ages. The focus of the celebration should be on adventure and making memories, so that older relatives and younger siblings don’t feel out of place. The same type of event can also apply for best friends scattered across the country. 2. When should the event take place? There are some factors to be considered should the party be a weekend adventure or be well separated from the wedding www.premierbride.com PREMIER BRIDE • 13

BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES itself to give the wedding party from out of town time to return home, get back to work and regroup before leaving for the wedding. Local parties with local participants can be held the weekend prior to the wedding or more traditionally, the night before the wedding. Some ideas encompass adventures e.g., lake fishing, white water rafting, that are best done at certain times of the year. For a “destination” adventure weekend plans and reservations should be made early, using only a reputable tour company with bachelor(ette) party experience. 3. How long should the Party last? Weekend events are becoming much more common, they last from Friday night to Sunday afternoon, some even start on Thursday giving those from out of town time to travel and allow everyone

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to relax, socialize and relive memories. Everyone pays their own transportation costs and the weekend ground costs are usually split between all the participants so that the bride or groom is free. 4. How can the party be made “special”? What would make this a memorable occasion? Isn’t it more than consuming excess beverages and waking up the next day with a strange tattoo? Great memories are made of sharing an adventure, a special dinner, or sitting around a campfire telling tales from the past. Special t-shirts, with the date and guest of honor’s name, videos of the adventure or even an engraved memento to be presented at the wedding reception are now becoming more common bachelor(ette) party ideas.

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BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES 5. Who can make the arrangements? Planning a memorable and exciting party can be complicated and overwhelming, even with ideas from the bride or groom. The important thing is keep the idea, not lose the enthusiasm and let someone else do all the planning. Destination weddings, wedding planners and bridal consultants all take the pressure off the bride - now the same logic can be applied to the bachelor(ette) party. New tour companies can set up weekend adventures with just the right touch, just the right location, just the right ingredients, to meet everyone’s expectations. Now that we understand what’s at stake and how to plan it, here are some ideas to get the ball rolling: • Whitewater Rafting - As long as there is a flowing river, someone will put a boat in it! The

trick is finding the rivers that will take you to the edge, without throwing you over it. Under the guidance of an adventure expert, you can paddle, dodge, and hold on through class IV and V rapids, all while taking in spectacular views of the scenic beauty and wildlife. • Cattle Wrangling - Saddle-up the crew, ride the open range like old-time cowboys, and drive longhorn cattle through rugged mountain terrain. Work alongside real cowboys to move the thundering herd to greener pastures as you enjoy the sights and sounds of rolling rivers, towering mountain ranges, and native wildlife. After the drive, see if anyone lasts eight seconds on the mechanical bull before taking aim at the skeet shooting range. Recount the day’s highlights during a Texas-style barbeque dinner including steaks, potatoes, and plenty of beer. • Wine Tours - Wine tasting can be an occasional pleasant diversion or a time-and-resourceconsuming passion. Wine tasting is actually www.premierbride.com PREMIER BRIDE • 15

BACHELOR(ETTE) PARTIES a complex proposition involving much more than simply sipping some fermented grape juice, but even if you are not a true wine aficionado, it is pretty easy to fake it. Just swirl, sniff the glass using words like bouquet and tannin, and taste. Be sure to rent a shuttle or assign a designated driver. • Charter Fishing - Compete in your own private fishing tournament abord charter boats. While everybody breathes in the fresh air and takes in picturesque views, the expert captains and crew guide the team to the hot spots and teach the boys how to reel in the big one. After a full day of fishing, camaraderie, and competition, a chef “cooks the catch” at a restaurant overlooking the water. • Skydiving - What’s better than jumping out of a plane, free-falling for over a minute at 120 mph, and seeing for miles in every direction? Doing it all with some of your closest friends. After some basic training, everyone flies to 13,000+ feet and prepares for the jump. Hearts pound, men begin

to fade to the back of the line, and adrenaline pumps as everybody peels out of the plane into the open sky. • Paintball - What better way to spend your day then pummeling your friends with paint? Break up into teams, learn how to handle your firearm, don your fatigues, and head off into the woods. Add a new spin on your favorite childhood game, “Capture the Flag”, except this time speed is not the only weapon. The most important part of the experience is making sure the groom or bride has a great time. If all goes as planned, you will have successfully orchestrated a weekend filled with memories to last a lifetime. Contact a coordinator who specializes in adventure-based trips for groups who can plan everything from the lodging to the adventure such as www.hitzadventures.com.

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Reception

What you need to know before booking your reception site

You’ve been pronounced “husband and wife,” so now it’s time to kick off those heels and celebrate! This is a time for you and your brand new husband to relax, mingle, dance, chat and thoroughly enjoy the company of your friends and loved ones. While finding the ideal reception location is one of the biggest and most important wedding-related tasks, have no fear... we’re here to help. Below are three simple steps to finding the right reception site for your perfect day.4

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RECEPTION Step 1: What to do first The biggest question regarding the reception is “where?” Before you can work on this question, however, you’ll need to know a couple of things: what style of wedding do you envision, and how big? Obviously, a casual, relaxed summer afternoon reception would require a completely different reception site than a formal, elegant winter evening reception – so clarify the type of wedding (and the time of year) you both desire first. Once that’s been established, determine the rough guest list, including all interested parties: you and your groom, and each set of parents. Of course, you’ll also need to consider your budget as well, as this will have great influence on the number of guests you can afford to have. Once you’ve

made these critical decisions, it’s time to start looking for the ideal reception site. As with anything, the more time you have, the better – some choice reception sites get booked one to two years in advance, particularly for prime dates. Step 2: Start the search Local bridal publications, the Internet, wedding shows, married friends and the yellow pages are all good sources of potential reception sites. If you have no idea where to hold your reception, try hotels, banquet halls, restaurants, community centers and country clubs. Other less obvious options are country inns, historic homes or mansions, city parks, college or university facilities, art galleries, museums and boats. Each location offers its own unique style and ambiance.

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RECEPTION There are two basic types of reception facilities: on-site and off-site. Most on-site locations provide the majority of services you will need for your reception: catering, beverages, tables, chairs, tableware, linens and serving staff, making this a very convenient option. The facilities normally charge on a per person basis, and have a minimum guest requirement. Such locations include hotels, private clubs and restaurants. Off-site locations offer the use of the facility only, providing no other services. You supply nearly everything yourself, paying a flat fee for the use of the site. The nice thing about off-site locations is the freedom to do everything your own way, and more choices – although this can also mean more work! Narrow down your search by focusing on those sites that seem to best meet your needs, depending on your style, season and estimated guest count. Once you’ve selected some possibilities, it’s time to go on a road trip with your fiancé, maid of honor and/or Mom and check out the sites in person. Step 3: Evaluating reception sites Now the real work begins. Every site offers advantages and disadvantages, and your job is to sift through all of the features of each site, to find the best one for your wedding – all while keeping your budget in mind. Here are some factors to consider: Location. The reception site should be no more than a 30-minute drive away from the ceremony location. A longer drive than that is really asking too much of your guests! If the location is difficult to find, or will offer special challenges to get there (say, located near a football stadium that www.premierbride.com PREMIER BRIDE • 21

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RECEPTION has a home game on your wedding day) you should consider providing transportation for your guests from the ceremony site, and back to their cars after the reception. Size and layout. Will everything happen in one big room, or in separate rooms for the cocktail hour, dinner, dancing? Will it comfortably hold the number of tables you’ll need, and will everyone dine in the same room? Is there room for a band or DJ, and for cocktail hour musicians, if you’re having them? Privacy. If your venue does multiple events, find out if there are other bookings on the same day or time as yours. If so, ensure that there will be adequate privacy and separation for your celebration. There should also be ample time in between events to 22 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

allow your caterer or other service people to set up or break down your party. Parking. Make sure there is convenient, well-lighted, ample parking for your guests, and if not, find out if valet service is available. Technical details. Whether you intend to have a DJ or a band, inquire about possible restrictions regarding the type, volume or duration of music. Be sure to confirm that there is an adequate power supply for speakers, mixers and amplifiers, or good acoustics for string and wind instruments. Some sites have built-in public-address systems which can be used for introductions and toasts. If your site of choice doesn’t offer this equipment, make sure your DJ or musicians can provide it.

RECEPTION Room décor. Most sites offer a neutral background to work with, but make sure the flooring, wall coverings and colors will work with the style and season of your wedding. Services offered. Be clear, with each site visited, exactly what is and is not included. From catering and wait staff, to candles and chairs… get those details up front. A note about outdoor receptions If you’re planning an outdoor reception, it’s critical to have a backup plan in case of inclement weather. Planning for an outdoor reception is usually much more work overall, because you have to provide for everything from the salad forks to the tents to the chairs, and you may need to change plans at the last minute due to the weather! For

these reasons, it’s highly recommended that you use an experienced wedding coordinator if you want an outdoor reception – this will ease your workload, and your stress, immensely. Down to details As with any wedding vendor, make sure that all details are outlined in writing, and use a credit card whenever possible when making payments so that you have more protection in the unlikely event of a problem. You should feel very comfortable with your contact person, and feel that they respond in a timely and efficient manner to your questions and requests. Visit premierbride. com’s online wedding planner for a comprehensive list of questions to ask potential reception sites, and other great wedding planning help.

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Memorable Times Begin at the Tundra Your Vision….Your Day….Our Expertise

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FOR LOVE OR MONEY managing a budget

Whether you prefer an open-air party under the stars or a sophisticated soiree in a grand hall, budgeting for your wedding reception can be quite a balancing act. Common sense will go a long way in helping you save money without sacrificing the elegance of your day. Budget Building The first order of business is to discuss and agree upon a firm, realistic budget. Keep in mind that the average cost of a wedding in 2007 is around $28,000. The reception will account for approximately 37 percent of this amount. Be sure to go to premierbride.com and download our complete budget to help in your planning.

Choosing the Date and Time The spring months of April, May and June and the fall months of September, October and November are considered peak wedding months. This is the time of year when most ceremonies and reception sites, caterers, musicians and florists are all booked at premium rates. The festive month of December, filled with holiday parties, is also considered a peak month. The more economical dates are the offseason winter months of January, February and March and the summer months of July and August. In addition to season, the day of the week can influence cost. Saturdays have long been the most popular day for weddings. You might consider Friday evening or Sunday for your celebration. Most wedding-related services and

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Surround your guests in classic ambiance in rooms accommodating 20-300 guests. • In-house decorating services • Round table seating • Flexible menu plans • Full-service wedding professonals

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FOR LOVE OR MONEY reception sites will negotiate better rates for weddings held on off days. The Guest List Once the reception budget has been determined, you will need to address the size of the guest list. This is an all-important factor because the number of people you choose to invite will have the greatest impact on the overall cost, affecting everything from invitations to rentals and catering. Be sensible. If cost is an issue, the guest list will have to be modified.

economical. The menu is limited to two or three main courses with set portions that are pre-plated and served to guests. Buffets offer a variety of choices, but can be a bit costly due to the lack of portion control and the need to have more food available to keep serving trays looking fresh. Serving a substantial variety of hors d’oeuvres at mealtime may seem to be an economical choice, but these tasty, labor-intensive treats can easily equal or exceed the per-person cost of a buffet or a sit-down meal.

Managing the Menu When planning a menu based on budget, discuss your finances realistically with your caterer. Their calculations are usually based on per-person cost, and can assist you in planning a menu. Sit-down meals are usually the most

Budgeting for Beverages The preferred choice for beverage service is an open bar, which is also the most expensive because charges are usually assessed at a fixed, hourly, per-person rate, regardless of consumption. Closing the bar at

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FOR LOVE OR MONEY mealtime then reopening it after dinner is one way to trim costs. Serving a sparkling wine punch is a delicious and economical way to keep costs down. Another option is to supply the alcohol and soft drinks yourself, prearranging the return of any unopened bottles to your local liquor store for a full refund. Taking the Cake The cost of your wedding cake hinges on the size of your guest list, since wedding cakes are usually priced per slice. If you’re on a budget, it can be more economical to order a fairly small yet fancy cake to catch your guest’s attention, while serving the majority of people from simpler sheet cakes made from the exact same ingredients. Financing Flowers Flowers in season at the time of your wedding are more cost-effective than those out of season. Simple, hand-tied arrangements for your bridesmaids are not as labor intensive as traditional bouquets, and therefore are usually less expensive. Try to let your ceremony arrangements do double duty at the reception buffet and head tables. Place seasonal annuals in decorative pots at the guest’s tables. These flowers are simple, inexpensive and sentimental favorites, and guests may take them home afterward as a memento of the day. As you negotiate prices with vendors, remember to get all arrangements in writing. Do not accept any oral contracts or promises, and be sure your vendor spells out the services you will be paying for. Find out precisely what deposits are required, when they are due, and the conditions and time frames for possible refunds.

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THE CANDIES TABLE

a new and different twist to satisfy every guest’s sweet tooth Sure, the wedding cake is a tried and true part of weddings since before any of us can remember. But why give your guests one measly piece of cake when you could let them indulge in a buffet full of candy? A candy table is the latest

trend in wedding desserts, and it’s not difficult to figure out why. It can be as casual or upscale as you like, it’s the perfect accent to any reception venue, it’s fun and personal, and most importantly it will leave your guests enchanted and sweetly sated. Here’s how to make your candy buffet the talk of the town. Choose Your Sweets Remember candies and sweets come in every shape, size and delectability, so take your guests, venue and design into account, then choose your treats accordingly. For an outdoor, casual wedding full of light and color, you might want to go for a rainbow of whimsical variety with bright rock candy, every hue of jelly bean, gummies, silly-shaped chocolates, lollipops, gumballs, striped candy canes and a chocolate fountain with marshmallows and fruit. 28 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

An indoor, more upscale formal event could call for candies such as toffees, exquisite varieties of chocolate bars, biscotti cookies, decorative chocolatecovered pretzels and strawberries, macaroons, pastry puffs and sugar or yogurt coated nuts and raisins. Design Like your sweet selection, your design can match your wedding. For something casual and playful, arrange your colorful candies in clear jars of every shape and size like an old candy store. A more upscale look could present your desserts in classy giant martini glasses or on small decorative plates arranged on different levels over an expansive, dramatically lit table. Custom-order candies or candy wrappers to stick within your color scheme. Only choosing candies of two or three colors also creates a striking design. Another fun idea is to put two or three different candy containers at each individual table as centerpieces so guests can mix and match as they mingle between tables. Like Kids in Candy Stores! Once you’ve decided on your sweets and display, get ready to let sweet teeth run wild. Prepare fun dessert plates, plastic bags, or oversized wine glasses where guests can collect their treats. Make sure every separate serving dish has a decorative scooper so fingers don’t dirty the delights, then step back and let the inner child in all your guests pick and choose from the tasty array. As guests are leaving, give them an artsy, monogrammed bag and ask them to peruse the buffet again for an edible wedding favor.

