To Cole’s amazement, her children stepped up and took her diagnosis in stride. When Cole decided to shave her head before her hair could fall out, her son Tommy decided to shave his, too. He organized a charity event for their friends and family to mark the event. Over 50 people came out to support Cole, leaving with shaved heads or pink streaks in their hair. To Cole, this show of support was “truly amazing.” Cole underwent a bilateral mastectomy and months of chemotherapy before hearing those wonderful words from her doctor: “You are now cancer-free.” “The cancer-free part is absolutely wonderful; I’m just ready to have my life back right now. I’m still feeling the effects of chemo and I want it to end,” said Cole. Both women fought their cancer at St.Vincent Breast Center, one of several hospitals in the area that provides exceptional care for individuals battling breast cancer. “The treatment has been wonderful,” said Cole about her time at St.Vincent Breast Center. “It was as positive an experience as you can get.” Vasey also received treatment at both Community Health Network Breast Care and Indiana University Health Cancer Center and was amazed by the love and support she received from all of the doctors and nurses she encountered. The future is looking brighter for both mothers. Cole plans to continue her real estate career. Vasey has a few months of treatment left to go, but is already becoming involved in raising breast cancer awareness in Indiana. Both women have a new zest for life and a greater appreciation for their family and friends.
WORDS OF WISDOM A lot of people told me that it wasn’t just about accepting help, it’s also that people need to help you. People that love you or are part of your life – they need to help you just as much as you need to accept their help. I feel bad for people who don’t accept help and fight cancer on their own. You don’t need to. The whole entire world will help you if you let them. advises Cole.
I encourage women who are diagnosed to attend the support groups that are offered. St.Vincent has a great one. I wish I would have done that earlier in my journey, it really has been very helpful to talk to someone who has a better understanding of their emotions and feelings that had gone through the same thing I had. adds Vasey.
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