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develop a sense for the ‘ideal’ mate from their fathers, we are their first loves and their first heroes. Not to say mothers aren’t heroes in their own way, but girls see dad as their Prince Charming. Girls also pick up their more masculine traits and mannerisms from their fathers.
ment keeps a boy busy and well-rounded, which in turn helps the boy stay out of trouble. Additionally, the emotional benefits from a present father are innumerable to a young boy, and directly impact their emotional and behavioral stability throughout their lives.
6. How does an involved father figure positively impact a father-son bond?
7. How does an involved father figure positively impact a father-daughter relationship?
The father-son bond is an important first step in a child’s social growth, it can influence their friendships, their work ethics, their romantic involvements and so many more aspects of the boy’s life. Having a present and involved father allows a boy to be involved in social, academic, scouting and athletic activities. This involve-
The father-daughter bond is one of the most important emotional bonds a girl will make. Girls, like boys, will cycle back and forth between loving mom and pushing dad away, then loving dad and pushing mom away. Without a present father, she will be left pushing away from her mother
with no one to attach to during that time. This bond also sets the daughter’s ideal for future partners, in play, school and eventually in love. Girls, more than boys, develop their sense of self-worth and selfesteem based in a large part on the attention and love they perceive from their fathers. With a present and attentive father, girls tend to have better self-esteem and therefore stronger emotional health in all aspects of the development. -Paul Aglialoro is also husband to Jennifer Aglialoro, Child Forensic Interviewer and Trauma Therapist for the Children’s Advocacy Center/NEPA. The two are parents to three wonderful children. They have been devoting their time and effort at the CAC for years, providing personal and professional support to children who have been abused and neglected.
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