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CHILD ATTENDANTS

8 tips to for using kids in your ceremony

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Children can be a wonderful part of a wedding ceremony, full of joy and spirit. It does take a little extra thought, planning and accommodation, however, to include them successfully. We’ve compiled a list of helpful tips and things to consider, to make your wedding celebration a kid-friendly event! #1 – Consider their ages. Young children are adorable, to be sure, but their behavior is unpredictable (to be sure), so if you do include them, be prepared for the unexpected. Imagine a threeyear-old tugging on your dress during the heart of your wedding ceremony and asking in a loud, clear voice “are we done yet?” Does this fill you with dread, or make you warm and fuzzy? Do what feels most comfortable to you, taking into consideration your personalities, your families and your wedding style. #2 – Ask in person. For older children, ask them in person to be a part of your wedding (after running it by their parents first.) This makes them feel involved, important and honored. #3 – Spend time with them. Try to include them in pre-wedding events and activities, and just generally spending time with them before the wedding so that they feel connected and involved. Again, this is more important for older children, and is certainly dependent on their age, interest and hometown (whether they live near you or not.) The point here is simply to make sure they don’t just feel like a ‘prop’ in the wedding, but instead, a valued and important participant in this honored event. #4 – Rehearse! Be sure to include them in the rehearsal, so they feel

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CHILD ATTENDANT TIPS more comfortable with what is going to happen, how and when. Even young kids will benefit, by making everything feel more comfortable and familiar. #5 – A special gift. Consider making or purchasing a special gift for them, to honor their participation. This will also help them remember this special event and their involvement. Gifts will vary widely by age; some ideas are in the article below. #6 – Keep parents close. For younger children, keep parents seated up front. It’s ideal if young children can walk down the aisle with someone (a parent, bridesmaid or groomsman), and then sit down immediately with their parents in front. It’s way too much to expect a young child to stand quietly up front during the whole ceremony! #7 – Oh goody, goody bags. Goody bags at the reception (or even during the

ceremony, if they’re filled with non-messy, quiet items) for kids are a great way to keep them entertained for awhile. Babysitters, special kids’ meals, art supplies on a table in the corner, and videos playing in a corner or adjoining room – these are all good ideas if children will be participating in your Big Day. #8 – Need a nap? For young children, be sure to take their nap and bed times into consideration! Tired children are impossible, trust me on that. . . If your rehearsal or wedding will take place after their bedtime, or during their nap time, you may want to reconsider the extent of their involvement. Perhaps instead of walking down the aisle as a flower girl, they could dress up in a special outfit, and be carried by Mom or Dad, with a trusted babysitter nearby ready to take them home when necessary.

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WEDDING COLORS choosing your favorites

The wedding colors that you inevitably decide on will play a big part in setting the mood of your wedding and theme as well. For example, a beach wedding might be perfect with natural colors that complement the sea and sky. Overall, when you choose your wedding colors you are also choosing the look and feel of the bridesmaid dresses, the flowers, the invitations and even the look of the ceremony and reception. One thing to keep in mind in regards to bridesmaid dresses is the material. The truth is you can get by with almost any color anytime of year as long as the material is right. You don’t want your bridesmaids in wool dresses in Florida, nor should you opt to have the

material that of chiffon in the middle of December in Chicago. Colors make an impression on people so let’s take a look at the many options to choose from depending on the season. • Spring and Summer: Periwinkle Blue, Mint Green, Ice Blue, Lilac, Yellow and Gold • Fall and Winter: Navy Blue, Crepe Red, Deep Dark Red, Black, Tango Red, Deep Blue, Cinnamon, Hunter Green One of the most important things to remember is that when you mix color you want to make sure they coordinate just right. Some colors are better in the background while perhaps that tango red you have your eye on is apt to stand out for more than the accompanying yellow or gold. www.premierbride.com PREMIER BRIDE • 33

WEDDING COLORS Start with a base color and follow that with lighter and darker shades in the same color family. Another example would be two or three colors that complement one another easily. Take yellow, yellow and green and then have the additional green tones accent as well. Depending on the season and how festive you want to be you can have fun with winter, spring, summer and fall. Since many brides choose the summer for their big day let’s start there. Bright colors are always popular during this most beautiful time of the year. A good idea it to take advantage of all the flowers that are in bloom during the summer months from pink to red to yellow to bright blues and purples. Summer is also a time to enjoy the sun so you could choose yellow or gold for

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the occasion and add some touches of pastel for a soft touch on invitations and reception accents. Popular summer colors include teal paired with silver. You can also dye flowers teal to play up the mood and atmosphere. What about red and pink? Roses are the perfect flower for this color scheme. Many couple choose autumn to say their “I do’s” and this season bespeaks bold colors with a touch of harvest. It’s a time when the leaves are falling from the trees and burnt orange, gold and red are in the air. It might not be a bad idea to incorporate brown during this time of year and consider matching it with terra cotta or copper or even ivory. Red is always popular during the autumn season and can be matched with deep red roses to keep the mood one of love.

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WEDDING COLORS For winter think the holidays, snow and cozy fireplaces that make this season one of the most romantic of all. While stark silvers and blues are an option, the color of evergreen also promises the mood will be festive. Flowers can be a combination of pine cones, holly leaves and even snow and ice. Since silver is such a popular winter color matching accents might include burgundy or navy blue. The spring is when everything begins to grow again. Pastel colors are popular during this time of year so think white, pink and even lavender. Flowers that go well with a light color scheme are tulips and peonies. Keep the wedding light and airy like the season and a dreamy feeling will surely abound. When you do pick the colors for your wedding make sure you can get the bridesmaid dresses in this color as well, even before you begin ordering the other necessities. For flowers, if you must have a certain type then you can work around the flower colors to determine the final color choices. Remember too that the colors you choose, no matter the season, should not clash with the church or banquet facility. Finally, invitations should reflect the color of your wedding, but can also reflect the season as well. In the winter snowmen or appropriate and in the fall you might think of apples and fallen leaves. If you are planning a theme wedding think of the location as well as the color. Evening weddings can be a little brighter than day time weddings and for medieval themes go with heavy material and colors to reflect that time period. Overall, the best wedding is the one that you add the special touches to incorporating you and your spouseâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s ideas into the biggest event of your life.

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There are many different types of weddings from Jewish weddings, to Catholic masses to Pagan handfasting. It’s all a matter of your choice and comfort level. Besides, it’s your big day and should be celebrated in whatever way you and your spouse choose. In the traditional American wedding many things come into play beginning with where the ceremony will be held as well as the reception. Churches for the ceremony and country clubs or banquet halls for the reception and dinner are by far the most popular choices. However, even when you do opt for a traditional American wedding there are still many different religions and backgrounds that must be taken into consideration. Just because you might be Catholic does not mean that he or his family will be. The most popular religious weddings are Protestant, Catholic, Jewish, Buddhist and Muslim. While these five are the most popular, they can differ greatly. The Protestant religion does not have the strict rules and regulations as other religions. Couples can get married in gardens, on beaches or even in the reception hall. Vows are exchanged and candles are lit to show unity. For the Catholic wedding there is usually more ceremony since weddings are one of the seven sacraments in the Catholic religion. An assortment of activities must take place even before the wedding, for example meeting with the priest. At the ceremony first communion is

DIFFERENT WEDDINGS served and three verses must be read. The wedding must also take place indoors. During the vows those in attendance are required to stand and a mass is also a part of the ceremony. This is actually why Catholic weddings take much longer than many other faiths. Rules for the Jewish faith include the fact that weddings can not take place on the Sabbath or a celebrated Jewish holiday. The ceremony can be held outside, however it has to be under a Chuppah. This represents the husband who is bringing the wife into his home. The ring ceremony is very important when the exchange takes places. Additionally, there is the blessing of the wine, the reading of the Ketubah and finally the breaking of the glass.

Buddhist weddings are one of the simplest affairs of all. The couple actually holds the ceremony themselves and the O juju is used to offer prayers. The O juju is a 21-bead strand that most Buddhists use in their religious affairs. Additionally, incense is used to make offerings to Buddha. A different type of wedding all together is the Muslim wedding ceremony that lasts no more than five minutes. The five minutes consists of singing the wedding contract. This is followed by a much longer affair, which could last up to two or three days. During this two or three day period, food of all types is served to the guests. Following the multi-day ceremony the bride is taken in the air and officially handed off to the groom. At this point the feasting and celebration is over.

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Phone Number(s)

Number of See Page Reception Available for More Room Capacity Banquet Information Range Rooms

Number of Months to Schedule Facility

Average Price per Person

800-397-3638

150-175

Varies

920-720-8000

25-400

$25 or less

BRETT FAVRE’S STEAKHOUSE 1004 Brett Favre Pass, Green Bay

920-499-6874

20-350

6-12

$25 or less

BUTTE DES MORTS COUNTRY CLUB 3600 W. Prospect Ave., Appleton

920-738-5555

300

$25 inclusive

COBBLESTONE CREEK DINING & BANQUET 740 W. Ryan (Hwy 10 West), Brillion

920-756-3214

600

6-12

$25 or less

COPPERLEAF BOUTIQUE HOTEL & SPA 300 W. College Ave., Appleton

877-303-0303

$25 - $50

THE FOUR SEASONS ISLAND RESORT N16800 Shoreline Drive, Pembine

715-324-5244

300

$18 - $25

FOX BANQUETS RIVERTYME CATERING, INC. 111 E. Kimball St., Appleton GARDEN OF THE FOX CITIES 1313 E. Witzke Blvd., Appleton GERMANIA 320 Chute St., Menasha

920-731-7271

450

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920-993-1900

75-300

Varies

920-725-6666

300

$25 or less

920-968-2621

100-650

1-12

$25 or less

920-490-9457

20-215

2-3

Varies

920-569-7515

10-1000

$20 - $50

920-294-3344

20-350

$35 to $60

HERITAGE HILL STATE HISTORICAL PARK 2640 S. Webster Ave., Green Bay

920-448-5150

25-200

Varies

HOLIDAY INN NEENAH RIVERWALK 123 E. Wisconsin Ave., Neenah

920-725-8441

400

$25 or less

GRAND MERIDIAN 2621 N. Oneida St., Appleton GREEN BAY BOTANICAL GARDEN 2600 Larsen Rd., Green Bay GREEN BAY PACKERS/ LAMBEAU FIELD ATRIUM 1265 Lombardi Ave., Green Bay HEIDEL HOUSE RESORT & SPA 643 Illinois Avenue, Green Lake

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Phone Number(s)

Number of See Page Reception Available for More Room Capacity Banquet Information Range Rooms

Number of Months to Schedule Facility

Average Price per Person

HOLIDAY INN HOTEL & CONVENTION CENTER 715-344-0200 1001 Amber Ave., Stevens Point

20-600

12-14

$25 to $50

THE HOLLYHOCK HOUSE & GARDENS 1408 Dodge St., Kewaunee HOTEL SIERRA/ KI CONVENTION CENTER 333 Main St., Green Bay

920-388-3445

20-200

6-12

$25 or less

920-432-4555 800-236-3330

25-1700

$25 or less

LANDMARK RESORT 7643 Hillside Rd., Egg Harbor THE MARINER 1100 Hyland Avenue, Kaukauna THE MARQ 3177 French Rd., DePere THE MEADOWS CONFERENCE CENTER 850 Kepler Drive, Green Bay MENOMINEE CASINO Hwy 47/55 Duquaine Road, Keshena

800-273-7877

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6-12

$16.95

920-766-0898

300

$20 or less

920-532-4811

100-600

3-12

$25 or less

920-465-6700

400

6-12

$25 or less

800-343-7778

600

6-12

$15 to $20

920-437-7623

400

Varies

920-739-2386

50-300

$17.95 or more

920-424-1330

20-800

12-18

$25 or less

920-809-0131

200

N/A

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10-200

1-18

N/A

700

2-4

$20 or less

920-733-8000

1150

$25 or less

920-722-2979

20-350

6-12

$25 or less

920-921-3636

20, 42

300

3-12

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Number of See Page Reception Available for More Room Capacity Banquet Information Range Rooms

Number of Months to Schedule Facility

Average Price per Person

920-498-1989

40-800

$25 or less

920-434-7501

350

3-12

$20-$30

920-830-7855

225

6-12

$25 - $50

920-405-8700

20-350

12+

$15 or more

920-766-2291

Up to 500

6-12

$25 or less

920-787-5519

25-325

2-12

$25 or less

300

N/A

920-231-6800

LAKESHORE FOX HILLS RESORT 250 W. Church St., Mishicot

800-950-7615

100-500

$25 or less

WOODFIELD CARRIAGE HOUSE & GARDENS W305 Foundry Rd., Kiel

920-286-2899

20-300

Varies

WAUPACA BEST WESTERN GRAND SEASONS HOTEL 110 Grand Seasons Drive, Waupaca

715-258-9212

300

9-12

Varies

WAUPACA ALE HOUSE 201 Foxfire Drive, Waupaca

715-942-2424

500

$25 or less

Phone Number(s)

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Yacht Capacity Range

Number of Yachts Available

Average Price per Person

920-707-LADY

164

149

$25

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CATERING Step 1: Start the search. Your search begins once you have selected your reception site. Some locations require that you use their in-house caterer or banquet department, which makes your choice fairly simple. These locations include hotels, country clubs and some of the more unusual facilities such as museums, boats or historical homes. You may also be asked to select an independent caterer from a pre-approved list. If you are in a position to select your own caterer, try to narrow down your list to no more than three; otherwise, you will be tasting food for a month. When you call each caterer, have as much information ready as possible such as your wedding date, time of day, approximate number of guests and the degree of formality and style. If you have any general menu ideas or preferences, let the caterer know so they can be better prepared for your initial meeting. If possible, have them send you some sample wedding menus and references to review beforehand. Step 2: Determine your service style. At the initial meeting, caterers will want to discuss your tastes and budget in detail. Your choices will most likely include the following options: a sit-down meal, a buffet, passed hors d’oeuvres or food stations. Your caterer will be able to describe all of these options and their appropriateness for the time of day, number of guests and style. Step 3: Schedule a tasting. When you finally narrow down your service style, most caterers will ask to arrange a time for you and your fiancé to sample their cuisine. This is called a tasting, and it usually takes place at the

