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Just Between Us… This year, as our youngest has moved up to the big kid school as a kindergartner (a bigger transition perhaps for me than for him!), I’m feeling so thankful for the special moments that come especially while our kids are young: their innocent comments, their carefree running and jumping in leaf piles and their credulous belief of crazy things — like that a new Halloween pirate flag really might have meant our house had been taken over by pirates while we’d been out! Our youngest, of course, is usually the star when it comes to saying amazing things. On a recent drive to hike Belle Isle in Richmond, everyone was getting a bit impatient and whiney in the car. He spoke right up, clear as a bell, and told his older siblings, “Well, you should just wish for a wishing star. Then you would have everything you wanted when you wanted it.” That had the whole car cracking up. We do so enjoy his views on the world and how wide open he is to every idea.
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CREATIVE DIRECTOR Robin Johnson Bethke EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Jennifer Bryerton TECHNICAL DIRECTOR Peter D. Bethke EDITOR Jennifer Conrad Seidel EDITORIAL ASSISTANT Jennifer Slate GRAPHIC DESIGN Erin Q. Hughes Barbara Tompkins SALES MANAGER David Valcich ADVERTISING SALES Karrie Bos, Lindsay Lopez, Susan Powell, Alissa Reeves, Brandi Washburn MARKETING & SALES COORDINATOR Marti Pugh CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Emily Anness, Robin Bethke, Deborah Bohn, Kelly Casey, Kim Connolly, Rick Epstein, Jody Hobbs Hesler, Linda Kobert, Blair Lonergan, Laura Merricks, Marti Pugh, Jennifer Slate, Lauren Thompson, Brooks Wellmon ADMINISTRATIVE MANAGER Amy Duprey DISTRIBUTION Ray Whitson
With the other kids at ages 8, 12 and 15, we know this magical time will pass soon enough. My youngest really does already know deep down that his wand doesn’t work, but he still enjoys the game of it. But if I had a wishing star, I’d wish that he could — that they all could — slow down their growing up at least a little so we could have lots more times like these. We all love the crazy things kids say, and we’re guessing that you have many treasured stories to share, too, so we’re planning a new column where you can send in favorite quotes from and photos of the beloved little ones in your life. Watch Facebook and our e-newsletter for more details on how you can share these with us and your fellow readers. Have a beautiful Thanksgiving,
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TABLE OF
Contents OUR TOWN
LIVING WELL
News 8
The Buzz Around Town 10 Do you give money to panhandlers
when your children are with you?
Cool Stuff 30 Great Toys, Gadgets, Books and More Healthy Family 34 Stay Healthy This Season
Snapshot 12 Wendy Saz
New Mom 36 Getting Newborns to Sleep
Our Schools 15
Bumble on the Fly 18
Out & About Calendar 20
Bumble Around the Community
November Activities & Events for Families
Tasty Traditions 48 Thanksgiving Recipes from Our Table to Yours
Thanks and Giving 52 Abundant Life Students Learn and Earn
Editor’s Pick! Local kids are doing amazing things for others! Read about them in our news section (page 8), in our volunteer column (page 16) and in “Thanks and Giving” on page 52.
Trim That Tree! 24
INSPIRATION
Renaissance School Students Sweep UVA Synthetic Biology Competition
Bravo! 16 Feeding Local Families at Loaves & Fishes: Maggie Murray
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Real Kids, Real Solutions 58 Exploring UVA’s Sheila C. Johnson Center Funny, Exasperating & Adorable 64 Understanding the Behaviors of
Toddlers and Preschoolers
Happy Holidays 72 Tips for Getting That Perfect
Holiday Portrait
Local Farms Offer Holiday Trains, Candy Canes and More
RESOURCES Family Tree 38 Stories That Hit Home
Tips & Trends 42 Fabulous Finds and Fun
Special Needs Guide 61 Local Resources for Health
Home & Garden 44 Putting Your Garden to Bed for Winter
Buy Local Shopping Guide 32
Gift Ideas for Everyone on Your List
and Learning
Guide to Preschools 67 Places to Play, Learn and Grow
UNTIL NEXT TIME
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Want a Ride to the Mall? 78 You’ll Have to Catch Me!
So Love This! I was delighted to see that a local jeweler at McGuffey makes charms from children’s original artwork for bracelets, eyeglass chains and even key chains. — Jennifer Conrad Seidel, Editor
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NEWS
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Each fall, Tandem middle schoolers travel by train to explore culturally rich cities and participate in service projects. Although the seventh graders spent some of their time in Washington, D.C., visiting historic sites and museums, they gave a full day of their trip to serving the homeless in the capital. Says teacher and trip coordinator Tom Spivey, “Our service work this year included preparing food at the D.C. Central Kitchen, which distributes thousands of meals daily to poor and homeless D.C. residents, plus a classroom session on homelessness led by trained facilitators. Follow ing the classroom session, the facilitators led us in handing out toiletry kits to homeless people in Franklin Park. This direct interaction with homeless people helps the kids put a face on the problem and to see the homeless as individuals rather than statistics.” Jack Heaphy, a seventh-grader, says, “It felt great to be helping people less fortunate than me. It made me happy to be able to make them smile.” The eighth graders traveled to Philadelphia, where they explored historic and cultural locations relevant to their curriculum and served alongside students from the 325-year-old Friends Select School. “They get to understand the statistics of homeless in America as presented by a national expert in the field,” says teacher Mark Drexel, coordinator for the trip. “They get to have a great time, build relationships, develop empathy and make some memories that will last a lifetime.”
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Going for Gold A student at the University of Virginia is making a world of difference for soccer enthusiasts in Scottsville, thanks to her hard work as a Girl Scout (Scottsville Troop 9362). Eighteen-year-old Porter Dickie, a third year at UVA who was homeschooled in Albemarle County, raised $40,000 to build a full-size intramural field in Scottsville. The project took two years and resulted in her earning the Girl Scout Gold Award. This award represents the highest achievement in Girl Scouting, recognizing girls who demonstrate extraordinary leadership through projects that have sustainable impact in their communities. Dickie is also a writer and senior associate photography editor of UVA’s Cavalier Daily newspaper.
Con-GRAD-ulations Are in Order The on-time graduation rate for Albemarle County’s public high school students has increased for the fourth time in a five-year period. In 2014, 94.8 percent of students graduated on time, and the division’s dropout rate decreased to 2.3 percent — placing the county grads in the top 10 percent of high school students in Virginia. On-time graduation rates for Charlottesville City Schools have increased to 88.8 percent, and the drop-out rate was cut in half to 5.6 percent. The statewide numbers for 2014 for all school divisions were 89.9 percent on-time graduation and a drop-out rate of 5.4 percent. National, state and local SAT scores for 2014 public high school graduates were released in October, too. Results are shown in the graph at right.
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27% say “yes” 73% say “no” I tell them that we are very lucky to have all that we do and that others are not as lucky as we are. If can help a little, we should.
We make bags of non-perishable food and bottled water. When we see people in need, the kids get one of the bags and pass it to Jane in Ivy the person. Concerned mother of two
I let my daughter give a dollar if there is music involved and she stops to listen. I want to encourage her that all kinds of things are considered art and there are many ways to support the arts.
I have explained to my children that there are community programs and places for these people to go to for help and that I happily give to those organizations.
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I want my children to learn compassion, and We talk to our children about the experience I’ve found the best way to teach them is when it happens and about charitable giving through example. in appropriate forums. Cori C., Charlottesville, mother of three
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SNAPSHOT written & photographed by Laura Merricks
Wendy Saz Wendy Saz, manager of the Crozet Library, goes to work in a beautiful building designed to reflect the surrounding countryside — and made possible by its community. After almost losing their library due to funding and space constraints, Crozetians fought for a new building and raised almost $1.6 million to furnish and stock it. Saz likens the September 2013 kickoff to “the magic of opening a children’s pop-up book.” Saz — who was the Northside children’s librarian before coming to Crozet — credits “the most amazingly talented and dedicated staff
find it helpful to fit in some simple stretching exercises and, if time
possible” for 2,040 new library cards and a circulation increase of 83
allows, a walk. Walking, and even just stretching, helps me clear my
percent. And the library provides programs for people at every age
mind and prepares me for the day.
and stage. “This past year, we made national news with our Exam Cram Program, staying open late for students during exam week and
What is one thing your parents did that you try to incorporate
providing safe, quiet spaces and study snacks,” she adds.
into your parenting?
Saz came to library work by accident: When an elbow injury forced
My parents both allowed us time for open, honest communication.
her to take a break from her cello studies, she took a graduate class in
My dad, an accomplished scientist and a kind and compassionate
library science. She lives with her husband, John Dean, and has two
person, was always ready to listen and answer any question
grown children (Laura Eve and Seth), two stepdaughters (Sarah and
— whether from a 4- or 40-year-old. He’d answer in a patient,
Laura) and three dear step-grandchildren (Emil, Spencer and Elizabeth).
thoughtful, honest, respectful way. My mom also had an open ear and an open mind. Though my children would be the best judges of
What is one practice you’ve put in place to get quality time
whether I successfully modeled this in my parenting, I hope they
with your children?
would say they have benefitted from this style of communication.
When my children started school, I allowed them two days per year to stay home and have one-on-one time with me. We called these “Laura-
If you had a 25-hour day, what would you do with that extra
Mama Days” and “Seth-Mama Days.” Even though they are both
hour?
grown and on their own, we still try to sneak in some “Laura-Mama”
I’d sit and watch the sunset from my screened-in porch, touch base with
and “Seth-Mama” time when we can.
friends and family members and steal just one additional moment to fully take in the beauty that’s a life.
What routine or habit helps you keep on top of family and work obligations?
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I’d have a hard time making it through the day without my calendar,
Laura spent much of her childhood in her hometown public library,
numerous lists, a good night’s sleep and great work colleagues. I also
since her dad was the director.
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Blue Ribbon Winner The Charlottesville Catholic School was recognized on September 30 by U.S. Secretary of Education Arne Duncan as a National Blue Ribbon School for academic excellence. Only 50 private schools across the country are awarded this honor annually. This is the second time the school has been recognized with this achievement. Charlottesville Catholic School is the only school in the Charlottesville and Richmond areas to receive this recognition for 2014. The U.S. Department of Education will honor the school, along with 287 public and 49 additional private schools, at a recognition ceremony on November 10 and 11 in Washington, D.C.
