FCC Spirit Newspaper - Winter 2015

NONPROFIT ORG US POSTAGE PAID SAN JOSE CA PERMIT NO. 1335

478 Piercy Rd., San Jose CA 95138 Office: 408.365.0313

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Christmas Series: Come to Worship (page 1)

Upcoming Sermon Series...............1 Service Times...................................2 Young Adults ...................................3 Kingdom CrossFit ...........................3 Young Married’s Ministry ..............4 Youth Ministry.................................4 Children’s Ministry .........................5 Awana Clubs ...................................5 Men’s Class ......................................6 Women’s Class & Conference ........6 Kids Creative Arts Winter Camp ...7 MOPS/MomsNext ..........................7 DivorceCare and GriefShare .........8 Marrieds & Singles Events .............8

MEN’S Class: A Man and His Marriage (page 6) FCC is conveniently located at the gateway to the Silver Creek Area & Evergreen Valley, right off Highways 85 and 101!

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Weekend Services: Sundays @ 9:00 am & 10:45 am Spirit Newspaper • Winter 2015 - 2016 • A quarterly publication • Issue #19 • Published by Family Community Church 478 Piercy Rd, San Jose CA 95138 • Editor: Mindy Scratch • Photos: John Stalker • Graphics & Website: Scott Fischer

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FAMILY COMMUNITY CHURCH Winter 2015 - 2016 Issue

A Publication of Family Community Church Winter 2015 - 2016

SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE Check out what you’ll find at FCC!

2016...Good or Great?

Make 2016 your best year ever! “Good” things keep us from inserting “great” things into our life that would benefit us. Things like exercise, spending time with family and friends, taking your spouse on a date… and going to church. Especially a church like Family Community Church!

Feel overwhelmed or frazzled from running at the speed of life? Have the pace or pressures of life put God on a shelf this year? FCC has tons of people just like you who find life makes more sense when they show up to check God out. Priorities shift and life is more fulfilling. Purpose emerges and focus gets clearer.

Inside this Spirit Newspaper you will find many opportunities to start 2016 right and explore the spiritual dimensions of your life.

FCC’s 130,000 SF campus at 478 Piercy Road is at the gateway to the Silver Creek/ Evergreen Areas, near Highways 101 & 85 and the intersection of Hellyer Avenue and Silver Creek Valley Road.

Family Community Church is a growing, non-denominational church designed to meet your needs.

Children’s Ministries, Youth, College,

Single Adults and Seniors Programs are growing at an incredible rate. At FCC you…

• Hear positive, practical messages that encourage you each week.

• Experience incredible musicians and uplifting music.

• Meet new friends and get to know your neighbors.

• Trust your children to the care of dedicated nursery workers and incredible programs like AWANA.

great band. Incredible youth and kids programs too!

2. Tuesday 7:00 PM: Young Adults (18-37) in the Stage3 Auditorium.

Great band and passionate preaching by Pastor Chase Wiggins for college and young professional adults.

3. Thursday, 7:00 PM: Adult “modern issues” and Bible classes, Youth & Awana. Options galore plus child care and a $3 dinner at 6:00 PM in FCC’s food court!

POWERFUL MESSAGES Practical, Biblical messages in services throughout the week!

More info? Call 408-365-0313 or go to www.FCCchurch.com. While on our website view a typical church service.

Hundreds of families, College/Young Adults and Singles attend FCC! Please come! I’d love to meet you personally.

FCC is growing because options are presented to find God, empower marriages and families, excite College Young Adults about God and help Singles find friends.

Weekly Meeting Options: 1. Sunday 9:00 AM and 10:45 AM: Preaching and worship with a

Need more info?

Call 408-365-0313 or

www.FCCchurch.com Bill Buchholz Founding & Senior Pastor Family Community Church

“Come

to

FUN FOR KIDS Classes designed for kids of all ages, plus fun special events!

Worship”

Christmas Series Weekend Services

December 6 - 27 Everything changed in a moment.

When Jesus was born, He gave us the chance to be known, accepted, and forgiven. When we experience His love, we can’t help but Come to Worship.