CATERING caterer’s establishment. It may coincide with another event they’re catering and they will simply prepare two extra meals. If you’ve indicated a preference for the less ordinary, however, they may prepare some of their more unusual items for your approval. Step 4: Design the menu. Start by searching through magazines, web sites, and bridal shows to clarify your likes and dislikes, along with anything you know you want or don’t want. Armed with this information, work closely with your caterer to craft the perfect wedding menu for you and your guests. The number of guests you expect at your wedding, level of formality, the time of day and your budget all have great influence on your menu selection… so rely on the professional experience of your caterer to take all of these elements into consideration. When selecting your menu items you might also want to bear in mind that there is a real trend towards “healthy eating” and you may have a few vegetarians as well. Step 5: Calculate the cost. Once you’ve selected a caterer, it’s time to get down to business. Money. Most caterers base their prices on a per-person cost. Facilities with in-house catering departments may have a minimum charge or set-up fee, while an off-premises caterer will usually work within any reasonable, agreed-upon budget. It’s relatively easy to calculate the overall food cost, which equals the number of guests multiplied by the cost per person. Some caterers offer lower prices or special menus for children, so be sure to let them know the number of children in attendance. Mentally add an additional 10 percent for overage, www.premierbride.com PREMIER BRIDE • 47

CATERING and 15 to 20 percent for a gratuity, if appropriate. Remember, typically the wedding cake is not included in the meal cost. Your final guest count is usually required one week before the event. This will be the minimum number of people for which you will actually be charged. Most caterers will plan on the addition of a few last-minute guests and will add the meals to the bill after the wedding. Although it is not required, you may consider including meals for wedding-related personnel, such as the DJ, musicians, photographer and consultant. If cost is an issue, ask your caterer about “vendor meals.” These meals are more casual than the guest menu and are offered at a lower cost per person. Remember to get specifics as to what

extras are included in the caterer’s charges, such as table linens, plates, glasses, crystal, silverware and service pieces. Step 6: Plan the help. Once the menu is finalized, the next step is determining the number of wait staff you will need to serve your feast and keep your reception running smoothly. Your caterer will certainly help with this, but a general guideline is one server for every 10 to 12 guests for a sit-down dinner. In addition, providing a full and open bar will require more staffing than a limited bar with wine, beer and soft drinks. Be sure to confirm the proper attire for the wait staff beforehand so it is in keeping with the degree of formality for your reception.

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CATERING Step 7: Finalize the details, in writing. Specify the day, date and time; the address of the site; food items by course and the number of guests covered; provisions for special meals; the time of the cocktail hour; the time the meal will be served; contact people, including someone from your end with whom the caterers can consult; the number of servers and bartenders and their uniforms; linens; beverages to be served and bar guidelines; terms of payment; and liability insurance. Typically, an advance deposit is due when you sign the contract and remember to check on the cancellation policy for unforeseen events. UNIQUE IDEAS IN CATERING Please pass the potatoes. If you love spuds, consider a “mashed potato bar” serving a delicious variety of mashed potatoes, served in martini glasses and drizzled with the guest’s choice of gravy or sauce. A trip around the world. Give your guests a culinary trip across the globe, with a variety of food stations offering a wide range of ethnic food… Moroccan, Italian, Asian, French, to name a few ideas. Personalize your “cheers!” Work with your experienced bartender to create a custom cocktail to serve during cocktail hour. Name it after the two of you, or after something near and dear to your hearts. Sweet tooth? In addition to your wedding cake, or instead of it, entice your guests with a dessert table such as a cannoli bar, an ice cream buffet or a mini-pastry display.

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WEDDING CONSULTANTS what can they do for you?

You have just accepted the most amazing wedding proposal and now you and your fiancé are planning how to spend the rest of your life together. First, however, you have to get through the wedding. Former brides and grooms will tell you the secret to a stress-free wedding experience: get help. In a survey by SuperWeddings.com and the International Institute of Weddings, 72% of recently married brides who did not use a wedding coordinator for their weddings said that based on their experience, if they had to do it over again, they would hire a wedding coordinator to assist with the planning, or at least be on hand to supervise the wedding day

itself. 49% reported that if they could only change one thing about the entire wedding, this would be the thing they would do differently! Learn from those who have walked the aisle before you, and don’t underestimate the overwhelmingly huge job planning a wedding can be. Most couples today are very busy, both working full-time, and don’t necessarily have any experience at event planning. Planning a wedding includes endless details to arrange, logistics to organize, large numbers of service providers to coordinate and contracts to negotiate... it’s no wonder most people end up wishing they had some experienced help with all these details!

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WEDDING CONSULTANTS Often, couples don’t even consider a wedding consultant because they assume that only couples with huge budgets and lavish weddings need one, or can afford one. Not true! Consultants can do as much or as little as you need, and can work with any budget. If you explain, “our budget is $20,000,” then they’ll help you figure out the best way to allocate that money, which includes their fee. Often, they can actually save you money with special discounts or experienced knowledge of the best deals and money-saving ideas, so they can help pay for themselves! Or, if your budget is tight, consider using them for just part of the wedding – for example, just the flowers, decorations and dayof coordination. At the very least, have help on the wedding day itself. Just having an experienced professional on-hand to make sure that everything and everybody is where they need to be, when they need to be, would be a huge weight off your shoulders, giving you the freedom to really enjoy your day. If you decide to use a consultant, the most important thing to do is choose someone you like. While there are many good consultants in the business, finding one that suits your temperament, fits with your overall personality and is enjoyable to be around is the real key to success. Other things to consider: Does the consultant care about what you want? Is he/she a good listener? Is the consultant prepared for the meeting, and does he/she appear organized? Does he/she have good experience, appropriate skills and interesting ideas? Remember also to ask for and check references.

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NATURAL WAIST Falls at your actual waistline, slightly above your belly button

PEPLUM A short flounce or overskirt that is attached at the waist.

BALLET LENGTH Hemline falls just above the ankles.

STREET LENGTH Hem falls just below the knee.

BOUFFANTBALL GOWN Very full skirt gathered at the waist, usually worn over a crinoline slip.

TEA LENGTH Hemline falls below the knee, usually 8-10 inches from the floor.

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Nothing sets the mood like a sparkling runway for your reception entrance, a dramatic backdrop to the cake and other focal points or a sensual blaze that falls on your first dance. One popular new way to customize is emblazoning monogrammed spotlights on the wall or head tablecloth. Monograms can be as bold or subtle as you like, and look best when there is a sharp contrast, such as a dramatic cobalt blue against a dark wall. In a venue with drab walls, utilize backdrops to transform the room. Drape mesh overlay that’s in your color scheme from the ceiling to the floor as if it were a tent, then use twinkle lights, striking spotlights, crystals or whimsical orbs to illuminate the backdrop and bring personality to the room.

If your venue doesn’t give you that much freedom with lighting, create a beautifully lit focal point. It could be spotlights on a stunning cake, a flirty archway entrance or an eye-catching tree dazzled with crystals or small candles. Candles are the most time-tested and romantic form of light. Use them with care. First, make sure they’re in fire-proof and child-friendly places. Then, the secret to candles is irregularity. Arrange different sizes and shapes along mismatched levels to add mystery and make the enlightened objects dance. Whatever lighting you decide on, don’t underestimate the importance of the rays. They’ll be the backdrop of the pictures and memories you and your guests will remember as your perfect day.

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PARTY RENTALS every last detail

Depending on where you choose to hold your reception, you may find yourself in need of certain items not provided by your reception facility. The term “party rentals” covers a variety of rental items, including linens, chair covers, tables and chairs, tents, dance floors, fountains, plants, props and theme decorations. If you are holding your reception in a hotel, most of the items listed above may be included in the overall cost. The need for various rental items increases when the event is held outdoors or at an event facility where you are required to provide your own caterer. Before contacting a rental company it is recommended that you have the following information available: • Exactly what items are provided by the caterer: glass, flatware, china, buffet linens, and so on. • Any items provided by the facility: tables, chairs, portable bar, and so on. • Your event date, time and location

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REGISTRY If registering for gifts is on your current to-do list, then read on for all the nuts & bolts – so should we say cups & bowls – of gift registries. WHEN SHOULD WE START? Start four to six months before the wedding (or earlier!) so that you’re ready for any engagement parties, showers or eager guests. Don’t stress about getting it all done perfectly right away – you can always edit your selections or add more later. If there aren’t many items left about a month before the wedding, add more, so there’s enough selection left for the rest of your guests. Remember too that you don’t have to get this all done in one day! Take your time, and make your selections thoughtfully. If you start early enough, you can take a couple weeks to

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invites. After all, your wedding invites are a gracious request to join you on your special day – not a demand for gifts, so don’t let them sound like one! THANK YOU NOTES Your guests have been kind enough to send you a lovely gift, so be sure to behave like the kind, gracious couple that you are, and send that thank you note promptly! For gifts received before the wedding, send the note out within two weeks at the most. Trust us on this: you will not have “more time” after the wedding, and the more you stay on top of the thank you notes, the easier it will be. For gifts received at the wedding, send the thank you notes within four weeks, but certainly – the earlier, the better. Make sure your thank you notes are personal, handwritten and timely. AFTER THE WEDDING Most stores will keep your gift registry for at least a year after your wedding date, and they’ll often offer a discount to you for items still on your list. This is a great opportunity to see what items you still want and/or need, and perhaps use some of your wedding gift cards or gifts of cash to acquire these. The original purpose of bridal registries was to help new couples, who often were quite young and had very little, start off their new life together as a new family in a new home. No matter what your situation today, these gifts of love send you into your new life together with the joy and affection of those closest to you. Cherish these gifts, show your gratitude and count your blessings.

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If there is one thing a new bride can be sure of, it’s that she’ll receive wonderful wedding gifts, many of them items she never owned before such as crystal, china and the like. Though some of the gifts will be meant for immediate wear and tear, others will become timeless treasures, meant to remind you of the lasting love and commitment. By caring properly for your treasures you can use them now, and still make them last a lifetime.

Silver Holloware Silver bowls, trays and candlesticks should be stored in treated silver-storage pouches to prevent tarnishing. To prevent scratching your furniture, attach stick-on felt dots to the bottom of heavy pieces. Should your silver show signs of tarnish, purchase an easy-to-use tarnish remover and follow the instructions.

Stemware Store your stemware suspended upside down on a rack or upright on a shelf to prevent chipping. Crystal Hand washing is recommended, so place a protective rubber nozzle on the faucet to guard against breaking or chipping should you bump a glass on it. When rinsing your crystal, keep in mind that the hotter the water, the more quickly it will evaporate and the less handling your crystal will require. Should you use the dishwasher, place glasses on the top rack only. Avoid putting platinum or gold-accented glassware in the dishwasher since the decorative metal will wear off over time. Avoid moving your glasses from one extreme temperature to another. Silver Flatware Wash silver flatware by hand in hot, sudsy water and follow with a hot rinse. Dry by hand. Immediately after drying, place in a tightly closed drawer or a chest lined with tarnish-proof cloth.

China Check the care instructions for your china before putting it in the dishwasher, oven or microwave. Do not use steel wool or harsh abrasive cleaners, as these products can damage the glaze. Place a piece of cloth, paper plate or felt between china plates to keep them from scratching each other. Linens Always clean linens immediately after use to prevent stains from setting in. Spray tablecloths with a fabric protector. Insuring Your Gifts If you receive many gifts of notable worth, you might want to consider adding a rider on your homeowners insurance policy to cover them. The policy is fairly inexpensive and will be well worth the peace of mind it will bring.

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It may be hard to imagine now, but after many months of hard work and detailed planning, your wedding day will suddenly arrive… and zooooom! The hours will fly by in a blur of beautiful, moving, memorable moments. And after the cake has been eaten, the dress has been carefully put away, and the gifts have been opened – you and your new spouse will be left with the most precious gift of all: memories of your special day. 4

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PHOTOGRAPHY There is simply no better way to capture and preserve these memories than with a collection of beautiful photographs that not only document the day and its events, but also embody the emotions and spirit of your wedding. Quite frankly, this is simply not a component of your wedding planning to treat lightly! Invest the time, attention and budget necessary to ensure that your wedding memories will be preserved for the future. WHAT’S YOUR STYLE? Start by determining which style of wedding photography is right for you and your fiancé. Here are brief descriptions of the three main styles: Formal or traditional This style produces color, posed portraits of you and your groom, your

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wedding party, and your families, along with all of the traditional wedding moments such as the cake cutting and bouquet/garter toss. Photojournalistic This style is a popular trend in wedding photography, and it means your photographer will be shooting your wedding as if it’s a news event, capturing hundreds of candid moments on film. These photographers tend to use more black & white film, for a classic, timeless and emotional effect. Artistic Artistic photographers use a variety of special effects to create a dramatic, one-of-a-kind piece of art. Effects could include double exposures, hand tinting, special borders and much more.

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PHOTOGRAPHY Most photographers offer a blend of two or more styles, but tend to specialize in, and focus on, just one. If you like the photojournalistic style, but want some posed formal portraits to showcase your families or the day’s special moments, find a photographer that can comfortably do both. So which style is right for you? The first step is to think about the end

product: what is most important to you, to have after your wedding? Do you definitely want to have beautiful, timeless, color portraits of you and your groom that you can elegantly frame and display? Do you want a large number of candid, heartfelt moments – many captured in black & white, to document your day? Are you envisioning a one-of-a-kind, artistic piece to hang on your wall after the wedding that incorporates one or more images from the big event? To help you, take a look at friends’ wedding albums, surf around professional photographer’s web sites, clip photos from magazines of photography that moves you, and spend some time in photographers’ booths at wedding shows. All of this research will help you zero in on what style of photography you seem drawn to, and ultimately, which one you want to use for your wedding. HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT PHOTOGRAPHER Once you’ve established the style that is best for you, it’s time to find a professional photographer that meets your needs. Start the process by collecting referrals from friends, reviewing helpful resources like Premier Bride, attending bridal shows

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PHOTOGRAPHY and surfing the Internet. Create a short list of potential photographers that specialize in the style you desire, based on their work and your budget, and set up an in-person or phone consultation with them. Your goal at this consultation is to evaluate three main areas: Do you like their work? Be sure to see complete wedding albums along with individual photos, to get the best idea of the end product you can expect to receive. Also, be very sure that you know exactly WHO will be shooting YOUR wedding – and view their work, as some larger studios have more than one photographer. Do your personalities mesh? Of all your wedding vendors, the photographer is the one vendor with whom you will spend a good deal of time on

your wedding day. You want to feel comfortable with this person! Even if he or she is a great photographer, if your personalities just don’t ‘click’ – you may want to keep looking. Do they fit your budget? It’s so critical to have a budget amount in mind before looking for a photographer, so that you can feel confident that the one you’ve decided on, and love, also meets your financial requirements. THE PHOTOGRAPHY PACKAGE As you’re selecting your photographer, it may help to be aware of the various elements generally included in wedding photography packages. Most photographers also offer these elements ‘a la carte,’ or can create a custom package that specifically meets your needs – so be sure to ask.