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Renaissance School Students Sweep UVA Synthetic Biology Competition Synthetic biology can be a controversial topic, but not for Renaissance School’s DNA Science class. Synthetic biology is an emerging
engineering discipline involving the redesign and construction of biological systems. In collaboration with University of Virginia, the class of eight students spent the 2013–14 school year studying DNA — the carrier of genetic instructions — and how DNA can be manipulated to solve real problems. Last year’s research included going to Charlottesville’s water-treatment facility, getting samples and finding a way to manipulate DNA to create a bacteria that would clean waste water economically, as well as give the facility a renewable energy source. Over the summer, the class went to the International Genetically Engineered Machine (iGEM) Jamboree at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. iGEM is a competition for college and high school students to showcase their synthetic biology research. Among only 35 other high school teams from around the world, Renaissance School’s DNA class presented their water-treatment project. The DNA class also participated in University of Virginia’s Synthetic Biology night on September 24, presenting posters in the “What Can Synthetic Biology Do for You?” high school exhibition that conveyed ideas for modifying E. coli bacteria so that it would perform beneficial functions. Naked mole rats with a cure for cancer, spider silk for making bulletproof clothes, using the hormone leptin to cure obesity — these and many other ideas were entered into the contest. All three top prizes were awarded to Renaissance School students. Lauren Ewell won first prize, Jessica Prax won second prize, and Alex Manchester won honorable mention. Says Ewell, whose interests reach beyond the lab, “I love learning about the ethics behind synthetic biology and manipulating DNA!” This year Renaissance School’s DNA Science class will again work on a synthetic biology solution to a real-world problem, engaging students in advanced research. Emily, a member of the DNA class, is an 11th-grade student at the Renaissance School.
Celebrating Arts Accomplishments Each fall, the area’s best high school artists are honored by their
Albemarle; Ben Culver, Alex Espinosa and Genevieve Lewis from
teachers and the Piedmont Center for the Arts for excellence in
Monticello High School; Dorothy Sysling from Murray High School;
and commitment to one or more of several genres, including
Theo Trotter from Renaissance School; Emily Battle, Brielle Costello
visual arts, film, drama, music and writing. This year’s winners of
and Yiyi Wei from St. Anne’s-Belfield School; Edward Diven from
the 2014 Arthur C. Greene Rising Star Youth Incentive Award are
Tandem Friends School; and Brennan Reid and Seamore Zhu from
Allison Moore, Kira Nolan, Colette Rogers and Joey Wharton from
Western Albemarle High School. In addition, three nonprofit arts
Albemarle High School; Geneva Knight, Sydney Saunders, Kadin
organizations also nominated local youth this year. Those winners
Sullivan from Charlottesville High School; Mason Martin and Jacob
are Light House Studio’s Will Jones (CHS), Live Arts’ Daniel Neale
Sawyer from Covenant School; Marta Regn from Miller School of
(CHS) and Tupelo Press Teen Writing Center’s Heather Walton (MHS).
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Feeding Local Families at Loaves & Fishes Ask Maggie Murray, a sophomore at Albemarle High School, why she has volunteered at Loaves and Fishes food pantry for more than two years, and she will tell you it is because of the people she meets there. “I started coming to get community service hours for school,” Murray says, “but now I keep coming because I like it.” She has also recruited fellow students to join her there. Murray’s favorite job on a typical Saturday is working with the clients — helping them check items off the grocery list they have received from the volunteers in the front office. At other times, she is filling bags with donated and purchased fresh produce, meats and dry goods or walking people to their cars and helping them load their groceries. On a recent Saturday, the pantry distributed food to about 100 clients representing almost 350 family members. (The pantry is open on some weekdays, too.) The stated mission of Loaves and Fishes food pantry is “to give food with kindness and compassion to those seeking assistance while providing an opportunity for
volunteers
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Trade at North Wing Barracks has closed.
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Announcements
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The Charlottesville Albemarle Convention & Visitors
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Bureau received a Travel Weekly Gold Magellan Award in the Destination Marketing Promotional Video category for its “Stay” video campaign. Piedmont Council for the Arts has named Gram Slaton to the position of executive director. R. E. Lee & Son has named Richard (Dick) Abidin as
Changes & Relocations Brookville on the Downtown Mall is discontinuing lunch service but will still serve brunch and dinner.
president. Michael Guthrie, CEO and Broker of Roy Wheeler Realty, was recognized as the 2014 Virginia Association of Realtors Manager of the Year.
Ryan Buckwalter, DDS, purchased the dental practice of Thomas Starkey, DDS, which is now known as Buckwalter and Starkey Dentistry.
The University of Virginia Curry School of Education received a $6.1 million grant from the National Institutes of Justice to help fund two research projects for school safety.
No. 3 on the Corner has been sold and renamed Poe’s Public House. Children Youth and Family Services (cyfs.org) has changed
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{our town community} CharlottesvilleFamily Employee Raises Funds for Pediatric Cancer Research
BUMBFLlEy
Bumble and all of us here at
on the
CharlottesvilleFamily are excited to support our own Lindsay Lopez in her work to raise funds for pediatric cancer research. Lindsay and her husband,
by Marti Pugh
Alfredo, shaved their heads to raise funds through the St. Baldrick’s Foundation. St. Baldrick’s began in 1999 when two businessmen challenged their co-workers to find a way to give back in response to their successes. A challenge was presented — shave their heads to
Events We’re Sponsoring!
raise funds and awareness for pediatric cancer. Fifteen years and a million heads shaved later, St. Baldrick’s
CharlottesvilleFamily and Bumble are proud to sponsor several
has raised over $34 million for their cause.
wonderful, family-friendly events this month. Find more
Lindsay (a sales consultant) and Alfredo have a
information in the Out & About section on page 20.
dear friend whose child passed away from cancer, so
Hope to see you there!
funding provided by St. Baldrick’s organization is very
Berenstein Bears Live!
“The Wizard of Oz”
close to their hearts. Unfortunately, more children are
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lost to cancer than any other disease. In fact, every
at the Paramount Theater
at the Paramount Theater
three minutes a child is diagnosed with cancer. If
Mistletoe Market
The Toy Lift
their efforts, donate at stbaldricks.org/donate/participant
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/735980/2014. Bumble is very proud of Lindsay and her
at Boar’s Head Inn
at Charlottesville Fashion Square
efforts and is proud that Ivy Publications donated $100
you would like to support Lindsay and Alfredo in
and many of us donated personally, too!
Bumble and Friends Make a Donation to the Shelter for Help in Emergency To celebrate a summer of exemplary staff teamwork, the publishers, Jen and Robin, made a $500 donation to a local nonprofit on behalf of all of us at Ivy Publications in September. We considered many different organizations and decided on the Shelter for Help in Emergency (SHE) because of all the wonderful things they do to support and empower victims of domestic violence. SHE began in 1978 with a help line to support women in abusive situations. Within six months, the need for temporary shelter was overwhelming and a task force put together by Charlottesville, Albemarle and surrounding counties began renting a shelter for $1. SHE now assists about 5,000 women annually. Learn more about SHE at shelterforhelpinemergency.org.
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THANKSGIVING Virginia Thanksgiving Festival
November 2, 12-4:30pm at Berkeley Plantation Visit the site of the first official Thanksgiving in America for a day dedicated to history, food and fun with tours. 888-466-6018 virginiathanksgivingfestival.com
Christmas Town at Busch Gardens
November 21-December 31, select dates at Busch Gardens, Williamsburg Seven million glittering lights, entertaining shows and traditional Christmas culinary delights. 800-343-7946, buschgardens.com
Fall Mini Pie Making Workshop
Wells Fargo Holiday Heritage Parade
November 23, 2-5pm at Crozet Mudhouse Learn some new tricks before Thanksgiving that will be sure to please the crowd. For teens and adults. Registration required. 823-2240, crozetminipies.eventbrite.com
November 22, 10am on the Downtown Mall Celebrate our national and community history and culture with marching bands, floats, living history performers and more. 295-9073, downtowncharlottesville.net
Thanksgiving on the Mountain
Annual Holiday Parade
November 26-30 at Wintergreen Resort Traditional feasts, the grand illumination of the courtyard, holiday workshops and more family fun. 325-8180, wintergreenresort.com
November 28, 9:30am at Barracks Road Shopping Center Enjoy this hometown parade with colorful floats, local celebrities, marching bands and more. 977-0100, barracksroad.com
Earlysville 5k Turkey Trot
November 27 in Earlysville 8:30am kid’s race, 9am 5k. Benefits the Blue Ridge Area Food Bank. charlottesvillemultisports.com
The Boar’s Head Turkey Trot
HOLIDAY HAPPENINGS
Charlottesville’s Grand Illumination
November 27, 9am at the Boar’s Head Inn Run or walk the 5k course to raise money for the UVA Children’s Hospital. Early registration is recommended. 972-2237 dominiondigital.com/turkeytrot
November 28 at the Downtown Mall Kick off the holidays by watching the grand illumination of the community’s Christmas tree and Mall-length holiday lights. 5-7pm activities for children in Winter Wonderland; 6pm Grand Illumination at Central Place. 825-3082, downtowncharlottesville.net
Poinsettia Open House
November 28-29, 8am-5pm at Milmont Greenhouses Poinsettias, Brunswick stew, homemade donuts, door prizes and more. 540-943-8408 milmont.com
GardenFest of Lights
November 28-January 12, 5-10pm at Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden Enjoy a sparkling tradition of more than half a million lights throughout the garden. Closed Dec. 24 & 25. lewisginter.org
Deck the Halls
November 29, 10am-5pm at Early Mountain Vineyards Festive music, mulled wine, homemade chili, photos with Santa, local crafts and horse-drawn wagon rides. 540-948-9005 earlymountain.com
Visit with Santa
November 29-December 30, Saturdays 12-4pm at the Market at Grelen Visit Santa and his sleigh while you pick out your Christmas greenery. 540-672-5462 themarketatgrelen.com
Gingerbread Trail
Deadline of December 4, 6pm Entries must be dropped off at CPC office (108 5th St. NE) by deadline. This year houses will be displayed in downtown business storefront windows. dbacville@gmail.com
Toy Lift at Fashion Square Mall
December 5, 7am-8pm Bring an unwrapped new toy or make an online donation to help make a local child’s holiday bright. CharlottesvilleFamily is proud to sponsor. 975-8697, kidslift.org
Boar’s Head Inn
MARKETS & BAZAARS Divine Consign Fall Sale
November 1, 3-4, Saturday 9am-3pm, Monday & Tuesday 11am-7pm at Aldersgate United Methodist Church This biannual consignment sale offers home decor and women’s accessories. cvilledivineconsign.com
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WVPT Holiday Auction
Turkey Trot November 27, 9am at The Boar’s Head Inn See this page
November 6-18. Bid online for amazing deals and gift ideas. 877-265-1055, auction.wvpt.net
SATURDAY • NOVEMBER 29, 2014 • 10AM - 5PM
FESTIVE MUSIC Rick LaRue and his five piece band will be playing classic holiday tunes. 10AM - 3PM
HOLIDAY FARE The Market Place will be serving EMV mulled wine, homemade Wolf Creek chili, and more...