This powerful four-week series teaches different ways to worship God including lifting your hands, bringing your gifts, pouring out your heart, and bowing before Him. Join us for the entire series starting on December 6 at 9:00 AM or 10:45 AM.

YOUNG ADULTS An exploding ministry for young adults ages 18-37!

DYNAMIC MUSIC

Upbeat worship times in all of our services, from kids to adults!

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Weekend Services Come visit this weekend!

Sunday Worship Services 9:00 & 10:45 AM In FCC’s Main Auditorium 9:00 AM: Classes for Nursery - Grade 4 10:45 AM: Classes for Nursery - Sr High

Traditions Service Sunday @ 9:00 AM in the Chapel with traditional hymns & choruses

FCC is a non-denominational Christian church open to everyone!

For more information, we invite you to visit our web site at

A Fresh Start ...

How fitting that a fresh start for our family in San Jose, CA would come courtesy of a search engine!

The year was 2011, my husband Dre, had accepted a job in Silicon Valley and moved our family of four from the U.K. to the United States. One of our first priorities was to find a vibrant, thriving church and our internet search revealed Family Community Church right at the very top!

As a multicultural family, I am from the U.K. and Dre is from Italy, we were immediately drawn to the diversity at FCC, its welcoming atmosphere and the incredible amount of activities for our teenage boys, Lucas (17) and Leo (14). Soon after attending, we joined the worship ministry and the rest, as they say...is history.

Fast forward four years - I am now the Worship Pastor at FCC and Dre serves as the Musical Director.

FCC has been an anchor of safety and security at a time of great change for us, and we are grateful for the safe, fresh start it allowed us to make by providing sound

Join Us December 24 at 10:00 AM

Bring the entire Family!

Kick-off your Christmas weekend with a tradition here at Family Community Church, a fun service that’s geared for the whole family!

Come and join us as we sing Christmas Carols together and worship Emmanuel - God with us.

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Bible teachings in a friendly, loving atmosphere.

We have experienced first-hand the number of lives that have been changed, not only by the teachings of Pastor Bill, but also by the practical, no-strings attached love that permeates the activities and outreaches of our church. From the ladies “Coffee Talk” events (a favorite of mine) to free oil changes for single moms and the elderly (a favorite of Dre’s), FCC has a ton of activities and programs that will encourage you, help you and show you the love of Christ in everything they do.

We are so honored to serve in our community by leading the worship ministry, starting each service off with uplifting, encouraging music to help you find peace in your heart and prepare for incredible messages each week. We both love what we do – trying to blend the flavor of contemporary worship music and the power of traditional gospel tunes with the incredible talent of a top-notch band.

Our boys, too, are involved in music. They serve on a number of bands, from the KidzPlanet Children’s Ministry to the main service, but Stage 3 – FCC’s youth ministry – is where they truly call home. Stage 3 has been and still is a major influence in their lives, with age-appropriate services and fun events like the recent Boys Night all-nighter with endless pizza and video games.

Lucas will graduate next summer from high school, and we look forward to him joining Encounter, the FCC group for young adults with his “big brother” Pastor Chase. Encounter is a growing, happening group of young people making a difference in the community of Silicon Valley and having fun in the process.

So – come check FCC out!

Whatever stage of your life you are at, there are countless opportunities for you. Maybe, just maybe, this can be a church home for you and allow you to have – like we did – a fresh start! ~ Lily, Dre, Lucas and Leo

Family Community Church 478 Piercy Rd. San Jose, CA 95138 (408) 365-0313

Baby Dedications Sunday, January 10 During 10:45 AM Service for children 5 and under

The Bible says that a baby is a blessing from God. When you decide to dedicate your son or daughter, you are acknowledging the awesome responsibility God has given you in raising your child. A baby dedication is a ceremony that expresses your desire as parents to raise your son or daughter in the ways of the Bible and to ask God to use your child for His purpose.

Email Cindy: CLiardon@FCCchurch.net

BAPTISM SUNDAY

December 13 & February 28 9:00 AM & 10:45 AM

Celebrating Changed Lives If you’d like to be baptized, plan to be here at one of these services! At the end of the service, you will be invited forward for baptism. Bring a change of clothes, and invite your friends and family to come celebrate with you!