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PHOTOGRAPHY Bride & Groom’s Album There are a wide variety of wedding albums available today, and they vary in size, color, material, construction and price. When comparing different photographers’ bride & groom albums, be sure you’re noting the quantity of photos and in what sizes, to make sure you’re comparing “apples to apples.” Parents’ albums The parents’ albums are smaller versions of the bride & groom album, and have traditionally included about twenty 5x7 photographs. Photos should be carefully selected for each family, to create two (or more) custom family albums. Extra prints You will probably want to order extra photographs in addition to the main album

and parents’ albums, for yourself or your parents to have some framed portraits at home, for members of the wedding party, and for other close friends and family members. Don’t underestimate how many prints you will want after the wedding, as this will definitely impact your budget. Proofs Determine how many proofs you will get and in what format. They may be provided as small photos, in digital format, online or on contact sheets. Engagement photograph This is a posed portrait of the newly engaged couple, which can be sent to newspapers with information announcing your engagement. You may also choose to put a framed engagement photo by the guest book at your reception.

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Even though weddings are a testament of very personal love, sometimes the whole day can seem like a cookie-cutter type deal. But there’s almost nothing more personal than a photo, so use those to make your day one of a kind! Here are some suggestions on using images to express yourself in your wedding, from the fun and frivolous to the romantic and intimate. Save-the-date cards and invitations can seem stuffy and predictable - so spice them up with a photo of you two! For the more informal save-thedate, you could pose as characters from your favorite movie or have side-by-side pictures of when you were younger. It makes a more interesting card and gets guests excited for your wedding. For a couple of your photos at the wedding or reception, add a little personality by wearing fun sunglasses, a hat from your favorite sports team, or a very trendy item that might look hideous (“we actually wore THAT!??”) when you look back on the photo 15 years from now. The idea is to incorporate your personalities, and have some fun! Surround your engagement photo with a large, smooth, white mat, and display it with nice pens at the reception for people to sign. You’ll have a personal touch around a beautiful photo of the day. Have guests bring a memory card of photos of the two of you, and ask someone to set them up with a photo frame at the reception. Embarrassing or un-flattering - let everyone see all the sides of your relationship! Especially at huge reception halls and banquet rooms, the place can seem large 102 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

and impersonal. By adding pictures from your parents and grandparents weddings framed nicely throughout the room, the room will become a little more intimate. It’s also a nice way to honor deceased relatives or long-standing marriages. Many couples have a disposable camera or two at each table - let everyone from the flower girl to your great-grandpa snap a few and have them turn it in at the end of the night to see what everyone was up to! Here’s a fun, crowd-pleasing, partyenhancing idea: rent a photo booth to have at the reception! Your guests will have a great time entering the booth, posing for photos both lovely and silly, and enjoying the black & white or color prints. Put some scissors, gluesticks, pens and scrapbook pages on a table by the booth, for guests to leave one of their photos for you, along with a little note. Looking for a wedding gift for your fiancé? Give him a chic, “for his eyes only” boudoir style photograph of yourself that will capture the romance and affection that only you two share. Boudoir photographs are sensual in a posh, tasteful manner and it’s the photographer’s job to capture your personal and natural beauty in the best light. Many brides wear lingerie, their veil, a corset or whatever they feel most sexy in. Accentuate the posh ambiance with draping pearls, heels or rich makeup. Photos can be shot in a hotel room, bedroom or with a lush backdrop in the studio. Ask your photographer if it is part of the package, or find another one to capture an image of you that your husband will cherish forever.

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For most brides-to-be, planning a wedding takes place over the course of many months, each detail carefully deliberated and fine-tuned until it finally all comes together on the big day, typically a year or more after it all began. But with just 18 days to plan her nuptials, Holly Lynn Yaeger didn’t have that luxury. So while time wasn’t on her side, serendipity most definitely was. That’s because Yaeger and her fiancé, Rob Schweitzer, were the lucky winners of a complete wedding package from Visuelle Productions, which included everything needed to make the couple’s big day absolutely perfect. Visuelle’s owner, Susan Diehl, has been helping brides for more than 21 years and with relationships to some of the best wedding vendors in the area, Holly knew she was in good hands. “Rob and I were planning to get married, but we just didn’t have the resources to do everything we wanted 104 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

to do. We never would have had what we ended up getting, thanks to Sue and all the great vendors she works with,” Holly says. “This turned out to be our dream wedding, and it was a total godsend. We had the time of our lives.” Holly chose “Hold Me In Your Heart” as the theme of the day. Because the date was so close to Valentine’s Day, and she had always loved the color red, it made total sense. She worked with Marshall Florist, Kaukauna, to come up with the perfect bouquet. “It was all red roses with four calla lilies, along with some gems for that extra sparkle,” she says. Her attendants each carried three long-stemmed calla lilies with a red rose in the center, tied together with an elegant ribbon. “Red symbolizes love, and I love roses and calla lilies, so the arrangements were breathtaking,” Holly says. Family and friends gathered for an intimate ceremony at Grace Lutheran

Church in Sugarbush, Wis. Holly recalls the near-surreal feeling of the time. “I was really focused on Rob and what he was thinking. I just wanted to remember every detail of how it felt,” she says. “My favorite part was right after the ceremony. It was kind of funny because the pastor never said, ‘You may kiss the bride,’ so I just grabbed Rob and laid one on him!” Prior to heading to the reception at the Tundra Lodge in Green Bay, the wedding party made a stop at historic Lambeau Field. The home of the Green Bay Packers is considered “the crown jewel” of the NFL, and was the perfect backdrop for a fun photography session with Picture This. “We’re all huge Packer fans so that was really cool,” Holly says. “We even got a shot of us next to the Vince Lombardi statue.” Then it was off to the Tundra Lodge for the meal. The wait staff surprised everyone when the group sang and danced to “Be Our Guest” (the iconic song from the Disney movie “The Little Mermaid”) as it served the wedding party. “That was so awesome, and a total surprise,” Holly says. “I later found out that Mike from Advanced Entertainment had organized that which shows you just how much they go above and beyond to make your event special.” During the reception, guests got their pictures taken in a photo booth courtesy of Photobooth NV. “I have to say that having a photo booth was probably one of the coolest things at our wedding,” Holly recalls. “Guests could go in and get their pictures taken and then they were

given a copy and we were, too. It was so neat! It was informal so people were just being themselves and having fun and we just love looking at those pictures.” Now that she’s had a few months to reflect on the most important day of her life, Holly offers some tips for stressed out brides-to-be. “I tell everyone to have a personal attendant,” she says. “I was so paranoid that things weren’t going to get done and having a personal attendant was probably the best thing I could have done. Denise took care of everything and she was my worrywart. A lot of people rely on their mother for that role, but you want your mom to enjoy the day, too. “Another thing I tell everyone is to make sure you talk to the people you’re working with and be honest,” she adds. “If you don’t like something, tell them. Stay true to what you want because you don’t want to regret anything.” Finally, even though it’s often easier said than done, Holly adds, “Just try and relax because it all goes by so fast and you want to appreciate every moment.”

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Nothing can transport you back to your special day like a good quality video. By beautifully capturing the moving sights and sounds, you can revisit your wedding again and again, and relive all of the special details: the rustle of your wedding gown, the nervous cough of the groom before his vows, the emotion in your fatherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s voice during his toast. But plan to spend the time and money necessary to do this right.4

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VIDEO another 35 to 50 hours editing your wedding video, adding graphics and music, and other special effects. For all of the professional equipment, experience, and time you should expect to budget an amount similar to your photography budget. The one comment you will hear from brides and grooms after their wedding, is: “It went so FAST!” A wedding video will transport you back to that special day with outstanding visuals and terrific audio, and even let you catch special moments you would never have seen otherwise. Ask your videographer about showing photo to video montages, rush editing of wedding day highlights, or “Love Story” videos at your reception. Or, create your own customized video display. Music is an important component of these videos. Discuss Photo courtesy Geoffrey Cook Studios

A professional, high quality video is absolutely priceless. The wedding videography field has changed in recent years. The quality has improved dramatically and the final, edited work is more entertaining than ever. Professional videographers have the technology, talent and time necessary to produce an excellent quality video, with clear audio; crisp, in-focus visuals; and sharp editing. A good videographer will remain inconspicuous and capture wonderful, uninhibited moments of you and your guests. Often, you won’t even know you’re being recorded. Your video will have the tears of joy, the laughter, silly “blooper” shots and much more. Professional vidoegraphers will spend anywhere from four to 10 hours with you on your wedding day, and

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VIDEO whether you or you videographer will handle the music. Projectors for these shows are recommended and may be available through the videographer. These upgradeable services are growing in popularity and would add the perfect final touch to your wedding and reception celebration. Your guests will be entertained by these touching and, sometimes, funny slow motion and still images. CHOOSING YOUR VIDEOGRAPHER Watch a videographer’s sample video closely to ensure that it meets your expectations for techniques and quality. Such a sample should allow you to appraise the clarity and stability of the picture and, above all, the videographer’s ability to smoothly 108 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

edit the material together. This is one of the hallmarks of the experienced professional and an excellent reason to not leave this valuable service in the hands of an amateur. Another great feature of a professional video is improved audio. Knowledge of remote microphones and where to position them is key. Listen for clear quality sound during vows, readings, music, toasts, etc. Also, ask to see a copy of the videographer’s contract, and make certain you understand all the costs for the videographer’s work and what he or she will provide. The bottom line is, a professionally recorded and edited wedding video is a priceless treasure to have. There is truly no better way to revisit your special day. It will bring back not only the sights and sounds but…the feelings as well.

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Brian and Megan had been dating for almost three years when one morning Brian woke up extra early (an oddity for a someone working the second shift) and said he was going to the gym and then to visit his father in Two Rivers. He had actually made a trip out to his mother’s house to pick up an engagement ring. Brian picked up Megan and their dog and told her he wanted to go down by a nearby lake. “We walked out on this pier with the dog and then suddenly he was down on one knee. I thought he was kidding.” “But then he started telling me how much he loved me and then he pulled out that ring...” And then Megan knew it was real. “Our wedding theme was ‘autumn’ because it’s our favorite season. We chose cranberry and gold as our colors. My dress was a pale champagne color,” 110 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

explains Megan. For weeks, Megan kept seeing a dress she loved in a magazine. When it came time to go dress shopping, the dress found Megan. “I said ‘This is the one from the magazine!’” The dress turned out to not only be on sale, but the only one in her exact size. In town that day were Megan’s mom, sisters and best friend of fourteen years. Seeing Megan in that dress brought on a chorused cry of “THIS is the one!” While most of the details continued to fall into place, Megan was unsure of how to handle her floral arrangements. “I wasn’t quite sure what I wanted floral wise. We wanted a lot of flowers, but I didn’t know what to do. This was stressful for me. I gave my colors to the florist and let her come up with some ideas.” Painted red branches stood up inside gold mesh netting with an

addition of burning bush were used alternately with arrangements of short vases and floating candles. The result was a stunning, yet earthy effect borne of thoughtful consideration and oldfashioned ingenuity. There were no disappointments when it came to the cake. Very appropriately, it came from The American Club. Simply put by Megan, “We work there and we LOVE their cake!” Megan and Brian chose the signature wedding cake from the pastry kitchen at the American Club. Described as a “delicious combination of cheesecake paired with sponge cake” as well as mousseline and your choice of fresh fruit filling; Megan and Brian’s cake came filled with fresh raspberries. Layered with fondant on the outside, the cake was adorned in cranberry colored satin ribbon.

And so, Megan and Brian were happily married in early October. The bride walked down the aisle to Canon in D and carried ivory roses and burnt orange calla lilies. The men wore all black with touches of cranberry, save for the groom’s ivory vest and tie. In lieu of an immediate honeymoon, the couple plans on taking an island cruise around the time of their one-year anniversary. “We did, however, take a little time off after the wedding to just relax.” Reflecting back on it now, Megan adds, “You know, two of my friends just recently got engaged and I cannot stress this enough - everything will fall into place. Don’t stress out. Things will work out. And if they don’t, you’re the only one who’s going to know.”

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Nothing gets the guests energized like great music. Hire the best band or DJ you can afford. Book the music that makes people want to dance.

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CEREMONY MUSIC The very first step in determining the music for your ceremony is to consider what you want, or what you envision, for your day. Do you want a vocalist? Do you want several musicians there, or just a pianist? It’s helpful to take notice during any weddings you attend while engaged, of what you liked (or didn’t care for) when it came to the ceremony music. Once you and your fiancé have some ideas in mind, seek out wedding musicians by visiting bridal shows, reviewing local bridal publications or online sources such as premierbride.com, or asking for referrals from your ceremony officiant or recently married friends. Or, consider working with a talent/booking agency, which can offer experienced, convenient, one-stopshopping for all of your wedding music needs. Once you’ve found some options, arrange meetings to hear them play in person – if you haven’t heard them live already. Once you’ve determined your ceremony musicians, they can help you select the songs to include in your wedding ceremony – how many, when, and so on. They are usually quite experienced when it comes to weddings, and will be a great resource. (Your officiant will be helpful here as well, so be sure to involve them also.) If you have specific songs in mind already, you’ll be able to hear a preview of exactly what they will sound like on your wedding day. And if you need some ideas, your musicians will be able to guide you and offer plenty of options. COCKTAILS AND DINNER MUSIC The key element during cocktails and dinner is conversation, so the music playing during these times should set the mood, but not intrude. You have

MUSIC three options here: use the musicians that played during your ceremony, use the band or DJ that will be playing at your dance reception, or hire different musicians for this part of the day. If you do decide to have live music, chamber music, classical guitar or perhaps a jazz ensemble are all good choices, and can create a subtle background of entertainment without overpowering conversation. A wellseasoned pianist is another excellent choice, since he or she can supply a wide range of musical styles and perform your guest’s special requests. Or, if you are having a DJ for your dance reception, they can usually provide the cocktails/dinner music as well.