SAY CHEESE! Get your photo with Santa, provided by Gitchell's Studio.
SHOP LOCAL! Over 30 local exhibitors and crafters will be selling their unique, hand-crafted merchandise for your Holiday shopping needs!
ALL ABOARD! Harmon’s Hayrides and Carriages will provide horse-drawn wagon rides around the vineyard. 12PM - 3PM
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{our town calendar} books, recordings, games and puzzles, and more. 977-8467, jmrlfriends.org
Holiday Market
November 22-December 20, Saturdays, 8am-1pm, Second and Water Streets 970-3371, charlottesville.org
James F. Smith
Mistletoe Market
Happy Holidays
November 23, 11am-4pm at Boar’s Head Inn Checking off your holiday shopping list in a festive environment featuring local merchants and artisans. Tickets: $5 in advance, $8 at the door; mimosa pre-sale $25 in advance; cookies with Santa 2-3pm $20 in advance. CharlottesvilleFamily is proud to sponsor. 971-2937, jlcville.org
Annual Holiday Bazaar
Annual Holiday Parade November 28, 9:30am at Barracks Road Shopping Center See page 20
Indoor Flea Market
November 8, 8am-1pm at Carver Rec Center The traditional outdoor yard sale comes inside. charlottesville.org/parksandrec
40 artisans in 22 studios will be opening their doors during this weekend-long event. 973-6846, artisanstudiotour.com
Friends of the Library Fall Book Sale 20th Annual Artisans Studio Tour
November 8-9, 10am-5pm in Charlottesville and surrounding counties
November 8-16, 10am-7pm at Gordon Avenue Library Jump start your holiday shopping by browsing
December 6, 10am-4pm at Charlottesville Waldorf School Gift-making activities for children and adults, puppet show, raffle and local artisans’ gifts for sale. cwaldorf.ejoinme.org/tickets
STAGE & SCREEN Magic Tree House: Space Mission
November 1-29, Saturdays, 11am & 1pm at James Madison University, Harrisonburg Full-dome film presentation of Jack and Annie’s journey through the universe. 540-568-6211, jmu.edu/planetarium
Mark your calendar!
Friday 4-9pm Saturday 2-9pm Sunday 1-7pm
We do private birthday parties & corporate groups!
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Family Matinee: The Neverending Story
The Berenstain Bears Live! in Family Matters the Musical
November 4, 3pm at Central Library Free fresh popcorn and a fabulous film on the big screen. 979-7151, jmrl.org
November 21, 6pm at The Paramount Theater This heartwarming musical combines life lessons from the bear family favorites. CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor. 979-1333, theparamount.net
Family Night at the Movies: Disney’s Peter Pan
November 4, 6:30pm at Northside Library Bring a blanket and pillows and settle in for a family-friendly movie. Popcorn and drinks provided. 973-7893, jmrl.org
Little Women
November 21-December 14 at Four County Players The March sisters, Meg, Jo, Beth and Amy, learn together that family is the greatest gift of all. 540-832-5355, fourcp.org
Family Day at the Virginia Film Festival November 8, various times at UVA’s Casteen Arts Grounds, Culbreth Rd Fun activities and free screening of “The Wizard of Oz.” Register in advance for free film-inspired workshops. 924-3376 virginiafilmfestival.org
The Wizard of Oz
November 23, 2pm at The Paramount Theater Dorothy and friends on the big screen. CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor. 979-1333, theparamount.net
Amadeus
The Nutcracker Suite
November 14-16, Friday-Saturday 8pm, Sunday 3pm at Albemarle High School Tony-award winning play about the life of Mozart. ahspresents.com
December 13 & 14 and December 20 & 21 at Historic State Theater, Culpeper and PVCC Join Clara on her magical journey to the Land of Sweets and enjoy the beautiful music of Tchaikovsky’s score. Saturday 3 and 7pm, Sunday 4pm at Culpeper’s Historic State Theater; December 20 & 21, Saturday 11am and 3:30pm, Sunday 2 and 5pm at Piedmont Virginia Community College. Class with Clara children’s event before some performances. 227-7592, charlottesvilleballet.org
Annual Best of Both Worlds Dance and Step Competition
November 15, 4pm at The Paramount Theater Some of the top college, high school and community dance and step teams throughout the region will share the stage. 825-0650 danceandstepcompetition.com
SPORTS & OUTDOORS Fee Free Day
November 11 at Shenandoah National Park Enjoy the park without having to pay an entrance fee in honor of Veterans Day. 540-999-3500, nps.gov
UVA Football vs. Miami
November 14 at Scott Stadium Cheer on our ‘Hoos at home. virginiasports.com
UVA Women’s Volleyball
November 14, 21, 23 at Memorial Gym Cheer on the ’Hoos at home against Virginia Tech (Nov. 14-7pm), Georgia Tech (Nov. 217pm) and Pittsburgh (Nov. 23-1pm). virginiasports.com
UVA Men’s Basketball
November 16, 18, 21 and 25, 7pm at John Paul Jones Arena Cheer on our ‘Hoos at home against Norfolk State (Nov. 16), South Carolina State (Nov. 18), George Washington (Nov. 21) and Tennessee State (Nov. 25). virginiasports.com
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Jump-rope making | Leather stamping | Secret garden Puppet show | Candle dipping | Raffle Local artisans with handmade gifts for the Holidays
FREE ADMISSION + PARKING*
*Complimentary park-and-ride shuttle service from the Charlottesville Catholic School
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Trim That Tree ! Local Farms Offer Holiday Trains, Candy Canes and More Adventure Farm 466-3989, adventurefarm.net Virginia grown Fraser Fir trees, wreaths and roping. Farm shop has farm-raised beef and local wine. Thurs.-Sun. 11am-5pm.
Long Meadow Tree Farm, Waynesboro 540-649-4307 Choose from White and Scotch Pine, Norway and Blue Spruce, Concolor and Douglas Firs. Pre-cut Fraser Firs, handmade wreaths and table arrangements. 10am-dark, every day starting Nov. 26.
Bees & Trees Farm, Elkwood 540-423-9020, beesandtrees.biz Choose from Canaans, fresh-cut Frasers, Norway Spruce, Leyland Cypress, and Scotch and White Pines. Fresh wreaths and garlands. Farm shop, s’mores, photo ops in the historic sleigh and complimentary cider. Santa visits Dec. 14, 1-4pm. Nov. 27-Dec. 23, Wed.-Sun., 9am-5pm. See ad page 25.
The Market at amFog, Afton 540-456-7100, themarketatamfog.com Pick up a fresh cut Fraser Fir or White Pine tree or a Boxwood wreath. Starting Nov. 28, Wed.-Fri., 12-6pm, Sat. 9am-5pm, Sun. 12-5pm. See ad page 79.
Boys’ Home Christmas Tree Farm, West Augusta 540-939-4106, boyshomeofva.org Choose from Norway Spruce, Eastern White Pine and Scotch Pine. Nov. 28-Dec. 21, Fri.-Sun., 10am-4pm.
The Market at Grelen, Somerset 540-672-7268, themarketatgrelen.com Pre-order a Virginia tree to pick up after Thanksgiving and choose from a selection of handmade wreaths and swags. Santa stops by with his sleigh on Sat., 12-4pm. Nov. 29-Dec. 21, 10am-4pm Tues.-Sun. See ad page 51.
Claybrooke Farm Market, Louisa 540-872-3817, claybrookefarm.com New sales location on Main Street. Christmas trees, wreaths and other products. Santa will visit on Dec. 8 from 1-3pm. Nov. 29-Dec. 21, Mon.-Wed. 3-7pm, Thurs.-Sat. 10am-7pm, Sun. 12-7pm.
Spruce Rock Farm, Brightwood 540-543-2309, sprucerockfarm.com Cut your own Blue Spruce, Scotch Pine, and Canaan, Concolor and Douglas Firs, or select from pre-cut Fraser Firs. Hot cider and chocolate. Cash or checks only. Nov. 29-Dec. 21; 10am-4pm Sat. & Sun., weekdays by appointment.
Davis Creek Tree Farm, Lovingston 263-8762, on Facebook Choose and cut a variety of trees. Nov. 29-Dec. 24, Tues.-Sun. 10am-4pm.
Stonehearth Christmas Tree Farm, Madison 540-547-2576, on Facebook Cut your own White, Scotch and Red Pines, and Canaan Firs. Crafts, wreaths and garland for purchase. Complimentary hot beverages and coloring books and candy canes for children. Nov. 29-Dec. 23; 9am-5pm, Sat. & Sun. Trees also available weekdays.
Foxfire Christmas Tree Farm, Scottsville 286-3445, foxfireva.net Choose and cut Norway Spruces, Douglas Firs and a limited number of pines. Wreaths and garland, too. Nov. 21-Dec. 22; Wed.-Mon., 9am-5pm; Tues. by appointment. Greene Meadows Tree Farm, Stanardsville 990-1999, greenemeadowsfarm.com Choose from White Pine, White Spruce and Canaan Fir or fresh, pre-cut Fraser Fir and Concolor Fir. Fresh wreaths, centerpieces, swags and garland. Visit lambs and calves in the petting zoo and enjoy complimentary cocoa or cider, candy canes and coloring books. Nov. 28-Dec. 24; Fri.-Sun., 10am-5pm. See ad page 25.