What is Baptism?

Baptism illustrates Christ’s burial and resurrection. “Christ died for our sins.

He was buried and He rose again,” the Bible says, “for when you were baptized you were buried with Christ and in baptism you were also raised with Christ.” At FCC, we baptize the way they did in the Bible - putting people all the way under the water.

At FCC, we do not baptize babies

or young children. We believe that baptism is a personal declaration of your new life as a follower of Jesus Christ. We believe you should be baptized if you are a new believer, have rededicated your life to Jesus, or were baptized as a child and now want to follow Jesus’ example of public confession of your faith as an adult.

Children and youth under 13 years of age who are interested in being baptized must attend our Baptism Classes on Dec. 6 or Feb 21. For information, e-mail Pastor Matthew at: MTrujillo@FCCchurch.net.

Please visit our website at:

www.fccchurch.com/eventsinfo/baptism

Young Adults - Ages 18-37 - Weekly Services Tuesdays @ 7:00 PM in the Stage 3 Audtorium 2015 is coming to a close and what a wild ride it has been. A little over 2 years ago, Encounter started with 15 people.

Last week, over 300+ young adults from all over the Bay Area came to worship our great God. 2015 has been a year of victory, and battles; but God has proven himself faithful time and time again. There is no doubt that He has done great things, but I believe that greater things are ahead for the young adults of FCC, and my heart is for you to be a part of it.

We live in the most un-churched area in the United States, and the heart of Encounter is to reach the 98% unchurched people of our community.

If you were to show up on a Tuesday night at 7:00 PM it would not be what you expect. You would see a church that is loud and expressive in the way that it worships God. You would see beautiful young people from different backgrounds, ethnicities, genders, and

cultures. You would see people who are rich, sitting next to people who are homeless. You will see the nameless next to the famous. You will see people who have been in church their entire lives, next to people who have never set foot in church. You will see vibrant worship, a relevant word, and a community of people who love Jesus and each other. I am a firm believer that you don’t have to believe to belong, and Encounter has been built on the truth of that statement.

So, now the question is will you come?

I’m so serious that I am going to ask again…Will you come? Every week church GOESSSS UPPPPPPP on a Tuesday night, and we would love to have you simply come and see what God is doing. If you are between the ages of 18-37, I can promise you that you will leave different then you walked in. I look forward to meeting you this week!

Chase Wiggins

Young Adults Pastor CWiggins@FCCchurch.net

Strong in Body, Strong in Faith

>> Grand Opening << What is Crossfit?

CrossFit is a program developed to offer a full-body workout that combines elements of cardio, weight lifting, gymnastics, core training and more to prepare the body for the unexpected.

Workouts are done in a group/class setting, with a Certified Crossfit Trainer leading every class. This ensures motivation as well as safety.

Why Crossfit?

• Constantly Varied Workouts • Community Support • Challenging • Fuels the Competitive Spirit • Scaled Workouts for All Fitness Levels • Gets Results Is Crossfit For Me?

There is not just ONE way to do a CrossFit WOD (Workout of the Day).

Every movement can be modified to meet the training needs of the specific athlete.

Grand Opening

Rock Bottom Pricing

$89.00 / month unlimited classes

~ Up to 3 months paid in advance ~

Class Schedule (1 hour classes) Monday - Friday • 5:30 AM • 7:00 AM • 8:00 AM • 5:00 PM • 6:00 PM Saturdays: 8:00 AM

Absolutely! At CrossFit, each and every workout is 100% scalable for ALL shapes, sizes, ages and fitness levels. As you get better we scale up!

Contact: Tony Liardon TLiardon@FCCchurch.net (408) 365-0313

Biblical Business Training

Biblical Business Training enables professionals to apply their faith and Biblical Principles in their lives at work by discussing practical business topics and related guidance found in the Bible.

Topics include Integrity, Delegation, Adapting to Change, Leadership, Teamwork, and Risk Taking.