RECEPTION MUSIC You’re married, cocktails and dinner are over, it’s time to kick up your heels and hit the dance floor! This truly is one of the most critical wedding decisions you’ll make, because nothing can make or break a wedding celebration faster than the entertainment. Fortunately, most wedding vendors are talented professionals, and with the tips included here, you’ll be able to confidently select an excellent entertainer for your big day. Your first big question to answer will be “do we want to have live music (a band or orchestra) or a DJ”? While there are pros and cons to both, it really boils down to personal taste and budget. Using live music - a band or orchestra - provides a certain festive energy to the evening, and is a wonderful

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MUSIC option if your budget allows it. The key is to find a band that specifically does weddings, so that they can offer the versatility you need for a good event. Any live entertainment includes breaks, which can interrupt the flow of your evening, so try to come up with a solution that ensures that music is always playing. If the band is large enough, see if the band members can stagger their breaks so that someone is always playing. Or, hire a pianist or DJ to play during the breaks. Also, good, popular bands or orchestras will usually be more expensive than a DJ. They are well worth the expense, of course, since good entertainment is such a critical element of the wedding, but it just doesn’t fit everyone’s budget. And if you can’t afford a GOOD wedding band, then consider a DJ. A DJ can provide a huge variety of music, something for everyone, and is generally less costly than a live band or orchestra. And, no breaks! Here are some of the keys to finding a good wedding DJ: 1) If possible, see them live, in action. 2) Find a vendor that is a good fit with you, personality-wise. Looking for a fun, crazy, get-jiggy-with-it party animal? Or a more upscale, elegant, formal entertainer? 3) Communication is critical. Clarify what songs and events you do and don’t want included, the order of events and other details ahead of time. 4) Ask for, and follow up on, several references. Once you’ve done your homework, selected excellent musicians for every part of your wedding, and nailed down all of the details, you can rest easy. Until, of course, it’s time to start working on your dance moves…

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Carrie Baldwin and Nate Smith were not your typical bride- and groom-to-be and they certainly didn’t want a cookiecutter venue for their wedding reception. Because of that, the Four Seasons Island Resort in Pembine was at the top of their list when they were scouting sites. Located on the majestic Miscauno Island, tucked into the north woods of Wisconsin, the Four Seasons has been dazzling guests since it opened it in 1905. The 55 all-suite hotel offers modern amenities while the resort’s original architecture, charm and relaxing ambiance have been tastefully preserved. Peggy Landwehr, sales manager for weddings and other events at the resort, says that most of the couples she meets have attended an event at the Four Seasons in the past, which spurs them to consider it as the perfect place for their 120 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

own special day. “Simply put, once they see it, they love it,” Landwehr says. “The mystique of the buildings and grounds draws everyone in.” Such was the case with Baldwin and Smith. As a wedding planner, Baldwin has intimate knowledge of the many wedding and reception venues in Northeast Wisconsin. But the classic architecture and history of the resort makes it stand out. She thought it would be perfect for the more intimate wedding and celebration she and her fiancé were planning for October. “I feel that you should only invite the people that when you see them, you know you’ll be hugging them,” she says. “If that means having a smaller wedding, so be it. It’s one day… make it count. And then, make it personal.” From an exchange of hand-written vows to the Army bracelet of Baldwin’s

deceased father that she carried in her bouquet, to the high-heeled ruby red shoes on her feet, the day was filled with unique and personal touches. “Our wedding party was just our family,” she explains. “There was no head table. It was about us and what really matters. Because we weren’t just planning a wedding… we were planning a marriage.” The couple also wanted a whole weekend experience for friends and family members. “People were coming in from as far away as Rhode Island, so it needed to be a whole weekend. This was never going to be just an 8-hour event,” Baldwin says. That meant taking advantage of the number of amenities the Four Seasons has to offer including: a 9-hole golf course, spa with massage therapist services, swimming pool, whirlpool, sauna 24-hour fitness center and equipment and/or guides to enjoy activities including tennis, basketball, horseshoes, sand volleyball, pontoon charters, canoeing, kayaking,

fishing, biking, cross country skiing, ice skating and more. For Baldwin and Smith, the weekend included a golf outing and a casual barbeque the night before. “These kinds of offerings are great for couples like Carrie and Nate and their guests because it’s all kind of a one-stop shop,” Landwehr says. “There are plenty of things for you and your guests to do, and as the bride and groom you won’t feel like you constantly have to entertain everyone.” On the other side of the coin, though, everything at the Four Seasons is customized according to the bride and groom’s desires. “The resort is small enough to be very personal,” Landwehr says. “Everyone will know you by the time you leave.” “Working with Carrie was a blast,” Landwehr says. “She knew what she wanted and we worked together to get what she wanted. She was able to give a little more insight into her desires and we were able to fulfill those desires. It turned out to be really great for everyone.”

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Invitations The first impression

You’ve been planning your dream wedding for months, but for your guests, the invitation is their first glimpse of what’s to come. It provides a clue to the event, and the level of formality, along with some indication of your wedding style: Formal or informal? Modern or traditional? You’ll want an invite that matches… and so, let the search begin!4

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INVITATIONS When to start Like all wedding responsibilities, the earlier you start, the more time you have to search, thoroughly evaluate options, and handle any problems that arise. If possible, order the invitations and other wedding stationery six or more months before the wedding to give yourselves plenty of time for reading and correcting proofs, printing, addressing, stuffing and mailing. Mail the invitations six to eight weeks before the wedding. Let any out-of-town guests who would need to arrange flights and/or hotel rooms about the date as soon as you know it, either informally through conversation, or more formally with a save-the-date card mailed as early as possible. All the parts Wedding invitations are typically comprised of several components, each with a different purpose. There is the ceremony card announcing the details of the ceremony with the optional tissue paper to lay on top (an old custom to protect the other enclosures from stilltacky ink), the reception card if applicable with those details, the response card with its stamped, addressed return envelope, the map if provided which also often includes hotel details for outof-town guests, and the inner and outer envelopes. Some invitations combine these elements, such as including the reception information on the ceremony card, especially if it’s at the same place or immediately following. It’s also possible to simply eliminate some elements (such as the inner envelope or tissue paper covering the ceremony card), particularly for more informal styles. The invitation wording Traditionally, whoever is officially hosting (read: paying for) the wedding is

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INVITATIONS listed first on the wedding invitations. Of course, you can work it out however you like with your families. (This is one area where it’s really important to have good communication between all parties!) Some couples today, who are paying for the majority of the expenses themselves, with help from their mixed and blended families, simply say “Mary Bride and John Groom, together with their families, request the honor of your presence at their marriage…” You could also do a search online to find invitation wording samples and discuss the options with your groom and respective families. Assembling the pieces Wedding invitations are typically comprised of several components: There is the ceremony card announcing the details of the ceremony, the 124 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

reception card with those details, the response card with its stamped, addressed return envelope, the map (optional), and the inner and outer envelopes. Some invitations combine these elements, such as including the reception information on the ceremony card, especially if it’s at the same place or immediately following. It’s also possible to simply eliminate some elements (such as the inner envelope), particularly for more informal styles. Addressing advice The outer envelope should have a return address included on the back flap, and it’s probably well worth this small extra cost to have this done by the printer, so you don’t have to write the return address on every single invite you send! For the names and addresses of your guests, you can hand-write them, run the envelopes through your printer using a calligraphic font, or for a very beautiful and special touch, hire a calligrapher. Ideally, try to avoid labels, even clear ones, because they just don’t convey the sense of “specialness” and elegance that something as special as a wedding deserves. Street names, cities and states should be written out completely without any abbreviations. To indicate both parties of a married couple, use both “Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Green.” When addressing an unmarried couple living together, use each of their full names: “Mr. Ronald Green and Miss Angela Thomson.” If every member of a family is invited, write “Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Green and Family.” If only the older children are included, their names are written below the parents’: “Miss Erin Green.” Adult children no longer living with their parents should receive their own invite.

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Beauty

The do’s and don’Ts of looking your best

All eyes are upon you as you glide gracefully up the center aisle. Your handsome groom gazes at you with love and adoration. Everyone wants to take your picture. Once you combine your special sense of style with a few tricks of the beauty trade, you’ll look your absolute best. 4

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BEAUTY WHAT TO DO If you’re concerned about the health and appearance of your skin, then consider a visit to a dermatologist (for bigger problems) or an aesthetician (for minor issues.) Depending on the severity of your skin problems, start six to 12 months before your wedding so you have time to treat, heal and achieve good results. After proper analysis and treatment, professionals can assist you in selecting skin care products that will enable you to maintain treatments in the privacy and convenience of your own home. Facials are a must for all skin types. Facial treatments use deep cleansing, masks and exfoliation to penetrate deep into the skin, killing blemish-causing bacteria, rebalancing the skin hormonal system and stimulating circulation. Regular treatment results in refined pores, smoother facial lines, healed blemishes and a more radiant complexion. When choosing your hairstyle consider your gown, the level of formality of your wedding, your personal style, your hair and your face shape. Generally speaking, the more elaborate the gown, the simpler your hair should be, or it all simply becomes “too much of a good thing.” Strapless gowns show off their dramatic neckline with up-dos, but this isn’t a rule set in stone. Work with your hair stylist four to six weeks before the wedding to find the right style for you – and bring a photo of your gown with you! Whether you use a pro for your makeup, have a friend do it or do it yourself, do a trial run before the wedding. In addition to looking in the mirror and getting feedback from close friends and/or family, take photos and evaluate those. Do you like what you see? Do you want to make any changes? Now is the time to practice – not the day of your wedding! Keep it on

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BEAUTY throughout the day and see how it lasts. How does it look two, five or eight hours later? It is easy enough to touch up? Regular manicures in the one or two months before your wedding day will get your nails in perfect shape. You can probably avoid using acrylic nails this way, and enjoy the beauty of your own strong, healthy nails. Have your eyebrows professionally shaped at least two weeks before the wedding. If you’ve never done this before, you’ll be amazed at how different you look with well groomed brows! Some people may experience a red, rash-like reaction, so doing this early enough gives you time to recover if that happens to you. You will probably need to freshen them up a day or two before the wedding with a tweezers. Do use waterproof mascara and eye makeup, just in case you shed a tear or two… And use primers underneath your foundation, lipstick and eye shadow, so that your makeup lasts longer. You want your makeup to last! To take care of the skin and make your whole body beautiful, try a body wrap and waxing. Body wraps detoxify and soften the skin using minerals or other natural substances to help to heal acne problems on the back and chest. Body wraps may include a full body massage to encourage circulation, toning and relaxation. Body waxing is one of smoothest and longest lasting forms of hair removal. Your legs will be smooth and free of razor stubble and, you can even try bikini waxing to get rid of hair on a longer-term basis. WHAT NOT TO DO Don’t alter your style too dramatically for your wedding day look. You want to look like yourself, your best self, and 128 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

“polished” enough to honor the fact that this is a very special occasion. Avoid really trendy looks in makeup, nail color and hairstyle. 10 to 20 years from now, these styles will glaringly stand out and look distractingly outdated. One bride who wore a dark trendy color on her nails said she cringes now every time she sees her wedding photos, and wishes she went with a classic, neutral color. Don’t go too light with your makeup, or you’ll look pale and washed out, especially in photos. Don’t go too dark, or it will be distracting and overpowering. Experiment and practice before the wedding to find the right balance. Avoid facials for two or three days before your wedding, in case it causes any kind of undesirable reaction. Don’t overdo the blush. You’ll be emotional, happy, nervous, busy and showing off your groovy moves on the dance floor… So there’s a good chance you’ll have some natural color of your own, and combined with too much blush you could look too red. OUR FINAL, AND BEST, ADVICE DO strongly consider using beauty professionals for your wedding day hair, makeup and nails. This is one simple way to shorten the list of wedding-day worries! A true makeup artist will know trade secrets not only for fashioning a longer-lasting look, but also for accentuating your features. They will also provide you with great information, advice and tips that will last a lifetime – a beauty investment. A great hair stylist can help you create a look that complements your facial features, headpiece and veil, and do it in a way designed to hold through the last dance. When you go pro, the end result is a relaxed, picture-perfect bride.

BEAUTIFUL IDEAS BY THE SEASON making even the dreariest days beautiful

Most people think of sunshine when they picture a wedding day, but not every day fits that mold. Luckily, something as joyful as a wedding can be sunny even on the dreariest of days. As long as you take advantage of what your season has to offer, all four can provide beautiful accents to your big day. Spring weddings are always popular, in part because of the parallels between new life blooming in the gardens and the new life of a married couple. Using flower bulbs instead of full-grown flowers also add to that feeling. For a spring-themed centerpiece that doubles as a favor, have multiple small, pastelcolored vases and encourage your guests to bring one home. Seeds and tiny monogrammed flowerpots are also a fun favor! You could also try bringing a little Easter to your reception by having lilies as centerpieces or hiding wedding favors, especially if there will be children present. For summer weddings, try a slightly more informal approach to your meal by offering the spread in picnic baskets or garden-party style! Mini picnic baskets or personalized blankets could then be given as a favor. Also, if you want to use bright, bold colors in your flowers or decorations, summer is the best time to do it. A fall wedding has a more rustic feeling to it. Warm reds, oranges and yellows are best for decorations, and don’t be afraid to ditch some of the flowers for tasteful wheat stalks or gourds among the arrangements. A fun favor could be making homemade cider

or jams with your initials on the jar for your guests to enjoy. Many couples shy away from winter weddings, but it can actually be one of the most intimate seasons for a wedding because it provides such respite from the bitter cold. Deep purples, forest greens and ruby reds

are perfect to set a cozy tone, while icy blues and silver show off winter’s sparkle. Cinnamon-scented pinecones with some holly or giant poinsettias make tasteful centerpieces. Instead of bubbling champagne for the toast, why not embrace winter and raise a mug of hot chocolate or egg nog? It’s delicious and comforting in the cold. If there will be kids at the reception, set up a table to make their own sparkling snowflakes to sprinkle on tables as decoration or as a souvenir for the kids! As for their parents, send them home with coffee mugs, spiced tea, or wintry-scented candles. It doesn’t have to be 70 and sunny for the perfect wedding as long as you use Mother Nature to your advantage!