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Experience an old-fashioned Christmas! Use our brand new saws to cut your own tree, and enjoy a complimentary cup of hot cider while browsing for decorations, gifts and crafts in our festive Christmas Shop. Roast marshmallows for S’mores or sip hot chocolate by our amazing stone fire pit and have your picture taken in a fully restored Albany Cutter sleigh. Bring the kids for an experience they will never forget!
• Canaans • Freshly-cut Frasers • Norway Spruce • Scotch Pine • Leyland Cypress • White Pines • Fresh wreaths/garland made on the spot • Offering free shaking, bailing and twine for loading on your car
Santa and Mrs. Claus will be making an appearance on December 14, 1–4pm!
9am-5pm Wed.-Sun. beginning November 27 - December 23.
BeesAndTrees.biz
18028 Carrico Mills Road, Elkwood 540-423-9020
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plus wreaths • swags garland •centerpieces
Open the Friday after Thanksgiving until Christmas Eve
Visit the Christmas Shop to help outfit your perfect tree. Visit the lambs & calves in our Petting Zoo while enjoying a complimentary cup of hot cocoa or cider, a candy cane and coloring book.
Fri., Sat., Sun. 10 am - 5 pm
434.990.1999
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The Nutcracker Suite The Historic State Theatre of Culpeper
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Saturday, December 13 3pm & 7pm Sunday, December 14 4pm The V. Earl Dickinson Building at PVCC
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Saturday, December 20 11am & 3:30pm Sunday, December 21 2pm & 5pm
Real Girls Half Marathon and 5k
November 23 at Darden Towe Park A run for women, ladies, girlfriends, moms, daughters and girls. badtothebone.biz
Squash Cancer Squash Tournament
November 23 at Boar’s Head Sports Club A day of fun and friendly competition featuring singles and doubles play for men, women and teens. Open to the public and players of all abilities welcome. 654-8173, mjhfoundation.org/squash-cancer
“Moms CAN Do It” Baby Boot Camp
November 24, 9:20am at Church of the Incarnation Bring four canned goods to use in this workout and then donate them to the food pantry at the church. 953-6888 babybootcamp.com/va-charlottesville.aspx
Great Santa Fun Run Plus Class with Clara Children’s Events for Boys & Girls Before Select Performances! Photo by Stephanie Yonce
Purchase Tickets at 434.227.7592 or
www.CharlottesvilleBallet.org
2014-‐15 Corporate Sponsors
December 7, 11am on the Downtown Mall One-mile fun run for adults and children including Santa costume or elf ears with registration. Proceeds benefit The Arc of the Piedmont. cvillesantarun.eventbrite.com
LEARNING FUN Writer’s Eye Contest
Now-November 14 at UVA’s Fralin Museum Youth in grades 3-12 can submit original poetry and prose inspired by works on view in the museum. Submissions due Nov. 21. 924-3592, virginia.edu/artmuseum
Farm and Barn History Day
Now-November 23, Saturdays, 2pm at Ivy Creek Natural Area Come enjoy the barn at Ivy Creek Natural Area. 973-7772, ivycreekfoundation.org
School’s Out Drop-In Craft Time
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November 3, 3-4pm at Central Library Drop in the Children’s Room to create beautiful button art. 979-7151, jmrl.org
Blankets and Books Evening Storytimes November 4, 18 & 25, 6:30pm at Crozet Library Wear your pajamas and snuggle in for some great stories before bedtime. 823-4050, jmrl.org
Special Night for Special Needs
November 7, 5:30-7:30pm at Children’s Museum of Richmond An evening in the museum especially for families with children 10 years old and younger who have special needs. 804-474-7000, c-mor.org
Toddler Time
November 7, 14, 21, and December 5, Fridays, 9:15-10am at Monticello Enjoy an introduction to the world of Thomas Jefferson through story time, crafts and special activities. 984-9880, monticello.org
LegoPalooza
November 15, 1-4pm at Northside Library A fun afternoon of Lego crafts and treats, Lego contest award ceremony and “The Lego Movie” at 2pm. 973-7893, jmrl.org
Star in the Opera
December 3, 4pm at Gordon Avenue Library Ash Lawn Opera’s teaching artist takes you behind the scenes of “Amahl and the Night Visitors.” For grades 2 and up. Registration required. 296-5544, jmrl.org
The Nutcracker Mini-Suite
November 15, 2-2:45pm at Crozet Library Albemarle Ballet Theatre dancers present excerpts. Learn about costumes, music and participate in a short ballet class. Registration requested. 823-4050, jmrl.org
ESPECIALLY FOR TEENS
Family Art Jam: Etching the Lyrical Line
November 13, 6-8pm at Central Library Veteran cartoonist Bill Barnes will show you how to make comic strips and publish them on the web. For teens and adults. 979-7151 jmrl.org
November 16 at Fralin Museum of Art Discuss etchings and engravings create your own using a handmade press. 1-3pm 5-7 year olds; 3-5pm 8-12 year olds. 243-2050 virginia.edu/artmuseum
Murder Mystery Night
Annual Open House
November 16 at Ash Lawn-Highland Celebrate the anniversary of the Monroe’s arrival in 1799 with free admission and meet “President Monroe.” 293-8000 ashlawnhighland.org
November 14, 7-8:30pm at Crozet Library Channel your inner detective at this annual murder mystery party. This year’s setting: school prom with Egyptian theme. Registration required. For grades 6-12. 823-4050, jmrl.org
Be an Opera Star
Make a Moravian-Style Star
November 20, 4pm at Northside Library Ash Lawn Opera offers a behind-the-scenes look at “Amahl and the Night Visitors” with hands-on and interactive activities. Registration required. For ages 5+. 973-7893, jmrl.org
November 17, 6:30-8:30pm at Northside Library Local artist Virginia Thompson teaches you to weave elegant stars for ornaments and decor. Registration required. For teens and adults. 973-7893, jmrl.org
Owl Prowl
Doctor Who Party
November 20, 5-7pm at Kemper Park Trailhead, Monticello Trail Join seasoned birder Jerry Therrien for an evening of listening to the hoots, wails and shrieks of owls and learning about their habitats. 984-9800, monticello.org
InLight Richmond
November 21, 7pm-midnight in and around Monroe Park, Richmond Hundreds of artists display light-based art and performances across some of Richmond’s most unique neighborhoods and sites. 1708gallery.org/inlight/lantern-parade
Chess Saturday
November 22, 2-4pm at Central Library Stop by for some instruction and games with the Playing ACES Chess Club. Popcorn and prizes for all participants. Registration required. 979-7151, jmrl.org
Blessing of the Hounds
November 27, 10am at Grace Episcopal Church Enjoy a brief blessing ceremony, which includes bagpipes, a soloist, hounds and horses. Enjoy cider and donuts and the beginning of the hunt afterward. 293-3549 gracekeswick.org
SHOWSTOPPER IN MURRAY DISTRICT
Cartooning in the Digital Age
November 19, 7pm at Gordon Avenue Library Time Lord trivia, food, crafts and more. Registration required. For grades 6-12. 296-5544, jmrl.org
Holiday Treats
December 3, 6:30pm at Northside Library Laurie Blakey of Pearl’s Bake Shoppe will teach you to make your own holiday treats. Registration required. For teens and adults. 973-7893, jmrl.org
Harry Potter Yule Ball
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December 5, 5:30-8:30pm at Crozet Library Enjoy a magical winter celebration and showing of the fourth movie. Costumes of all wizarding types are encouraged. Registration required. For grades 6-12. 823-4050, jmrl.org
ESPECIALLY FOR PARENTS Lunch & Learn
November 5, noon at The Market at Grelen Eat and hear talk, “Shrubs & Trees with the Best Fall Color.” 540-672-7268 themarketatgrelen.com
Charlottesville City School Board November 6, 5pm at Charlottesville High School 245-2400, ccs.k12.va.us
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{our town calendar} Albemarle County School Board November 6, 6:30pm at Albemarle County Office Building 972-4055, k12albemarle.org
Grelen Nursery Walk & Talk
November 8, 10am at The Market at Grelen Enjoy a 3-4 mile walk around the grounds with a garden expert. Ages 9+. 540-672-7268 themarketatgrelen.com
TEDx Charlottesville
November 14 at The Paramount Theater A wide array of speakers and performers. tedxcharlottesville.com
23rd Annual MS Dinner of Champions
THE BERENSTAIN BEARS LIVE! IN FAMILY MATTERS THE MUSICAL NOVEMBER 21 • 6PM PM
November 19, 6-9pm at the Boar’s Head Inn Reception and dinner honoring award recipients Cynthia and Mark Lorenzoni. Proceeds benefit multiple sclerosis research and local programs. 971-8011
A CHRISTMAS CAROL
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TICKETS l www.theparamount.net • 434-979-1333 • 215 East Main Street
215 East Main Street Charlottesville, VA 22902
THANK YOU TO OUR PARAMOUNT PRODUCER’S CLUB SPONSORS
OPEN HOUSES Math, Engineering and Science Academy (MESA) Open House
November 3, 1-4pm at Albemarle High School On the 2nd floor of the science wing. 975-9300, k12albemarle.org/school
Covenant School Open House November 4, Tuesday 220-7330, covenantschool.org
Field School Open House
November 4, Tuesday, 9-11am 923-3435, fieldschoolcv.net
Tandem School Open House
November 4, Tuesday, 9-11:30am 951-9314, tandemfriends.org
St. Anne’s-Belfield Open House
November 4 & 6 Nov. 4, grades 5-12; Nov. 6, grades pre-K-4. 296-5106, stab.org
Village School Open House November 8, 10am-2pm 984-4404, villageschool.us
Family Art JAMs
Age-appropriate tours and hands-on art activities are fun for the whole family!