Group

e/o Monday Morning 7:00 AM - 8:00 AM In FCC’s Lobby Cafe - Coffee served, plus optional Breakfast @ 6:30 AM ($5) For both men & women.

Join us anytime!

Come meet other professionals and learn how they are applying their faith in everyday challenges and in their various roles and firms.

Winter Meeting Dates December 7 & 21 January 4 & 18 February 1, 15 & 29

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Jr. High & High School Students Sundays @ 10:45 AM & Thursdays @ 7:00 PM

NEW Young Married’s Ministry for married couples ages 18-37 A place where married couples in their 20’s and 30’s grow stronger in their relationship by learning and applying God’s design for their marriages.

Couples will develop new friendships, offer encouragement and support, and have fun as they navigate life together. We invite you to join us at our next gathering.

Monthly Schedule • Group Bible Studies: 1st and 3rd Thursdays we meet at FCC to connect and study’s God’s Word to enrich our marriages. Classroom 255, 7:00pm to 8:30pm (Childcare available).

• Couples Date Night: 2nd and 4th Thursday, plan and enjoy your own special night out.

• Group Family Day: 2nd Sunday of each month – Various Family Day activities where we join together in our community and simply have fun with our kids (kids not required).

Stage 3 is FCC’s ministry for 7th through 12th graders. It’s a place to build lasting friendships, discover your purpose, and experience the all-encompassing love of God. We are not only looking to have fun together, but to learn, grow, and support each other as we live out the life that God has called us to.

During our services on Sunday mornings at 10:45 AM and Thursday nights at 7:00 PM, we dive into worship with our amazing studentled worship team. We also spend time learning how God’s Word is not only relevant in our lives, but also a guide on how to live a life that is meaningful, impactful, and blessed.

Before ending our services, we break out into small groups, which are an amazing opportunity to build meaningful relationships with each other, discuss our thoughts and lives,

and speak life into each other.

Are you ready to experience a love like no other, a different and purposeful way of living, and meaningful relationships that build you up, instead of tear you down?

Then come as you are, and join us in the Stage 3 Auditorium. We cannot wait to meet you!

Stage 3 Winter Camp - January 8-10 Camp Chinquapin - Pinecrest, CA Check our website to register today!

Limited spots available! www.fccchurch.com/ministries/youth/ stage3-events

Micah Kuyat

Youth Pastor MKuyat@ FCCchurch.net

Contact: Rachel and Ryan Vargas at YoungMarrieds@FCCchurch.net or visit our website for upcoming local events and meeting dates.

NEW Young Married’s Class for married couples ages 18-37

Boundaries in Marriage starts Thursday, January 7 @ 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm

Only when a husband and wife know and respect each other’s needs, choices, and freedom can they give themselves freely and lovingly to one another.

Boundaries in Marriage gives your relationship the tools it needs.

By applying the powerful biblical and relational principles presented in this study, couples can make a good marriage better and even save one that’s headed for disaster.

Sessions include: 1. What’s a Boundary, Anyway?

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4. Love of God and Love of Spouse 5. Honesty and Faithfulness 6. Compassion, Forgiveness, and Holiness 7. Resolving Conflict in Marriage 8. Warning Signs

Cost: $30.00 per couple

(includes one reading book and 2 workbooks)

Register online:

www.fccchurch.com/ministries/adults/marriage

Contact: Rachel and Ryan Vargas YoungMarrieds@FCCchurch.net

For 7th & 8th Graders - Sundays @ 10:45 AM Our exciting Junior High Ministry, District 78, meets in the Stage 3 Auditorium for worship with our Stage 3 students, then moves next door to the Take 2 Auditorium for an engaging, age specific Bible lesson.

Discussion and connection will be encouraged in small group settings– all while having a ridiculous amount of fun!

Students will develop their relationship with Jesus Christ and

their fellow peers to become the young people God has called them to be, preparing them for high school and youth ministry.

They will also participate in various other activities, outings, Bible studies, leadership training and service projects throughout the year.

Looking forward to meeting you soon!!