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Do take advantage of Internet technology. Plan your wedding using search engines and e-mail to create your special celebration. There are several Internet sites dedicated to wedding planning that allow you to take advantage of the wealth of information at your fingertips. (Visit our website at www.premierbride.com, for more help). Coordinate with vendors, make and confirm reservations, select flowers and review menus online.

Don’t seat older guests near the band or the speakers as it may be hard for them to hear anything else.

Don’t forget to pamper yourself. Treat your mom and maids the day before the wedding with an afternoon at the spa. You’ll have the time of your life enjoying facials, massages, manicures and pedicures. It will make you feel more relaxed and beautiful.

Do contact the church or synagogue where you will perform your ceremony and ask about any rules or guidelines regarding music. Some churches require that you use their organist.

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Do remember your guests with small children. Instead of putting “no children” or “adultsonly reception” on invitations, ask your reception site manager if there is a small room or play area near the festivities that you can rent. Then hire a professional babysitting service to take care of the kids. Parents will appreciate your consideration and be able to relax and enjoy your reception knowing they are close to their children.

Do remember when purchasing a gown to be realistic about your expectations for losing weight. A gown can always be taken in, but rarely can it be let out without leaving stitch marks for all to see.

Don’t forget to involve stepparents in your ceremony in some way, perhaps a reading during your ceremony or an invocation before dinner. Do consider table visits during your reception. It is a grand display of appreciation and respect when the bride and groom spend a few moments visiting their guests at each table.

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Looking for a gift for your wedding party? Do consider a monogrammed piece of estate silver, such as a flask for the groomsmen or make-up compacts for the maids.

Don’t forget that the best way to let people know where you are registered is to have family and friends spread the word. Although it’s impolite to mention the registry on wedding invitations, a hostess may do so on shower invitations.

Do consider decorating chairs in a new way such as black, silver, white or traditional gold. Transform an ordinary room or site into a ballroom. Chair covers completely change the look of your reception.

Do select the ceremony and reception locations nine to 12 months before your wedding. If you’re getting married in popular months like May or June, select these locations as soon as possible.

When discussing photo packages, don’t forget black and white and sepia tones. This classic style of photography continues to gain in popularity.

Do remember that the hour of the ceremony is an indicator of the formality of the reception.

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Don’t waste time getting to your reception. Have photos of the wedding party taken before the ceremony.

Do consider having your entire wedding at a full-service hotel. The convenience of having the ceremony, reception and guest lodging in one place is incomparable, especially for a complicated event.

To get your skin in shape for your wedding day, don’t forget to start six months prior to your wedding and practice make-up techniques. When renting a stretch limo, do remember that it can usually seat up to 10 people, but fewer when the bride’s gown and train and the bridesmaid’s dresses are factored in to the equation.

Do remember to return rental items on time and undamaged.

Do reserve your photographer nine to 12 months before your wedding. Decide which shots you definitely want and which ones you can live without.

Make finding the right caterer and baker a priority. Great food is critical to the wedding celebration. Interviews and tastings are a must.

Don’t forget to send an invitation to your officiant and to all of your wedding party. Do pick up your invitation envelopes as soon as possible so that you can begin addressing them.

Do consider having two bouquets, one to keep and one to throw.

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Do check with your church or temple about their policies, especially regarding alcohol.

Do burn candle wicks slightly before the ceremony to ensure they will be easy to light during the event.

If children will be attending your reception, do arrange a children’s menu with the caterer. Don’t be intimidated by terms such as “off-premises caterer” or “outside caterer.” These terms simply refer to catering companies that operate out of an independent kitchen and travel to different venues to provide their services.

Do consider a seating scroll, a beautiful alternative to the more common seating cards. The large scroll sits on an easel and has the names of each couple written in calligraphy, along with the table number where they are seated.

Don’t dismiss the idea of preserving your bridal gown. You may want to give it to your daughter 25 years from now, and you’ll want it to be in good condition when you do.

Don’t forget about the vegetarians on your guest list. Fortunately, it is easy to accommodate virtually all dining preferences and restrictions with a little planning.

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Do arm your guest-book attendants with Scotch tape and instructions to make sure every card is securely taped to the appropriate gift. After all the handling and transporting your gifts will get, you can rest assured the cards will remain attached. Do

take advantage of a wedding consultant’s experience in wedding decision making. His or her ability to keep you sane during the planning process is well worth the expense.

Do be prompt with your thank-you notes. You may have heard that brides are allotted up to a year to express gratitude for their gifts. It is better to show your appreciation immediately, signing, sealing and sending them within three months.

If possible, do invite all guests to both the ceremony and reception. Don’t seat divorced parents at the same table. Let them each host their own table to avoid any uncomfortable situations.

If you want to continue your festivities into the early morning hours, do consider chartering a transportation company to shuttle you and your bridal party to some of the hot nightspots.

Don’t forget to confirm that tax and gratuities are included in all vendor prices. If they’re not, find out how much they are.

Find out the deadline for the menu selection.

Do begin searching for your musical group or DJ six to 12 months prior to your wedding.

Don’t ignore the details. After your first dance, have the band play the song your parents chose for their first dance as husband and wife. Do find a special pearl-edged or silver container to place your ceremony program in. This same bowl may be used to hold gift cards at the reception.

Do consider a handmade guest book and photo album made with fine paper and bound in specialty ribbons.

Don’t restrict your taste buds to the common white wedding cake. Chocolatefrosted wedding cakes are perfect for the bride who is a little more daring.

Do consider the white bar when planning your beverage menu. Gin, vodka, champagne, water and wine, which is just enough to keep each guest smiling.

Don’t go over three minutes when delivering a toast. If the healthy glow of a tan is a must, do consider a safe and reliable self-tanning lotion, available at beauty counters across the country.

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Don’t forget to apply for a passport at least three months in advance if you are planning on traveling abroad for your honeymoon. For travel in some countries you may need certain vaccinations, so be sure to ask your travel agent.

Do store your wedding photos carefully, as well as any video or audio samples from the ceremony and reception. Do force yourself to stop a couple of times throughout your reception and take it all in. This is what you have worked and planned for so enjoy yourself.

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Cakes

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It’s the sweetest wedding task of them all – deciding on dessert for your big day. Tradition calls for a tiered cake with your plastic (un)likeness smacked on top, but brides and bakers are breaking cake molds to create funky and fresh options that add the icing to your wedding. Take in all the options, work with a pro to make it custom and whatever you do, don’t miss out on any tasting!4

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CAKES CHOOSING YOUR DESSERT Think about the rest of your wedding. Your dessert should match your day, so take everything into account. If you have a paisley themed wedding at an indoor reception venue, a large tiered cake with paisley fondant would make a beautiful room centerpiece. If your day is going to be more princess pink, maybe you’ve considered a cupcake castle tower. A casual outdoor wedding is the perfect venue for a table of tasty and colorful candies or make-your-own ice cream sundaes. Did you meet at a baseball game? Order up a baseball stadiumshaped cake, complete with you two lovebirds in the stands! Do you share an interest such as running? Ask around for bakers who could make a replica cake of your running shoes

tied together at the laces. Wedding cakes and desserts are one of the latest wedding designs to start challenging convention, so bakeries are always looking to keep up with the latest trends and really customize your dessert. So, if you have a sweet idea, find someone who can work with it. Book Early! Demand for customized and intricate wedding desserts mean bakeries fill up quick for wedding weekends. It’s safe to have something booked six months in advance, especially if you’re getting married during high season. But don’t worry – this doesn’t mean you have to know exactly what you want so far ahead of time. First, shop around in general for bakeries, and when you find one you think can satisfy your

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CAKES needs for taste, quantity, efficiency and personality, book a date. Then, you can really work with a pro to determine exactly what it is you want. So…how do I find the bakery? Trusting your gut is always sound advice, especially so when it comes to a food decision! Any dessert should be delicious, so your tasting is important. Make sure you sample all they have to offer that interests you. But since this isn’t an ordinary dessert you’re ordering, make sure you’re comfortable with the efficiency and professionalism of the bakery as well. They should return your calls and e-mails on time, be flexible with you and your needs, be willing to customize your dessert, be familiar with your reception venue and guarantee an on-time dessert, including of course set-up, delivery, and cleanup if necessary. You don’t want to be worrying about if your cake is going to show up on your big day. As with every wedding decision you make, don’t be afraid to switch bakeries or make demands if you don’t feel comfortable with the service you’re receiving. And the cost… Cakes are typically priced by the slice, which is generally anywhere from $1.50 to $6.50 per slice, depending on the style, ingredients, size and decorating. Your reception site or caterer may also charge a plating fee as well, often $.50 to $1.50 per person, to cut and serve the cake. Ask about this, and if there is a plating charge see if it’s negotiable. Cutting the Cake. Most likely your baker will provide tips for you and your new spouse to

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CAKES accomplish the time-honored task of cutting the cake with ease. Plan ahead to have your cake knife and lifter engraved or decorated with ribbons or fresh flowers. Traditionally, the bride grasps the knife with her right hand and the groom covers her hand with his. Together, the couple glides the knife into the delicious masterpiece while flashbulbs pop. 1 Year Later. Some bakeries offer ‘anniversary cakes’ as part of their bridal packages. Instead of having to freeze the top layer of your wedding cake (which doesn’t always freeze well, or taste that great a year later), the bakery will make you a fresh cake, often in the same style and flavor as your wedding cake, for your one-year anniversary.

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Here are some tasty treats that may suit your wedding better than the traditional cake. Centerpiece cakes. Pull double duty and use a beautiful wedding cake as the centerpiece for each of your tables. Some ambitious newlyweds stop at each table to cut and serve their guests the cake, which is a beautiful idea, but depending on the timetable and the number of tables this won’t work for everyone. Cupcake Tower. Individual cupcakes are fun, the perfect serving size and allow for all kinds of decorating freedom you might not have with a traditional cake. Cupcake arrangements could be anything from a tower that resembles

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CAKES a traditional tiered cake to something more inventive such as mismatched layers of different colored cupcakes over decorated shelves. Make-Your-Own-Sundae! Who doesn’t love an ice cream sundae? Think of every topping you can, and then some, then let your guests run wild. Perfect for an outdoor summer wedding or one with lots of children, your guests will be craving this at every wedding they attend after yours. The make-your-own theme can also be popular with the cupcakes, if you provide a few types of frostings and toppings. Candies Table. The newest trend in wedding desserts, an array of colorful candies

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is sure to make eyes pop and sweet teeth scream. Arrange glass containers such as antique jars, fishbowls or giant martini glasses of gummies, chocolates, licorice, jelly beans, mints, toffees and more over an expansive table. Then, give guests a little (or huge!) plate or plastic bag and let them be a kid in a candy shop again. Pick treats that match your colors (often wrappers and candy colors can be custom ordered if they don’t match yours) or just let a rainbow of sweets entice the room. Late Night Coffee. This works best for small, upscale weddings with mostly adults as guests. Bring in a barista to whip up comforting lattes, cappuccinos and espressos to go with some rich coffee pastries such as biscotti or tiramisu.

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Don’t Limit Your Bouquets. Use your imagination and consider adding small branches of wild flowers that add bits of color and a touch of simpleness.

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Flowers

BRIdaL BLooMs: design a beautiful wedding with flowers

When selecting flowers for your wedding, you will find there is an endless array of options. The romantic link between weddings and flowers dates back to ancient civilizations where garlands of flowers, leaves and vines were worn or carried by young brides to symbolize their beauty and innocence. Wedding flowers have since evolved from simple hand-held bouquets to vibrantly artistic creations used to set the mood and theme for the entire celebration.4

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FLOWERS Where to start Start your research right away, from the first bridal magazine you open and the first bridal web site you visit. Also be sure to visit www.premierbride.com to enjoy the beautiful floral photos in our Idea Gallery. Collect photos of anything you like in a file, to share with the florist you select. In addition to collecting information on what you do like, start making a list of anything you definitely don’t like. It’s also helpful to have some elements of the wedding established before you meet with potential florists, so that they can offer more specific suggestions. For example, your wedding gown will certainly influence the style of your event – is it streamlined, modern and simple? Or heavily beaded, traditional and ornate? Also knowing your wedding colors, ceremony and reception locations, and wedding date will be necessary before your florist can give you any concrete ideas that will match the tone, colors, style and season of your wedding.

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Finding a fabulous florist Find some potential florists at bridal shows, online or through local print publications such as this one, and select up to four to meet with in person. (Interviewing more than this could easily get overwhelming!) Your goal is to find someone who has a style that you love, a personality that you mesh with, and is also an organized professional. Incredible floral design is pointless if they’re not at the church in time! Bring the following items with you when you meet with your florist, for your first big planning meeting: a photo of your wedding dress, photos and other information regarding your

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Determining your floral needs Once you’ve selected your florist, he or she can help you determine exactly what you will need for your wedding and start narrowing down which flowers to include. Visit the “Checklists & Questions to Ask” section under “Planning” on www.premierbride.com for questions to ask potential florists, flowers available by season and more, to help get you started. Before making decisions regarding the floral arrangements for your ceremony be sure and check with your chosen church or synagogue for any restrictions. If you’re on a budget, it’s useful to reuse ceremony flowers at the reception site, but some churches request that altar arrangements remain on-site for weekend services. You will want to determine what you can and cannot take with you after the ceremony before you order the reception flowers. Ceremony arrangements are usually ideal for buffet, gift and head tables if using them twice is an option. Using the bridal bouquet and bridesmaids’ bouquets to decorate the head table is another budget-saving tip. Reception arrangements There is a vast array of options for reception centerpieces: elegant vases in any size or shape filled with cut flowers; towering candelabras; topiaries; or

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ceremony and reception sites, images to show your likes and dislikes, and fabric swatches of your bridesmaids’ dresses and any other wedding colors. And one more thing to bring with you: your budget amount! It’s quite critical that you share this with your designer, so that they can meet your needs at a price you can afford.

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simple rose petals scattered around flickering candles. Use your imagination to design one-of-a-kind centerpieces that express your style. Keep in mind that the height of the arrangements should not interfere with the ability of guests to converse with each other. They should either be low enough to talk over or high enough to talk under. If your budget allows, consider adding a few finishing touches here and there, such as flower petals on serving trays, or garlands along the front of the buffet tables. You can also fill in a large room with potted ferns or ficus trees placed strategically and wrapped with strands of small white lights. Share all of your ideas with your floral designer, who can help you refine them to create a lavish and memorable impression that won’t soon be forgotten by you or your guests.