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Health and Medical Sciences Academy (HMSA) Open House
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{living well healthy family} Stay Healthy This Season Updates on EV-D68 and Common Viruses In close-knit communities like ours, viruses tend to spread quickly. For example, this past September saw an unusual surge of severe upper respiratory infections (URI). “We saw a number of children who started out with what seemed like a routine viral URI but who quickly got sick with severe wheezing and had difficulty breathing. Some even ended up in the hospital, and these were children who had not been in the hospital before for wheezing,” says Emily Wong, MD, a UVA Children’s Hospital pediatrician who sees patients at Northridge Medical Park. The cause of the local outbreak was possibly enterovirus D68, a strain of a family of viruses that typically cause mild summer colds. EV-D68 has the most severe effect on children who have asthma or a history of wheezing, Wong says. The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention said infections from EV-D68 were confirmed last August and September in 41 states, including Virginia, and was suspected in three deaths across the country. This EV-D68 outbreak is likely to be waning now, but November typically sees an by Kelly Casey
increasing number of cases of influenza — another virus that spreads quickly among kids. If you and your children haven’t gotten flu shots yet, now is a good time, Wong says.
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“Every year in this country, somewhere there are deaths from influenza in otherwise healthy children,” Wong says. “The flu vaccine is not 100 percent protective. But it’s still the best protection that we have.” A flu vaccine is recommended for children over 6 months old. This year, UVA offers a four-strain vaccine, which provides protection against two types of influenza B and two types of influenza A. There is also a three-strain vaccine available, but it only protects against one type of influenza B, Wong says. The influenza strains in this season’s vaccine are the same as those in last season’s (2013–14) vaccine. If it is their first time getting the vaccine, children under 9 will need two
Prepare for Flu Season
doses of the flu vaccine containing the same strains. Children under age 3 get only half the dose of older children and adults. “At UVA, for children under 3, we use preservative-free vaccines,” Wong adds.
View an interactive map to see where flu is most prevalent, especially if you’re traveling during peak flu season (Jan.– Mar.) at www.cdc.gov/flu.
Children age 2 and older who don’t have asthma can skip the more painful shot and get the same protection from a nasal spray flu vaccine, Wong adds. But because the nasal spray flu vaccine contains live virus, it’s not recommended for children whose immune systems are compromised. Flu vaccines are widely available. Teenagers and adults can get a flu vaccine at a local pharmacy or other flu clinic that tends to pop up this time of year. “There isn’t any benefit to waiting later in the season,”
Wong says. “Some people think if they get it now it won’t work in February. But that’s not true. Your antibody levels will be high enough to last you through the season.” Finally, remember good health habits. The CDC recommends these commonsense practices: Avoid close contact with people who are sick. Stay home when you are sick — and keep your kids home when they are, too. Cover your mouth and nose when coughing or sneezing. Wash your hands often under warm water and with soap (have children sing “Happy Birthday” so they wash for 15 seconds). Avoid touching your eyes, nose and mouth. And disinfect surfaces or objects that may be contaminated with germs. Kelly is a medical writer for University of Virginia Health System and UVA Children’s Hospital. For more insight on kids’ health, go to uvahealth.com/childrens.
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{living well new mom} Getting Newborns to Sleep What I Wish I Had Known as a First-Time Mom
I can’t think of a single topic that generates more discussion — and stress — among new parents than newborn sleep. After all, the lack of sleep is one of the most shocking aspects of becoming a mom, and it’s certainly not something that we daydream about while rubbing our pregnant bellies. After three babies and plenty of chitchat with friends and pediatricians, I’m here with some good news: All parents will experience some form of sleep deprivation over the course of a child’s first year, and it will get better. Each baby has his own sleep personality, and what works with one infant may not with the next. As a result, life becomes easiest for all of us when we accommodate our by Blair Lonergan
child’s preferences and reasonably adapt them to our family’s lifestyle. First and foremost, we learn that “back is best”: We should always put our newborns to sleep on a firm, flat surface. What nobody tells us, though, is that most
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newborn babies hate to be on their backs, flailing around in a huge, hard crib. So instead of trying to stay awake all night to hold a fussy newborn, experiment with other safe options. While bassinets and cradles work for some, many babies prefer the lightweight, easy-to-fold Fisher Price Rock n’ Play Sleeper ($59.99), which keeps the baby cozy in an upright position. One of my babies was so happy in his infant car seat that we let him sleep there for the first week of his life. Give swaddling a try, too. Some babies sleep soundly when wrapped tightly. Others don’t like it at all, but don’t give up after one or two attempts. Use something simple like a large muslin blanket or a Velcro wrap such as the Miracle Blanket ($29.99). Combined with
“People who say they sleep like a baby usually don’t have one.”
a snug sleep space, a swaddle will make your little one warm and cozy — just like she was inside of you! When the time comes to transition into a crib, try a sleep wedge. It slides under a fitted sheet and keeps the baby’s head elevated, easing congestion and putting your baby in a slightly
— Leo J. Burke
upright position, like when he’s in a car seat. Whether the baby is in your room or in the nursery, a white-noise machine is great comfort. The little one is used to your pretty noisy womb, so stark silence may actually be unsettling. Finally, pay attention to your baby’s cues and trust your instincts. Each
difficult stage will pass, and you will sleep soundly again. But if you’re genuinely concerned that your child is not getting adequate sleep or if you’re beyond exhausted yourself, be sure to ask your pediatrician about the baby’s sleep habits at your next appointment.
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Stories That Hit Home
Helping Grandparents Share Their Memories
What better time to get around to gathering memories than
growing up? Where did you go to school? What did you like to do as a
when families are together over the holidays? It’s the perfect
child? How did you decide on the career you ended up in? Tell me about
opportunity for kids to get Grandma and Grandpa talking and to
some exciting adventure or journey.
make a project out of all that family history.
with their own lives. Talking about Great Aunt Sue’s recipe for
know how meaningful it can be to pass on family stories to
candied yams while the family enjoys Thanksgiving dinner, for
the next generation. The center focuses on independent adults
example, will help kids see how their lives tie in with those of
over the age of 60, but it hosts a number of award-winning
older generations. “How we met” stories about parents’ and
intergenerational programs for families and individuals of all
grandparents’ romances are often favorites, especially with
ages. A new project at the center encourages seniors to collect
girls. Boys often remember the sassy stories, like the one about
stories from their lives as a gift they can offer their children and
how the tree in Grandma’s back yard is so thin on the one side
grandchildren.
because Uncle Tom and Uncle Scott nearly burned it down one
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Kids remember these stories best if they can find connections
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summer. And all kids love to hear about what their parents were like when they were the child’s age.
get around to it,’” said Karen Beiber, MWCC’s activities assistant.
And finally, be sure to make this a project for posterity by
One way to get started is to bring out photo albums and ask
recording the stories. Kids can pretend they’re movie directors
grandparents to identify all those people wearing big glasses,
as they video Grandma talking about where she grew up or
poufy hairstyles and old-fashioned clothes. Then ask about the
newspaper reporters as they interview Grandpa about his time
events in the photo to get stories flowing. If Grandma needs help
in the military. Afterward, kids can watch videos or read written
to go further down memory lane, use some wide-open prompts:
accounts and recall more about Grandma’s and Grandpa’s lives
When and where were you born? What was it like when you were
even after their holiday reunion.
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{living well family tree} ADOPT A SENIOR FOR THE HOLIDAYS Be a Santa to a Senior collects wish lists from local seniors who are without family or are economically challenged. You can buy a requested gift and then drop it off for wrapping and delivery. beasantatoasenior.com
“Young people need something stable to hang on to — a culture connection, a sense of their own past, a hope for their own future. Most of all, they need what grandparents can give them.”
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“ My mom suggested that I tie little bells on my toddler’s shoes so I can keep track of where she is,” says MaryAnn M., mother of two girls. “When I can’t hear anything for several minutes, I know she is up to something and I go investigate.”
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BACK TALKING ON THE MOUNTAIN OF GOD Local writer Deborah Prum’s e-book poetry anthology is a unique synthesis of words, sounds and images. The work of six poets are paired with original photographs and selections read by the authors. The result is a rich experience for the senses, one that you will want to return to again and again.
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Give Thanks — For Your Health
Feeling sleepy after stuffing yourself this holiday season? Don’t blame the turkey. It’s a myth that foods high in tryptophan, like turkey and chicken, make you tired. You probably just need to get outside and moving. Bring on the touch football!
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Happiness expert Dr. Robert Emmons says that gratitude isn’t just for Thanksgiving. His studies show that people who practice gratitude reap a bounty of benefits.
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MAKE YOUR GARDEN WORK FOR YOU Fall is a great time to start composting. Shredded leaves and cuttings from spent plants make a good base to get things going. Purchase activators or use coffee grounds to speed up the decomposition process.
Putting Your Garden to Bed for Winter
Late fall isn’t just for carving turkeys and bagging leaves. It’s a great time to take care of garden maintenance to prepare for the coming weather. Follow some of these tips to help your garden spring to life after winter has passed.
Buy perennials now. Garden shops usually have end-of-season
early can promote new growth, which will quickly be killed by
perennials on sale this time of the year. They might not look very
freezing temperatures. However, you should cut back any diseased
pretty, but if the roots are in good shape, this is the time to get them
plants and remove mulch that has begun to grow mold or fungus.
in the ground. Planting them now will give them several months to
You can also remove annuals (plants that do not come back every
acclimate to the soil and develop into larger plants in the spring.
year) to make clean up easier in the spring.
Cover up your flower beds with straw, compost or mulch to
tools to prevent rusting, and pack them away in an easy-to-find
The soil will also benefit from the nutrients they produce. When
place for spring. Also, unscrew hoses and empty any remaining
using compost, make sure either it’s your own or that it’s from a
water to prevent them from freezing, causing them to stretch and
trusted source to avoid weeds and fungus from taking root.
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{living well home & garden} FARM-TO-TABLE RECIPE OF THE MONTH
PASTA WITH WINTER GREENS AND PARSNIPS Instructions
Ingredients ¾ pound small pasta, such as orecchiette or campanelle ¾ pound bacon, cut into 1-inch pieces 1 pound parsnips, peeled and chopped into cubes 1 bunch kale, Swiss chard or mustard greens, de-stemmed and chopped
1. In a large pot, bring water to boil and cook pasta according to directions. 2. While pasta is cooking, heat a large skillet over medium heat. Add bacon and cook until crisp. 3. Set bacon aside to drain, reserving a few teaspoons of the grease to cook the vegetables. Add parsnips to the drippings and cook until soft, about 5 minutes. Add greens for 2–3 minutes or until wilted. 4. Set parsnips and greens aside, reserving cooking liquid, if any. Add white wine and Parmesan to the pan. Stir until a creamy sauce is made, scraping the bottom of the pan to release crunchy bits. Add salt and pepper to taste.