Bree Kuyat, Jr. High Pastor BKuyat@FCCchurch.net

AWANA BIBLE CLUB Winter Semester starts Thursday, January 7 @ 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM

Children’s Ministry

Sunday Services @ 9:00 AM & 10:45 AM Nursery through Grade 4 Saturday Service @ 5:00 PM Childcare for 18 months - Grade 5

Our Kidzplanet Children’s Ministry is a safe place where your children will have fun as they build a solid faith foundation. We offer classes that are age specific, exciting and God centered.

All volunteers and leaders are carefully screened and supervised, and a stringent security process for all volunteers provides parents the assurance that their child is being well-cared for during the service.

Our nursery through Kidzplanet Jr. rooms, provide hands on activities, music, and an interactive Bible lesson from our caring leaders. Early childhood classes for 3 thru 5 yearolds also includes an exciting time in our very own jump house room and playground.

We also have small group time where each student can connect with one another and build relationships with their peers, as they share their thoughts and get answers.

“Do your best to present yourself to God as approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.” 2 Timothy 2:15

AWANA’s goal is to reach boys and girls with the gospel of Christ and train them to serve Him. Children from 2 years old to 6th grade will learn and grow in God’s Word, play exciting games and

make lasting friendships.

The Winter semester kicks off on January 7, 2016 and meets every Thursday from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM. Cost is $25/child for Winter semester.

Register at http://www.fccchurch.com/ ministries/children/awana-clubs Volunteers, please contact Kelly at KAustin@FCCchurch.net.

Our main Kidzplanet service, offers a place where children from first through fourth grade can discover and develop a passion for God. Through live worship, engaging teaching, and a variety of fun activities, children are exposed to God’s Word and challenged to grow in their relationship with Jesus.

Join us this weekend or simply contact me if you have any questions. I look forward to meeting you and your family and growing together.

Matthew Trujillo Children’s Pastor MTrujillo@ FCCchurch.net

THE PLACE For 5th & 6th Graders - Sundays @ 10:45 AM AREA56 is THE PLACE for fifth and sixth graders. Designed specifically for preteens, our service usually kicks off with a crazy, exciting game for everyone, followed by live worship and an engaging message to discover what the Word of God has to say for their lives.

A.W.A.N.A. Clubs

Approved Workman Are Not Ashamed

Students are encouraged to participate and serve in our services in the areas of singing, music, media, greeters and taking on leadership roles during various activities – all preparing them for their next step in youth ministry.

Oh, and did we mention we have ping pong and foosball tables! If you have a fifth or sixth grader, bring them to AREA56 – located in The Café – every Sunday at 10:45am!

Contact: Pastor Matthew Trujillo MTrujillo@FCCchurch.net

Free Bible App for Kids @ www.bible.com/kids Partner with your child and FCC! Each month there will be a devotion that you can do with your family at home by using the “YouVersion™ Bible for Kids” and “YouVersion™ Bible” Apps on your phone or tablet.

The devotionals will coincide with the exciting, interactive lessons taking place in our 2’s, 3’s, 4’s, and Kindergarten rooms on Sunday mornings at FCC. Through interactive adventures and beautiful animations, your child will explore the big stories of the Bible. It is designed to encourage kids to return again and again, setting the foundation for a lifelong love of God’s Word.

You can also watch the month’s lesson on YouTube, in case you miss a Sunday. Download the App for FREE today and start enjoying God’s Word with your family and church family!

Visit our church website to see the month’s current devotion at: www.fccchurch.com/ministries/children/bibleforkids Spirit Newspaper • Winter 2015 - 2016 • 5

Women’s ‘Coffee Talk’

Saturday, February 6 @ 9:30 AM - 12:00 PM Ladies, this is your opportunity to get away from the hassels and responsibilties of day-to-day life!

Coffee Talk is a friendly casual place where women can connect with one another while being inspired and encouraged. You’ll enjoy a relevant message by a guest speaker, personal stories, and some honest talk, along with a healthy dose of laughter and fun. On top of that you’ll also enjoy a light breakfast and Starbucks coffee.