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Mix and Match.

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Groom

THE WELL-SUITED GROOM: everything you need to know

The bride, in her splendid gown, will turn heads as she walks down the aisle, but the groom, waiting patiently at the altar, deserves his share of the attention too. And he will look splendid also, dressed in the perfect outfit for the perfect day, and ready to celebrate.4

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THE LEVEL OF FORMALITY The first order of business is to evaluate how formal your wedding will be. This depends on the time of day of the wedding, the location, but most of all, on you and your fiancé. Whatever level of formality you settle on, just be sure you’re consistent throughout – invitations, décor, food, location, and certainly, wedding attire should all “match” in terms of formality. (Most people do this instinctively!) In warm weather, think lighter colors (such as tan and white), and in cool weather think darker colors (navy and charcoal.) Grey would likely work anytime, and black is always classic and appropriate. Ties, vests and cummerbunds can match the wedding colors, or compliment them with colors such as white, ivory, silver, grey or black. One interesting option is to see if it’s possible to order extra material when ordering the bridal gown, and have ties made with it for either just the groom, or for the groom and the groomsmen. If the bridal gown is ivory, the men should wear ivory shirts, not white, to compliment her. Semiformal and formal weddings have plenty of options: a high quality, single- or double-breasted men’s suit in black, dark charcoal or navy with a Windsor knotted tie in white, ivory, navy, silver or black is a less formal option. For a more formal look than that, consider a tuxedo with a single- or double-breasted dinner jacket, a white or ivory pointed-collar shirt, a vest or cummerbund and either a bow tie or a four-in-hand tie (a “fancy” knotted necktie). A very formal wedding, called “white tie,” calls for the traditional black tuxedo with tails, a vest, a white winged-color shirt and a bow tie. If you

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GROOM can envision a symphony conductor’s attire, this is “white tie.” DISTINGUISHING THE GROOM It’s nice to have some way of setting the groom apart. At very formal events, the groom and groomsmen are all to be dressed identically, so one way to distinguish the groom is to give him a different, but complimentary, boutonniere to wear. For less formal events than white tie, you have more options. The groom could wear a white jacket while his groomsmen are in black. Or, the groom could wear a white, ivory or silver vest and/or tie while his groomsmen wear vests and/ or ties in black, or a color that matches the bridesmaids’ dresses. SHOPPING TIPS When the men visit their formalwear shop they should have a firm idea of the women’s wedding attire, and bring fabric or color swatches from the bridesmaids’ gowns. Pictures from the pages of wedding and men’s magazines of the preferred formalwear styles would also be helpful in the decisionmaking process. The groom and groomsmen should reserve their rentals at least three months in advance of the wedding (although the earlier, the better, especially during the busy seasons.) Final measurements should be taken about three weeks before the ceremony; however, be sure to come back a few days before the wedding for last-minute alterations. Out-of-town groomsmen can get measured at any formalwear store or local tailor’s near them, and send their measurements to the groom or to your formalwear store. 148 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

Someone (often the best man, as long as he’s responsible!) should be designated to return all formalwear to the store on time in order to avoid late fees, which can get quite expensive adding up the per day, per outfit costs. THE PERFECT FIT There are a few key points to keep in mind regarding fit when ordering formalwear for the groom and groomsmen. Shirts, whether with pleated front panels or traditional smooth-fronted ones, should fit well around the neck. The bottom hem of the pants should touch the top of the shoes. Jackets should be fitted, with some room at the waist. Sleeves should end at the wrist bone with the same number of shirt buttons showing. Vents on the side of the jacket should lie smoothly and follow the lines of the body. The collar should hug the neck, comfortably, and the lapels shouldn’t buckle. Your formalwear store consultant will certainly be a huge help in getting the fit just right. GROOMING THE GROOM With all the attention given to men’s clothes, an important detail that is sometimes overlooked is the groom’s hair. Men are generally more casual about haircuts than women, but they should ideally get their hair trimmed two weeks before the wedding to add the finishing touch to their wedding finery. Pass this helpful tip on to the groomsmen, as well! If you plan to take photos of the bride’s hand and the groom’s hand with the new rings, it would be a great idea for the groom to get a manicure just before the wedding, to address any out-of-control cuticles and shape the nails.

GROOM CURRENT TRENDS IN FORMALWEAR Overall, men’s formalwear is trending towards “elegant, tailored, distinguished and conservative.” Here are some specific trends seen lately: Vests win. While cummerbunds are always a classic tuxedo accessory, currently vests are more popular. Vests, often referred to as a waistcoat, come in single- or double-breasted styles and are easily worn with nearly any tuxedo ensemble. Current collars. Notched collars on jackets are becoming more popular, beating out winged and shawl collars. Trendy ties. Dressy standard neckties, often called four-in-hand ties or Windsor knotted ties, are becoming a more popular option in wedding attire, although bow ties will always be classic and appropriate, especially for very formal affairs. Going pleatless. Shirts without pleats and pointed collars are a current look, as are flat-front dress or tuxedo pants. Complimentary accessories. Groomsmen accessories that compliment the groom instead of matching the bridesmaids’ dresses are another new alternative. For example, having the groom in a silver vest with black detailing, while the groomsmen are in black vests with silver detailing.

Are you doing most of the wedding planning? How about putting your groom in charge of the honeymoon details? Lots of guys like to plan the honeymoon because this is where they get to be adventurous and romantic. Brides, give him a few “dreamy locations” and a couple of “absolutely-not’s,” and let him surprise you!

ATTENDANT’S RESPONSIBILITY the best man

• Assist groom with wedding details such as accommodations for out-oftown groomsmen and ushers. • See that the groom is properly attired and at the church or synagogue on time. Tie bowties, provide drinks, if applicable and otherwise support the to-be-wed. • Give the minister a sealed envelope with payment (from the groom) immediately following the ceremony. • Sign the marriage license as a witness. • Hold the bride’s ring during the ceremony. • Coordinate the ushers and make sure they are properly dressed and understand where to seat the guests. • Sits to the bride’s right at the reception, providing charming conversation throughout. • May dance with the maid/matron of honor during the first dance. • Propose the first toast to the newlyweds. • Hold luggage under lock and key until the bride and groom depart. • Help the groom change into going away attire. • Escort the bride and groom to their limousine or drive them to the hotel or airport. • Return all formalwear rentals on time, and to the correct formalwear shop. • Assist maid of honor in transporting gifts to the bride and groom’s home.

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• Legal age is 18. If younger, both parents or legal guardian must come in to complete consent form (If not possible call for additional information).

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• Non-residents (in and out-of-state) must apply in the county they will be married. This license will only be valid in that county.

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• Each party must provide the Clerk’s office with their social security cards.

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• Apply no later than 5 full working days prior to wedding date-two weeks prior is recommended.

• If divorced, copy of judgment of divorce, court annulment or death certificate is required. 6 month waiting period. • License is good for 30 days from the date issued. • Most counties require name, address and phone number of the person performing the ceremony. Location and date may also be required. Please Note: State and county marriage license requirements often change. The above information is for guidance only and should not be regarded as legal advice. It is important that you verify all information before making any wedding or travel plans.

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INSURANCE UPDATES practical and necessary

You have plenty of important items to take care of as you approach your wedding day. Insurance matters may not be at the top of your list, but they should be on it. Here are some of the changes you’ll want to consider. • Update life insurance policies to show your spouse as the primary beneficiary. • You and your fiancé’ should look closely at your respective health insurance policies to determine which policy provides the best benefits to cover your current and future needs. Make the necessary changes to the policy you have chosen to continue and cancel the other policy. • If you are moving into a new home as you start your life together, make sure your homeowner’s and/or renter’s insurance policy provides coverage for your home and combined assets. • Married couples can usually insure their car(s) for a lower rate than two single people. Review each of your respective policies to see which offers the best rates and coverage with your spouse added. • Many automobile insurance policies provide emergency road service and, on new cars, multi-risk coverage; you may wish to consider purchasing a new policy if neither of yours offers these. Many insurance carriers offer a variety of discounts for multiple cars, safety and anti-theft features. Members of certain groups are also eligible for discounts. Be sure to ask about discounts when you call for a rate quote with a new insurance carrier or your current insurer. You’re starting a challenging and exciting new life together. The right insurance protection can help you make a safe and secure transition from single to married life.

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STARRY-EYED HONEYMOON making arrangements

Traditionally, the groom pays for the honeymoon and makes all the arrangements. However, the itinerary reflects a couple’s mutual imagination. Honeymoon destinations can be romantically relaxing or involve vigorous explorations. The most relaxing decision of all might be to delay travel and spend the wedding night nearby. Packing is easier without wedding pressures and transportation arrangements become more flexible. Professional travel agents know the best rates and package deals available, at no charge to you, and can help make honeymoon dreams a reality.

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TRANSPORTATION The deciding factor in determining your ideal mode of wedding day transportation is how many people you wish to transport. Just the bride, groom and parents? The entire wedding party? The wedding party plus their spouses/ guests? Making these key decisions will be necessary before deciding on what type of transportation to use. Once you’ve given that some thought, your options include limousines, coaches, trolleys or other unique alternatives. LUXURIOUS LIMOUSINES Limousines can be acquired for the entire day, picking you up at home and delivering you to the ceremony, the reception, and even to the airport to depart on your honeymoon. Most companies have a one to two hour minimum for their services, so put some

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thought into what the most cost-effective option will be: keeping your limousine on call throughout the entire ceremony and reception or hiring one limousine to take you to the ceremony and reception, then another for leaving the reception. Traditionally, one limousine carries the bride and her father to the ceremony, while a second limousine or sedan transports the bride’s mother and bridesmaids. Of course many brides opt to have both parents or their attendants ride with them. It’s simply a matter of personal preference. After the ceremony and reception, the newlyweds ride together, either alone or with the maid of honor and best man, or with the entire wedding party. A formal limousine seats four people, while stretch limousines can allow for six to 10. Limousines are usually black

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TRANSPORTATION or white, and new models include sport utility varieties – the Hummer and Explorer are two possibilities that are eye-catching and quite unique. Some companies offer fleet rates for those who want the entire wedding party and family to arrive and depart in regal style. The choice you make depends not only on how much you wish to spend or the impression you wish to make, but also on the level of revelry. If the day is to be filled with many champagne toasts, providing safe transportation for those who will be celebrating the most is a smart idea. CATCH THE COACH A limousine is a luxurious way to travel; however, there are creative alternatives to this standard bearer that can add a distinctive mark to your ceremony and reception. One option is a luxury coach. With all the amenities and style of a luxury limousine with room to spare, these vehicles can seat 10 or more people comfortably. A luxury coach allows the bride and her attendants to spend time together surrounded by mobile luxury on the way to the ceremony. After the ceremony, the bridal party can enjoy a grand celebration with the bride and groom while traveling to the reception. A passenger coach, without all of the added luxuries, can seat anywhere from 21 to 49

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TRANSPORTATION bride, groom and their attendants and a passenger coach for the guests. By having more than one vehicle, it will allow some guests to leave at different times if needed. TAKING THE TROLLEY An attractive, fun alternative to the luxury or passenger coach is a trolley, if it’s available in your area. Trolleys generally can accommodate between 20 and 35 people, and are ideal for larger wedding parties. With their antique look and old world charm, they lend a lovely, elegant touch to this wedding day detail. And, they look beautiful in photos! UNIQUE ALTERNATIVES For those who prefer something more creative or romantic in transportation, there are many unusual offerings. If 158 • PREMIER BRIDE www.premierbride.com

a horse-drawn carriage is available in your city, this is a charming option. This service can vary from a simple carriage to an elaborate coach. Although space in the buggy will undoubtedly be limited, there is nothing quite as beautiful and romantic as a bride being led to a waiting carriage with beribboned steeds and driven away under a clear blue sky or starry night. It can be an unforgettable experience for the happy couple as well as a memorable sight for the wedding guests. Vintage or luxury cars can also add a touch of class: a Bentley, Rolls Royce or even a kitschy pink Cadillac can be the finishing touch for your wedding’s personal style. Motorcycles, bicycles, horses, boats or even hot air balloons can also transport the bride and groom if that’s more your style, and fits your needs. DOWN TO DETAILS Whatever you choose, you should confirm your transportation booking and verify pick-up and departure times well in advance of your wedding day to avoid any mix-ups. And if your wedding is around a busy time – say, the holidays or prom time, be sure to book early. It would be wise to have someone closely associated with the wedding party, perhaps the best man or a family member, designated to coordinate with the chauffeur to make sure that pick-ups and departures happen on schedule. The size and location of the ceremony and reception, as well as personal taste, will help define your final decisions for travel. There are many options available for today’s bride and groom, and with just a little creativity and planning, you can find the mode of transportation that best suits your style.

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Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d never believe Costa Rica was just one country. Two separate coastlines, mountains, rainforests and wildlife would already make it the perfect destination, but the warm hospitality of the Costa Rican people, the tasty fresh fish and fruits and the laid-back `pura vida` lifestyle make this place almost impossible to leave. Get a romantic bungalow in the jungle or embrace the national parks and adventure sports â&#x20AC;&#x201C; whatever it is, your first trip as a married couple will be a memorable one without limits.

COSTA RICA

STORY BY RACHAEL DRAGANI

LAY OF THE LAND Costa Rica is a geographical wonderland. It’s a relatively small country sitting between two distinct coasts with mountains and jungle in between, so it’s a unique place where it’s possible to do all types of travel in a short period of time. The West Coast is the Pacific side, with higher waves that, while they draw some of the world’s top surfers, is also the perfect place to test your board abilities for the first time. It also boasts other types of water sports like paragliding, windsurfing, whitewater rafting and some of the world’s best snorkeling and diving. The east coast is the Caribbean side, with calmer beaches in some areas and a more laid-back island vibe. In between, you’ve got mountains and jungles, so there’s opportunities to take a volcano trek, swim in waterfalls, hike in cloud forests atop mountains and of course you can’t leave the country without experiencing a trip to a national park to see thousands of types of wildlife and plant species. Since it’s a small country with a reliable transportation system, it’s possible to do it all within a week, if need be, but take all the time you can to experience all Costa Rica has to offer!