¼ cup white wine ½ cup grated Parmesan cheese Salt and pepper to taste
5. In a larger serving bowl, toss pasta, bacon, vegetables and sauce together. Top with additional Parmesan if desired. Serves 2.
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CHATTY CHEX MIX
CHATTY CHEX MIX
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Serves 4 to 6
We gather together with family every year and the one dish that brings us even closer together is this irresistible Chatty Chex Mix
4 cups Corn Chex 4 cups Rice Chex 2 c ups Honey Nut Cheerios 1 cup pretzel sticks 1 cup cashews 8 tablespoons butter
— a variation on the regular mix recipe. It never fails to bring a smile to the awkward boyfriend attending his first Thanksgiving dinner with my family or my grumpy grandpa who doesn’t understand why the turkey isn’t done yet. It satisfies everyone’s senses with the aroma of butter and garlic and the sweetand-savory crunch. Its presence gives us the undeniable “I’m home” feeling, and the room is ignited with conversation and the “thanks” begin. We inevitably reminisce about the family gatherings of the past, laughing and enjoying each other’s company. This is a staple in my family and I hope you enjoy it at your next family gathering to either break the silence or enhance the fun!
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2 t ablespoons salt 2 t ablespoons powder 2 t ablespoons 2 t ablespoons powder
seasoned garlic garlic salt onion
Preheat oven to 375°. Mix together cereal, pretzels and cashews in a nonstick, oven-safe pan. Heat butter in microwave until completely melted. Add seasonings to melted butter and blend well. Pour 2/3 of seasoned butter over mixture. Stir to make sure everything is coated and then drizzle remaining butter over top. Bake in oven for 15 minutes. Let stand out to dry for however long you can stand to wait before digging in!
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CORNBREAD STUFFING WITH BACON, APPLES & SAGE
CORNBREAD STUFFING WITH BACON, APPLES & SAGE
Adapted from recipes in Cook’s Illustrated’s “American Classics” Jennifer Conrad Seidel, Editor
Serves 10 to 12
Since moving to Charlottesville in the fall of 2000, many of our holiday dinners have been spent with our dear friends, the Merrickses. Laura Merricks and I have an arrangement: I do most of the cooking and she hosts. This means I can cook without worrying about the mess I make as I go and she can focus on decorating and finding enough space for our families and the other friends who join us. I’ve served this stuffing at several Thanksgivings, and it goes great with everything, including her cranberry sauce and homemade dinner rolls and my green salad with apples and shallot dressing and roasted winter vegetables. Note: The day before Thanksgiving, I make and then dry out the cornbread by spreading the cornbread cubes over two baking sheets and leaving these in a 250° oven for an hour; alternatively, make the cornbread two days ahead and leave the cubes out to dry. (When making your grocery list, remember to include the extra eggs and milk you’ll need for making cornbread.) If you want to make the stuffing the day before, add more liquid (use an additional ¼ cup of half-and-half and ¼ cup of chicken stock, see step 1) and refrigerate the stuffing in the baking dish for up to 24 hours (see step 4). Before cooking it, bring it closer to room temperature by letting it sit out for a while (30–60 minutes). If you want to stuff the turkey, you’ll need to heat the refrigerated stuffing first: Microwave half the recipe (enough for a 12- to 15-pound turkey) on full power, stopping a few times to stir it, for 6–8 minutes or until it is too hot to handle with your hands; or bake it at 325° until heated thoroughly. Remember to keep utensils that touch the uncooked turkey separate from other utensils. Follow the instructions (step 5) for cooking the remaining stuffing.
12 c ups cornbread (4 packages of Jiffy or Martha White, prepared), cut into 1-inch cubes and dried (see note) 3 cups chicken stock 2 cups half-and-half 2 eggs ½p ound bacon, cut crosswise into ¼-inch strips
3 medium onions, diced 2G ranny Smith apples, peeled, cored and diced 4 t ablespoons chopped parsley 3 t ablespoons chopped sage 1½ teaspoons salt 2 teaspoons pepper
1. Put dried, cubed cornbread in a large bowl. In another bowl, whisk stock, half-and-half and eggs. Pour liquid over cornbread, toss gently so cubes keep their shape and set aside. 2. In a large skillet or Dutch oven over medium heat, cook bacon until crisp (10–15 minutes). Remove bacon and put on paper towels to drain. Reserve 3 tablespoons of bacon fat and discard the rest. 3. Return rendered fat to the pan and increase heat to medium-high. Add onion and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened, about 5 minutes (longer if you want them to carmelize). Add apples, stir well to coat with drippings and cook for another 5 minutes. Transfer onion-apple mixture to a large bowl and add bacon, herbs, salt and pepper. Mix to combine. 4. Pour this mixture over the cornbread mixture and stir gently. Cover bowl with plastic wrap and refrigerate for 1–4 hours. 5. Heat oven to 400°. Butter (or mist with oil) a 10 by 15-inch baking dish if you aren’t stuffing the turkey (see note) or a 9 by 9-inch baking dish if you are. Transfer stuffing and any liquids that have pooled in the bowl to the baking dish. Bake until browned, 35-40 minutes.
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EVENING STAR CAFÉ’S SWEET POTATO & ANDOUILLE HASH
EVENING STAR CAFÉ’S SWEET POTATO & ANDOUILLE HASH
From the Washington Post Lindsay Lopez, Sales Consultant
Makes 4 side-dish servings
Every holiday is full of both sides of our family hosting huge gatherings, which always include a lot of food. There are always so many dishes to choose from, each made with love. While the holidays are an extremely busy time for us, we look forward to each gathering. Our girls look forward to seeing everyone and spending time with many relatives that we do not get to see on a regular basis. My husband and I recently participated in the Whole Life Challenge, and this recipe is something we have discovered we love! It is rare to find a recipe that both the kids and adults in our house enjoy. We are planning to bring this to holiday gatherings and make it a part of our holiday traditions.
1 tablespoon canola oil 8 ounces cooked andouille sausage, coarsely chopped (may substitute cooked chorizo) 1/8 teaspoon ground cinnamon 1 teaspoon ground cumin 1 pound sweet potato, peeled and cut into small dice
starts to stick, add oil as needed. Cook, stirring often, for 10 to 15 minutes, until potato is tender and onion has softened. 3. Add cilantro and stir to incorporate; remove from heat. Taste and adjust seasoning as needed. 4. Divide among individual plates; serve hot. (When served at breakfast, it can be topped with a fried or poached egg.)
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Thanks and Giving Abundant Life Students Learn and Earn
By Jennifer Slate
Imagine a store where young kids can go holiday shopping with their hard-earned money. Charlottesville Abundant Life Ministries’ Christmas Store is exactly that. For the last 17 years, children in the Prospect Avenue neighborhood have lined up on a cold December morning with a fistful of “Blue Bucks” to wait their turn to go shopping. And next month, hundreds of volunteers will work to make it happen again. Tutoring Pays Off Since early September, 50 students at Johnson Elementary School and 20 students at Walker Upper Elementary School have been meeting once or twice a week with individually assigned tutors — volunteers from UVA and the community. Each student works with his or her tutor on that week’s homework as well as on a specially created curriculum. Blue slips of paper currency called Blue Bucks are given out for attendance, effort and good behavior at these sessions. As the semester progresses, students are eager to know how many bucks they have earned. They know that the Christmas Store is coming soon. Johnson’s principal, Peter Stern, sees the effects of this work firsthand. “The tutoring program provides benefits to Johnson in multiple ways. The lessons are designed individually for each student, by educators, for each tutor. While the educational component is important, I believe the relationship that each student develops with his or her tutor has the greatest impact on our students. Each student develops an ongoing positive relationship with an adult that provides support and guidance.”
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hang up Christmas lights and decorations. Other volunteers have been busy shopping for items on the students’ wish lists, marking everything with Blue Bucks’ prices and arranging the rooms by theme or gift recipient. More volunteers arrive to make and serve hot cocoa and to help keep the kids entertained as they wait their turn to shop. Then helpers take kids shopping throughout the house and wrap and tag presents. When it’s finally time to open, students are called in three or four at a time and led through the new “mini-department store.” Each room has “salespeople” who help with making decisions, checking lists and tallying prices. When everyone on a child’s list has been shopped for, the child is encouraged to pick out a present for himself or herself. Children then head to the wrapping room to have their gifts wrapped, decorated and labeled by volunteer elves, who get to see exactly who’s getting what for Christmas. Marsha Montague, her husband and their four children volunteered together in the store for 15 years. She says, “It introduced my children to the neighborhood and the idea of helping others.” Her daughter Margaret Montague Feldman began helping out when she was in first grade. “It became one of our Christmas traditions that we looked forward to each year. My sister and I would assist my parents with the wrapping station while my older brothers would help students navigate the store and pick out gifts. I loved getting to talk to the kids about why they picked certain presents. They would always
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REALKIDS REAL Solutions Exploring UVA’s Sheila C. Johnson Center
By Jody Hobbs Hesler
The challenges that bring families to use counseling services varies widely. One’s child may struggle with stutters or other speech development issues, attention deficit disorder, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, emotional trauma, anxiety or a host of other difficulties. But in all of these cases, the hope is that counseling will address whatever is keeping a child from functioning fully academically, emotionally or otherwise.
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you are rejected?” Group sessions helped participants work out approaches to challenges like this one. When Dani’s son got a little older, he started articulating negative thoughts at school. Then, Dani says, private sessions
Dani and her family saw results from each of these counseling experiences that benefitted their son. “We know the door is still open to go back as needed,” she says. The family has resolution for now and a promise of help if things get tricky again.
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“The earlier you can get something diagnosed and do remediation with it, the better.”
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student clinicians learn about the various approaches their colleagues and advisors use to address the problems they face. All of that, Bellah says, “broadens the horizons of the students.” Finding a Diagnosis
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“Often parents call not sure what their child needs,” says Locke-Downer. But because students can offer evaluations across disciplines, “parents are able to leave with a really good sense of what is going on and what to do about it.” Ultimately, says Bellah, the SJC’s aim is to serve “real kids in real schools,” adding that graduate student practitioners “come up with real solutions to create real changes in kids’ lives.” The best evidence of success, according to Jane Hilton, an assistant professor of speech pathology and audiology, is when clients demonstrate change and no longer need the SJC’s services. Though Hilton says it’s sad to see them go, it’s happy, too. “Their communication or other issue has
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Personal and Career Development Center offers counseling and assessment services to clients.
The Sheila C. Johnson Center is on Grounds in Bavaro Hall at 417 Emmet St. South, directly across from UVA’s Emmet Street Parking Garage, which validates parking for clients. To learn more or make an appointment, call (434) 924-7034 or visit curry.virginia.edu/ community-programs/sjc.
Hilton talks about one little boy with an autism spectrum
when a child gets the services she needs. The child’s progress
disorder who enrolled in the center because of speech and
in the appropriate therapy yields “huge benefits for everybody,”
language delays related to his diagnosis. After participating in
says Locke-Downer. “It helps reduce the stress level in the house
one of the center’s summer programs and undergoing less than
overall. . . . The whole family [ends up] feeling better and calmer.”
a year of speech and language therapy, “his communication skills
Another plus is that the graduate students are kid-friendly,
were age appropriate,” Hilton says. His parents wanted to know
young and energetic, says Hilton. “They love to work with the
what to do to maintain his dramatic success, and Hilton was
young children,” she adds. Sometimes the children “don’t even
able to tell them to involve him in regular children’s activities,
know they’re in therapy,” Hilton says, because the SJC uses a
such as swimming or karate, to keep him around other kids and
play-based approach.
practice what he had learned. Great Help Just a Few Miles from Home Success at School
The Sheila C. Johnson Center is in an easily accessible new
Locke-Downer sees similar success stories at the Center for
building on the grounds of the University of Virginia. According
Clinical and Psychological Services, where families might
to Bellah, the SJC accepts a broad range of insurance plans and
arrange therapy for children who have anxiety around attending
offers a sliding fee scale for therapy. Like most agencies that
school, for example. “We’re able to get them back into school,”
provide mental health services, the center has to put some
she notes, “by helping them work with their anxiety and by
clients on a waiting list.
working with school.”
“Concerns from parents are the number one most accurate
Often when a student gets in trouble at school, the child’s
way to tell if there’s a problem,” Hilton says. So if you’re concerned
problem can be traced back to a reading disorder, attention
that your child might need some kind of therapy, arrange to
deficit hyperactivity disorder or some other issue. Students
bring him to a human service provider. “So many interventions
become frustrated at school because “they can’t do what they’re
make an incredible difference,” says Bellah. “The earlier you can
being asked to do,” Locke-Downer explains. When a family brings
get something diagnosed and do remediation with it, the better.”
that student to the SJC, the evaluation process can help identify the student’s core issue. Counselors and clinicians can then help
Jody studied briefly in UVA’s counselor education program, and all
the student manage that issue.
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Families often don’t realize how much everyone benefits
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Understanding the Behaviors of Toddlers and Preschoolers By Deborah Bohn
A normally quiet 2-year-old giggles hysterically while pouring his drink onto his plate. An inquisitive 3-year-old peppers you with a nonstop barrage of “Why?” questions as she puts on her sparkly princess costume. Nearly a “big kid,” a 4-year-old scores a goal in soccer and gets his own snack from the fridge, but he insists on wearing the same threadbare T-shirt every day and sleeping with his favorite stuffed giraffe. It’s just a day in the life of little kids! The brief yet explosive time of rapid physical and emotional development between 18 months and 4 years bridges the gap between toddlers and preschoolers. These little ones aren’t really babies, but they aren’t quite big kids either, and their behavior can baffle even the wisest parent. What Makes 2-Year-Olds Tick The twos are often called “terrible,” and they can certainly seem that way in the midst of a shopping mall tantrum. But while 2-year-olds — true toddlers — can be tyrannical during a meltdown, they are usually gregarious and loving, generous with sloppy kisses and prone to fits of laughter over silly faces. So why do these little love bugs go from docile to difficult in an instant? “Two-yearolds are struggling with the ability to regulate their emotions and behavior,” explains
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The Frost Montessori School
Linda Ashford, Ph.D., a developmental
crowd, but their favorite jokes usually
psychologist
the
involve oppositional humor like wearing
parenting book “How Can You Say That?”
and
co-author
of
a sock on your head or putting daddy’s
“But the 2-year-old isn’t an expert and
shoes on a baby doll. “They are just getting
vacillates between doing it herself and
used to the way things are supposed to be,
wanting help, between being carefree and
so when their expectations are violated,
stubborn, between being easily persuaded
they find it hilarious,” Ashford explains. So
and digging her heels in,” she adds.
the next time your 2-year-old pitches a fit,
It’s up to parents to help toddlers navigate emotional terrain by giving in when it’s harmless or giving children simple choices when they need to be made. The question, “Which socks do you want to wear?” can be overwhelming to a child who’s just realized the ability to make choices at all. Choices can often
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a dose of slapstick humor might just turn those tears into giggles.
“Why” questions are simply a way for a young child to initiate conversation with you.”
result in a meltdown or the snatching of
Why Do 3-Year-Olds Ask Why?
all the socks. Selecting the socks yourself
By the time a child turns 3, he has usually
can also trigger a tantrum because
developed a large enough vocabulary to
it stifles your little one’s newfound
express his frustrations, and tantrums
independence. Instead, hold up two pairs
gradually taper off as the year goes by.
and ask, “Would you like the white or the
In fact, his exploding linguistic prowess
blue today?”
relates directly to a preschooler’s sense
While having mom and dad take care
of humor. Phrases that stress alliteration
of all his needs was comforting as a baby,
like, “Betty busts her buttons!” or nonsense
a toddler — much like a budding teenager
rhymes like, “Eat with your feet” are
— suddenly feels the need to assert his
absolute side-splitters with this crowd.
independence, but he lacks the complex
And as every weary parent knows, the joke
language skills to make polite requests or
never goes stale. Ashford agrees, “Rhymes
negotiate a decision. The only tool at his
can be repeated over and over, always
disposal is the dreaded word, “No!” Ashford
bringing eruption of huge laughter.”
says, “The growth of independence and
Sharing those jokes with a friend is
the drive for autonomy are the hallmarks
just one of the wonderful experiences in
of this age.” So each emphatic “no” is not
store for 3-year-olds, who enjoy coloring,
only normal, it’s actually a sign of healthy
swinging and actually sharing toys with
psychological development.
kids
Despite
their
their
age.
Unfortunately,
these
bravado,
budding socialites still lack the tact
toddlers frequently become uneasy in
and complex language skills to move
unfamiliar situations like visiting a busy
smoothly between playmates, sometimes
store or being left with a stranger and
resulting in rejection and hurt feelings.
become
insisting
Instead of saying, “I’m playing dolls with
on being picked up and toted around.
Jamie right now, but we can play Legos
“Children
appropriately
later,” when her game with one friend
connected with their parents will slip and
is interrupted by a third child, a 3-year-
slide between stages of development,”
old may simply say, “Go away. You’re
Ashford notes, “sometimes being totally
not my friend.” As distressing as that
grown up and at other times wanting to
sounds, Kathleen Hoover-Dempsey, Ph.D.,
be held like an infant.” Parents should
associate professor of psychology and
simply coach them to success when they
human development at Peabody College
try to do something for themselves and
of Vanderbilt
stand ready with a cuddle when they need
perfectly normal.
instant who
customary
“cling-ons,” are
reassurance.
University, assures
it’s
“At this age, children often forget it
Occasional tantrums aside, toddlers
a few hours later.” Interestingly, these
are an easily amused bunch. Silly faces
episodes are more common among little
and antics are always big hits with this
girls. “Girls play in smaller, more intimate
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The International School of Charlottesville Children learn by doing in Spanish or French language immersion programs. Ages 2–6 years theisc.org, 984-2174 See ad page 71
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{inspiration preschool} “Potty humor is also popular at this age, but then again bathroom jokes are a staple in both Shakespeare and “Saturday Night Live.” groups than boys who rove in herds and gaggles. Boys tend not to focus as much on the person, rather the activity,” explains Hoover-Dempsey. Do you ever wish you had a nickel for every time your child utters the word “Why?” Well, imagine being in a foreign country where you’re trying desperately to make sense of local customs — like refraining from interrupting others or ringing a doorbell before you enter a house — and your only guides to this strange place are your mom and dad. You’d ask them a lot of questions, too! “Preschoolers are so amazingly aware of the world and are thinking about things in more interrelated, complex ways,” Hoover-Dempsey says. Don’t feel like you always have to give a scientific answer
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to a question like, “Why is the sky blue?” because “why” questions often just mean, “Tell me more about this topic.” You can talk about birds and planes flying in the sky or how the sky turns pink at dinnertime and black at night. “Why” questions are simply a way for a young child to initiate conversation with you, so just keep talking to him and your 3-year-old will be thrilled! Nonstop chattering is characteristic of most 3-year-olds. But that incessant banter is a sign of a smart little cookie. As HooverDempsey explains, “It’s the exercise of amazing mushrooming language abilities.”
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And that mental muscle flexing is what
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leads most kids to continue talking even when no one is listening or to insert the same new word or phrase into every conversation they have. “My daughter used to use the word ‘actually’
in
almost
every
sentence
because she was so thrilled to have learned such a grown-up word,” recalls Elizabeth Lindsey, mother of 3-year-old Victoria. “She’s actually moved on to the word ‘often’ and uses it as often as possible!” As tiring as all that talking can become, parents should cherish this season of open communication because
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can-do attitude. There’s just one hitch: They can’t hear a word you say. Four-year-olds from
the
frequently
same
condition
suffer that
sometimes afflicts grown men during televised football games — selective hearing. “It’s an issue of overload,” says Hoover-Dempsey
explains.