Enjoy an unforgettable “flight” between treetops along zip lines. The Hotel Arenal Paraiso’s canopy tour has 12 platforms at approximately 240 feet above the jungle floor and 1200 feet cable. Travel by horseback on natural trails used by pioneers in the area, making a stop in a beautiful observatory close to the base of the volcano at the Hotel Arenal Paraiso

Hiking in the Parque Nacional Corcovado

TOP MUST SEE’S, MUST DO’S Ecotourism in National Parks Costa Rica has an incredible wealth of ecosystems, wildlife and natural resources to preserve, and luckily for us, they take great pride in doing so. National parks full of exotic animals, birds and plants take up the majority of the country and are essential to visit while in Costa Rica. Parque Nacional Corcovado in the southwest of the country is the most popular, famously labeled ‘The Most Biologically Intense Place on Earth.’ Head to this sprawling park to see eight different habitats, including coastline and cloud forests, endangered species, and incredible biodiversity. To see the meeting

Surfing, diving and snorkeling are great water activities in Costa Rica.

point between dry and wetland, huge crocs, mystical types of trees and ancient burial grounds, head to Parque Nacional Carara, just south of the capital city San Jose. Parque Nacional Chirripo is a lofty mountain destination for a trekking getaway to escape the heat and Parque Nacional Manuel Antonio is your place if you love monkeys and coconuts. Whatever you’re looking for, Costa Rica has it in a national park. Unless you’re a biology specialist, go on a guided tour in the parks to get the most out of your experience.

Water Activities If you’re an adventurous underwater couple, or one who is up for tackling learning how to dive or surf, Costa Rica is your place. The crystal clear waters of both coasts, the waves of the Pacific, the biodiversity and the friendly attitudes of instructors and guides make it the ideal aqua destination. For surfing, one of the most popular destinations are the beaches near Tamarindo and scuba divers find their

paradise Playa Conchal or Cocos Island, both on the Pacific side. Wherever you are near beach in Costa Rica, check out opportunities to kayak, go rafting, go sport fishing, see dolphins and whales, visit hot springs or canoe.

La Fortuna For a one-stop destination inland, check out La Fortuna, home of Volcan Arenal, hot springs, an enormous waterfall and a wildlife refuge. The majestic Arenal Volcano sits about 20 km outside of bustling La Fortuna, and you can arrange for a day trip to the volcano, hike it, or rent a bike to ride to the national park surrounding the active volcano. While you’re there, take in the natural hot springs, especially wonderful at night when they’re lit by hot lava. A different day, rent a bike or get a tour to the local rushing waterfall and check out wildlife at the local reserve. Other adventure sports like ziplining and rafting are available here, too, making it the spot to spend a couple days inland.

Arenal volcano in the Arenal National Park, active since 1968, erupts almost every day. Smoke and magma (lava) can be seen, you can also hear the rocks falling down and smell the toxic gases (sulfur dioxide and carbon dioxide).

Exterior View of the Tamarindo Diria

Tamarindo If you’re looking for a beach destination where you can also be near to town, great restaurants and opportunities outside of working on your tan, Tamarindo is a great Pacific destination. Water sports of all types are available here, and it’s a particularly great place for divers and surfers (or travelers hoping to become divers and surfers!) to crash. Three distinct beaches, Playa Tamarindo, Playa Grande and Playa Langosta are all nearby, and if you get sick of the beach the town of tamarindo is a great place to do some shopping and eat delicious meals. If you’re there from January to March, it’s even possible to see the giant leatherback turtles that make the near-impossible trek to the island to nest each year. Get a guide and scour the beach at night, but don’t be too disappointed if you don’t see one – hunting and dying ecosystems unfortunately make the number of leatherbacks each year fewer and fewer.

WHERE TO STAY Tamarindo Diria This is your best bet if you’re staying in Tamarindo. In addition to sitting on an expansive white-sand beach, the resort offers multiple pools, seaside views, a mouthwatering breakfast buffet, great service and access to guided tours and scuba or surf lessons. If you’re planning a wedding in Costa Rica, this is also a beautiful place to go, with the beach or lovely gardens as backdrop and an efficient wedding planner to help you customize every detail over e-mail or phone. If you get antsy lounging around the pool, it’s location right in the center of town make it a great place to be based.

Hotel Arenal Paraiso Hotel & Spa If you’re going to La Fortuna, look no further than Arenal Paraiso. Accurately named Arenal Paradise, this tranquil resort is nestled between the town and volcano, which means it’s just far enough from the bustling town

Sunset Ocean View Room at the Tamarindo Diria

to be relaxing while still offering beautiful views of the volcano amidst mystical clouds. The hotel boasts two restaurants, 14 pools and incredible trails through the forest that borders the hotel. You can also book tours of the area by horseback or zipline offered by the hotel. If nothing else, the world class spa and natural hot springs should be enough to make you book your stay today.

Cariblue Hotel Superior Room at the Hotel Arenal Paraiso

If you’re staying on the Caribbean side of Costa Rica, Puerto Viejo de Limon is a popular destination, and Cariblue is the best place to stay there. Rent a private thatched-roof bungalow and hibernate in the jungle or venture out to the calm, crystal-blue watered beaches or tranquil pools of the resort. With a restaurant and top-notch accommodations, you’ll never have to leave your bungalow!

WHAT TO EAT Standard Room at the Hotel Arenal Paraiso

Cariblue Deluxe Bungalo

If you’re a seafood lover, book your trip to Costa Rica today. The two coasts make it a prime destination to try every type of fish possible, fried or boiled and often served whole (head and all!). You can order fish or another type of meat (usually chicken or thin steak) as a casado, which means it comes as a meal with sides that are usually rice, beans, tortillas and plantains, tasty sweet fried bananas that are a staple in Central America. Don’t leave the country without trying ceviche, a refreshing mix of tomato, chili pepper, onions, cilantro and sometimes raw fish, usually served with plantain chips or tortillas. It’s a national specialty and perfect with a cold beer under the hot sun. And don’t forget to get a rich cup of freshly brewed coffee in the morning. The beans are homegrown and deliciously strong. No matter where you travel in Costa Rica, you’ll find a variety of options to eat the local specialties cheaply in addition to more upscale places that serve more familiar foods. Ask around to get the best options in your area.

Tamarindo Diria Restaurant

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Costa Rica has a tropical climate and sees temperatures in the 80s or above throughout the year. Inland, near the capital of San Jose, the mountain breezes bring cooler nights where you’ll need a jacket. May to November is rainy season. Costa Rican downpours are quick and infrequent enough that a honeymoon could still be enjoyable during the rainy season, but if you’re planning a destination wedding keep in mind some hotels don’t have the same sort of beachside accommodations or services they could during the dry season.

LANGUAGE

Spanish is the primary language in Costa Rica, but since much of the economy is based on tourism, English is widely spoken. If you’re planning on going to a more remote area of the country, it wouldn’t hurt to bring along a Spanish guidebook if you don’t speak the language.

TIME ZONE

Costa Rica runs on Central Standard Time.

ELECTRICITY

110V/60 Hz - no need for an adaptor.

SAFETY

Compared to other parts of Central America, Costa Rica is a safe country. However, violent crime and theft do occur, especially in big cities like the capital. Always be aware of your surroundings, and in each place you go, ask at the hotel what safety precautions should be taken for that specific area.

WHERE TO STAY

• Tamarindo Diria: www.tamarindodiria.com • Hotel Arenal Paraiso Hotel & Spa: www.arenalparaiso.com • Cariblue Hotel: www.cariblue.com

CURRENCY

The official currency of Costa Rica is colonias, but in tourist areas US dollars are widely accepted and sometimes preferred. Like the rest of Central America, don’t rely on functioning ATMs or establishments that take credit cards – try to always have enough cash on you to take care of emergencies.

TIPPING

Tipping is not standard in Costa Rica, but if restaurant service is good a small tip is always appreciated and sometimes even expected from travelers. Make sure to check your bill, or with a restaurant beforehand, to see if there is a service charge, as sometimes they like to sneak it in.

GETTING MARRIED IN COSTA RICA

Costa Rica is one of the easiest countries for a destination wedding. In order to obtain a license you simply need to send a copy of your passport and fill out a short questionnaire for authorities. You do not need to be in the country for a certain amount of time before your wedding. If you are working with a hotel or agency to plan your wedding, make sure notary services are provided so they can take care of all of that for you.

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LONDON STORY BY RACHAEL DRAGANI

Night time view of Tower bridge London

Few cities can claim the blend of fascinating world history and efficient modern luxuries that London can. The city that once held the keys to a grand worldwide empire now holds an arguably better set â&#x20AC;&#x201C; one that can open ordinary eyes to splendid royal palaces, treasures, legends and architecture while still being able to enjoy fine international dining, world-class theater and music and a refreshing massage at a 5-star resort. London can be a whirlwind, but you and your spouse just experience a whirlwind of planning and new experiences. Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re ready to jump in and let this exciting city work its magic.

LAY OF THE LAND

British troops and musicians in traditional military uniforms parade through London to Buckingham Palace

Situated in southern England near the greater European continent, London is the gateway to the rest of Western Europe. The city is broken up into different neighborhoods, such as Notting Hill, Soho and Westminster, most of which are easily accessible by tube (subway), taxi or car. Do some research to see which part of town you’d like to stay in and plan your trip from there.

TOP MUST SEE’S, MUST DO’S

Westminster Abbey is the traditional coronation and burial site for English monarchs

Walking Tours of London The obvious draw to London is it’s incredible history, and just walking a few city blocks can take you centuries back and continents away. Book one with a trusted tour company such as London Walks, (www.walks.com), or do some online research for “Downladable London Walking Tours” and print off a map of your own. Tours range from basic historical sites like the London Bridge, Westminster Abbey and Hyde Park but can also be much more eclectic and interesting, such as Jack the Ripper, Harry Potter or Royal Wedding tours.

Cosy mews houses in Notting Hill, London

Vinopolis Wine Tour London can be a whirlwind of a city, so for some romantic time between you and your partner, slow down and share some wine and cheese at a tasting tour over the rolling hills outside the city. Visit www.vinopolis.co.uk for different tours, dining options and even tasting of whiskey or British home brew.

Thames River Cruise The Thames famously runs through London, and there’s no better way to see the miles of riverfront scenery than by boat at night. Custom yours to include champagne, a fine meal, dancing, live jazz, or end it near the famous Globe Theater, situated near the river, and take in some Shakespeare after a moonlight boat ride.

Wine Tasting at Vinopolis

Lord Milner Garden Suite

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Royal Garden Hotel Room

This luxury B&B offers just 11 rooms, all with marble bathrooms but completely different and unique designs. For instance, one room is done in traditional Victorian style and another modeled after an African sunset. It’s slightly removed from the bustling city to offer a more tranquil stay, but city activities are easily accessible. Internet access and continental breakfast are available in the room.

Royal Garden Hotel For a luxury stay a little closer to the heart of town, try the Royal Garden. Overlooking the green Kensington Gardens, the service is impeccable and fine dining is a main component of the resort. If you’re planning a destination wedding, the garden views and experienced planners make this a good spot.

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You can’t go wrong with Italian luxury and dining overlooking fine English gardens at the Baglioni Hotel. Even though it’s walking distance from most of London’s attractions, a tranquil spa, special honeymoon packages, and one of the best Italian restaurants in town make this stately hotel almost impossible to leave.

WHAT TO EAT

Baglioni Hotel

If you want something traditional, ask around where you’re staying for the best pub to get a good hearty British meal. For other types of dining, try Soho for trendier places and a bustling street life and The Borough part of town for breakfast or lunch markets. If you like Indian food, (spicier than American style Indian), London is a great place to get a meal. Head to Brick Lane, sometimes called Banglatown, for a wall of curry houses. For other Indian meals, Bradford is a good spot. Thai food is also good in London, especially at The Blue Elephant in Fulham.

WHERE TO STAY

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• Royal Garden Hotel: www.royalgardenhotel.co.uk • Baglioni Hotel: www.baglionihotels.com

CLIMATE

SAFETY

Like most of Europe, beware of pickpockets in London. In recent years, knife crime has worsened in England, but almost never towards tourists. Keep purses and wallets near you at all times.

TIME ZONE

London fog isn’t a myth, but there isn’t enough to put a damper on a honeymoon. London can be uncomfortably humid in the 80s and 90s in the summer and is more enjoyable in the spring or fall where the temperature is usually in the 50s or 60s. The winter isn’t usually below 30 and snow is infrequent. Light rain is common, so be prepared with a jacket or umbrella but don’t let it stop you from doing anything as it usually doesn’t last long.

Western European Standard Time, or WET.

CURRENCY

• Submit proper (original) documentation, including birth certificates, passports and, if necessary, divorce papers or death certificates. If either party is under 18, parental consent must be obtained.

Unlike the majority of Europe, England did not switch over to the Euro and still uses the British pound. Check online right before you go for the most current exchange rate to avoid paying too much commission to exchange currencies. Pounds come in notes as high as a 50, but try to get smaller bills since that one is difficult to break. Credit cards can be used at most places, but it’s safe to carry small amounts of cash as well.

TIPPING

In general, London tips in a similar fashion to the States. A service charge is sometimes added to a bill for food or drinks, and if not, 15% is the standard rate. Taxi drivers also expect a tip of about 10-15% .

ELECTRICITY

London runs on 240 volt/50 Hz, so if you have American power cords you’ll need an adaptor.

London’s Double Decker Busses

GETTING MARRIED IN LONDON

• Contact the superintendent registrar of the district where the wedding will take place or make arrangements with the venue. If a couple does not plan to marry in a church or other religious venue, they must register in person at the appropriate office.

• A certificate wedding requires the couple to be residents of the district for seven days prior to registering their wedding, with the ceremony taking place 21 days later. A more expensive yet faster option is a special license wedding in which the couple must be residents for 15 days prior to the registration with the wedding taking place one fully clear day after the registration (typically two days later). • All weddings must have two witnesses and take place at an approved location for the ceremony to be legally valid. Lists of such premises can be purchased from the General Register Office in Southport. More information can be found at the UK in the USA website: www.ukinusa.fco.gov.uk

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Most destination wedding resorts around the world have wedding planners who take care of the details so that you don’t have to. Destination weddings allow couples to express themselves. Often, for the second or third time couple, it is about making a statement and expressing to family and friends an idea of how they see their future together. Destination weddings can also be taken care of at once. Usually the wedding planner will handle the flowers, photographer, caterer, musicians and reception area, all with your input. In most cases the wedding planner will take care of the marriage license too and all you have to do is send the necessary documents.

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