“Children
are less able to tune out irrelevant stimuli like television or the presence of an interesting toy.” She recommends parents “turn off the TV, bend down eye-to-eye with their child and make the statement or question as short as possible.” That means nagging and lecturing will fall upon deaf ears, so keep reprimands brief and to the point.
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through past problems, like reenacting a fight with a friend or reliving favorite experiences such as a recent birthday party or vacation. “Giving children lots of literary experiences through books, telling stories and watching good movies will help children develop imaginary play,” Ashford suggests. It’s a paradox: 4-year-olds have such a zest for life but are often curious about death. Since most kids have had a pet or family member (like a grandparent) pass away by this age, “What happens when you die?” is a natural question. Hoover-
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Dempsey says, “Parents need to be clear what their own beliefs are so they can
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“A young child lacks the complex language skills to make polite requests or negotiate a decision.”
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4-year-olds love to laugh. This gang finds name-calling — “You’re a banana head!” — uproariously funny. “Humor is found in people juxtaposing things that are unexpected,” Hoover-Dempsey explains. Potty humor is also popular at this age,
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but then again bathroom jokes are a staple in both Shakespeare and “Saturday Night
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Live,” so it’s only natural to laugh at what embarrasses us. If your preschooler’s poop jokes are going overboard, gently steer
At quiet: writer, avid reader (Charlie and the Chocolate Factory), stuffed animal maker
him toward another topic or try calling him a “hippo kisser” to start a fresh round of cleaner jokes. Blink and it’s over! Whether you call
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them toddlers, preschoolers or just little kids, there’s no doubt these munchkins are
a
hilarious
handful. While
the
Aspiring woodworker, chef, spy (“if it’s legal”)
technical label for this period in life may be fuzzy, one thing is perfectly clear: This time of insatiable curiosity, sudden tears and limitless energy is wildly fun and challenging for parents and children alike, so jump on and enjoy the ride! Deborah is a mother and frequent contributor to parenting magazines.
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Happy Holidays Tips for Getting That Perfect Holiday Portrait
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By Robin Bethke
{inspiration fun}
s
Happy Holiday 1
Happy Holidays
2
At this time of year, right around Thanksgiving, I begin to pray for our first snow. It’s not because I crave a good day of death-defying sledding. (I let the guys do that risky stuff, I’d rather be the one taking the pictures.) It’s so I can round up the family for our annual Christmas card portrait. What a job! We all get dressed up in holiday colors and warm winter coats (whether it’s cold or not), leash up the dog, grab the camera and the tripod, gather up a few props for the shot and traipse outside looking for the perfect set-up for this year’s holiday card.
Every year, it’s the same battle between my unyielding will to
cherish good family portraits and this time of year is the perfect
get just the right shot and my family’s desire to get it over with.
time to line a photo session up and have something to share with
I relentlessly work at it until I’ve got the shot (and yes, that
family for the holidays.
means dozens of shots with me running back and forth to look
Because I am a photographer, friends and family will often
at the shots and reset the self-timer, so I’m sure you can feel
ask me for picture pointers. And since so many families will use
their pain). By now my family accepts the headache and for the
pictures from vacations or want to take a nice family portrait on
most part tolerates me. In the end, despite ourselves and the
Christmas morning when having a professional there isn’t an
exasperations, we always end up with a portrait to be proud of.
option, I thought it would be helpful to share some tips to help
Each year I hear, “Oh! What a beautiful card you always send!”
improve your family portrait no matter where you are. Hopefully
and it makes me chuckle — if they only knew what it took to get
this will help you have that holiday greeting card you will always
it! But I wouldn’t have it any other way. There are few photos
cherish, too.
of us I cherish more; and being a photographer and graphic
When it comes to group portraits, you want to remember
designer, doing the shot and designing the card myself is where
three important things — the “three Cs,” if you will. The first
all the fun is for me.
C is color-coordinated. Dress the whole group as you would one
That said, hiring a pro (as I was in my former life) to take
outfit. The second C is putting your group in a clean background.
your Christmas card portrait is something I highly recommend.
The background should be simple, not distracting as well as
We are very lucky to have some truly talented photographers in
complimentary to the color scheme of your group’s clothing. The
our community. I think it’s really worthwhile to take and have to
third C is composition. You don’t want your group to just stand
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{inspiration fun} there. The easiest rule of thumb for good composition is to create a triangle with your subjects. On pages 73 and 76, you’ll find some shots (of no one I know) that will help in the discussion of what can go
Charlottesville
wrong with photos for a holiday card and
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The family in example 1 did a great job
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They’re all wearing blues with only a couple of accenting colors. The colors,
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handsome family. (The outfits worn by
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the family on page 72 illustrate how good color choices can dramatically influence and liven up a photo and skin tone.)
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If you look at the arrangement of the family in example 1, though, you can draw a triangle around the subjects, no matter how many are in the shot. This is good basic composition. Our eyes find triangles very pleasing in composition. Your eyes
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will naturally be lead around from subject to subject as you study the image, which keeps the viewer engaged in the subjects. In composition, you want this kind of “rise and fall.” It gives the image movement and the
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viewer, drawing you away from the subject and causing you to study the background and wonder about what’s there. This distraction pulls you out of the magical expression that these precious girls have and do the image a great disservice. It is the fault of many photographers, both amateur and professional, to be so focused on their subjects that they don’t notice what’s in the background and ruin a good shot — as in example 2. It usually only takes a couple of steps in a different
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direction to clean up a background and move away from distracting objects as illustrated in this set of examples. The house’s roof line is cutting through the top of grandpa’s head and the harsh shapes of the black windows and door are heavily competing with the family in the
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image, despite their nice expressions. This is making it hard for the viewer to know what to focus on. The family is also not composed and is looking awkward. In the card photo, the photographer moved away from the house by only a couple of steps and improved the image dramatically. The family has been brought closer together as well and into a formation that creates a bit more rise and fall, thus more compositional interest. Neither the background nor the composition of the card photo is what I would call excellent,
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compose the group into a triangle, maybe he or she could have turned this snapshot moment into a beautiful portrait. Considering the photos in example 3, I have to admit, makes me think that it does help to be beautiful and fit, doesn’t it? But, nonetheless, this photographer is working pretty hard to create this fashion-savvy portrait. Everyone is color-coordinated (and chic) and the background is as clean and simple as the outfits. This level of simplicity of color and background are the hallmarks of fashion photography. Even given those qualities though, you can see here how the outtake shot still has the elements of a snapshot and the card shot has become a portrait through the added effort of a very solid triangular composition. One member of this family of four is missing behind the camera in every shot I found of them. A camera with a self-timer would have come in very handy for them! So the next time you pick up your camera to take a photo of the family this holiday season or on your next vacation, take a moment to consider those three Cs: color-coordination, a clean background and good composition. And may all your holiday card wishes come true!
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{until next time humorous reflections}
Want a Ride to the Mall? You’ll Have to Catch Me! by Rick Epstein
Did you ever get an idea that was so smart that you wondered where it came from? May I tell you about mine?
Determined but amused, Wendy took off after me. For a good time, there’s nothing like being chased around and
Like many teenagers, Wendy does not especially enjoy
around a parked car by someone you love. Then, to finish
doing things with her parents. Gone are the days when
the workout, I sprinted down the street. She’s a little faster
she and I would play “rodeo” on the living-room rug. I’d be
than me, but she didn’t want to get all sweaty before going
down on all fours and 6-year-old Wendy would climb onto
visiting. I only gave it 90 percent myself, not wanting a heart
my back. I’d be the bull and the announcer, too. “Now here’s
attack.
Wendy Epstein, a young cowpoke from Laramie, Wyoming,
Our lives will be different now, I thought. As often as
taking a ride on Whirlagig, the meanest romper-stomper on
Wendy needs transportation, we will have a hilarious romp.
the rodeo circuit.” Then I’d spring into action, spinning and
The exercise will do me good, and Wendy, having to win a
bucking. Usually, I could throw her without hurting her.
ride, will begin to appreciate my services. I would write a
Then she’d climb back on for another round, this time
book — “The Rick Epstein Way to Fun and Fitness” — and
hailing from another Western town and riding another bull
it would sell a million copies. But no matter how rich and
— Cyclone or Widowmaker or Hammerhead. But as Wendy
famous I got, I would always make Wendy catch me before
got bigger, the game got to be too much for me (and my
my agent drove her anywhere.
knees).
Then came the Saturday night she wanted to go visit
We still liked to play rough, so we’d wrestle on the carpet.
her boyfriend. She sat in the passenger seat while I stood
But at about age 10, she got uncomfortable
nearby. “Sorry, but we’re not going until you catch me.” I said.
with the physicality of it. I miss the
If she thought she could out-wait me, she was wrong.
horsing around, although I got
I’m 56 and my wife and my TV set weren’t going anywhere.
a taste of it last year when
Wendy is the one with a dynamic social life that she was
she beat me at one-on-
I miss the horsing around, although I got a taste of it last year when she beat me at one-on-one field hockey in the yard.
dying to get to.
one field hockey in the
In a few minutes her impatience boiled over and she
yard. I’ve asked for
lunged out of the car yelling, “I’m gonna kill you!” It wasn’t
a rematch, but she
the merry cry of a playfellow; it was the exasperated
never has the time.
battle cry of a taunted teenager. When she caught me, she
She’s always rushing
pounded on my back with her little fists.
off somewhere.
As we trudged back to the car, she muttered, “You are so
Then one day I
annoying.” My idea of fun was her idea of being oppressed
was in the driveway
and teased. My great idea lay in the gutter, twitched once
when Wendy, now 15,
and then expired.
came out to ask for a ride
When I was Wendy’s age, my dad spent his free time in
to the mall. I knew what
an armchair reading the newspaper. Would I have liked to
she wanted, but as she walked
chase him? Sure, but he wasn’t that kind of guy.
toward me, I walked away — just
I’m disappointed, but not defeated. I’m sure there’s
to be playful. When she broke into a
another brilliant idea headed my way, although it may be
run, so did I. Suddenly it was a fun chase, with both of us
approaching slowly and from a long way off.
laughing. I didn’t get far, but I figured I was onto something. The next day Wendy wanted a ride to a girlfriend’s house. I said, “Sure, but you gotta catch me!” and I dashed out the front door.
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