You’ll be encouraged to deepen your friendships with others and with God! Bring your favorite coffee mug and enjoy time with friends!

Cost is $5/person, includes light breakfast.

Full tables can also be purchased for $30 (6 people). Fill them with your coworkers, family members and friends!

February Guest Speaker

Char Blair Rev. Char Blair is a gifted communicator. Her witty sense of humor and willingness to speak truth from God’s Word into real life situations are just the beginning of her many God-given talents and abilities. She is a licensed minister with the Northern California and Nevada Assemblies of God District Council. Char is a graduate of William Jessup University receiving her degree in Psych/Counseling and Biblical Theology. Her passion to show God’s love in a practical way to the world is evident by her volunteer work with Children’s Water Foundation, an organization that brings clean water wells to the villages of Ghana, West Africa. http://charblair.com/.

“real stories”

The Sweet Life ~ Women’s Conference March 4-5, 2016 ~ Modesto, CA Our theme this year is Real Stories. It can be so easy when you ‘get real’ to ‘get down’ thinking about the trials of life. But that isn’t what the conference this year is about. When I think of a woman sharing her real story, I think of joy, triumph, and overcoming. I think of victory and gladness. I think of salvation coming to those who listen.

I hope you’ll join us for a great event full of fun surprises, laughter, worship and Holy Spirit power! I can promise you this… God has something special in store.

Cost: $69.00 for earlybird pricing

by February 4, 2016 ** Only $25.00 for ages 25 and under!

Location: The House Modesto 1601 Coffee Rd, Modesto CA 95355 Visit our website for pricing options, speakers and registration at: www.fccchurch.com/eventsinfo/sweetlife Pastor Melody Buchholz MBuchholz@FCCchurch.net

Pastor Melody Buchholz MBuchholz@FCCchurch.net

Women’s Bible Study ~ 2 Class Options!

MEN’S Class: A Man and His Marriage Starts Thursday, January 7 @ 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM This 6-week study covers important but often misunderstood details about marriage, including biblical foundation, servant leadership, friendship, threats, and sex. It concludes with specific, practical ideas that can help you bring new life to your marriage.

Session Titles: 1. The Biblical Marriage

Foundation

2. Die to Live 3. Friendship in Marriage Spirit Newspaper • Winter 2015 - 2016 • 6

for

4. Physical Intimacy 5. Obstacles to Biblical Oneness in Marriage 6. Game Changers Join us in this 6-week series to connect and grow with other men from our community.

Only $20 per person

includes personal training guide and classroom materials

Register online at: http://www.fccchurch.com/classes/ men-bible-study

Thursday, January 7, 2016 @ 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM Friday, January 8, 2016 @ 9:00 AM - 11:00 AM

“Lord, Teach Me to Pray” Lord, Teach Me to Pray: Practicing a Powerful Pattern of Prayer - by Kay Arthur provides a personal study experience five days a week plus viewer guides for the group video sessions of this in-depth women’s Bible study.

a life touched by deep tragedy as well as great triumph. Getting to know her heart for God will be one of the joys of this study. What you learn will be yours to practice for a lifetime, just as Jesus intended when He taught His disciples how to pray.

Learn what the Lord’s Prayer teaches us about effective prayer and how to put into practice its timeless principles. Kay will equip you to be used in God’s Kingdom.

Cost: $15.00 includes workbook

Her authority comes from God’s Word; her compassion stems from

Contact Pastor Melody Buchholz MBuchholz@FCCchurch.net

Register: www.fccchurch.com/classes/ womensfridaystudy

Saturday, January 9, 2016 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM

Mops and MomsNext ~ December 2015 thru May 2016

Stage 3 Auditorium, Building B

1st and 3rd Wednesdays @ 9:30 AM -11:30 AM Register at: www.FCCchurch.com/classes/mops

Join us for an all women's Praise, Worship and Prayer event with great uplifting music, reflection and prayer. This is going to be a powerful time to experience the presence of God as we worship Him together. Connect with other women through encouragement, love, and friendship. Hear powerful testimonials and we’ll share our vision for 2016. Come, receive, be revived, be encouraged, and leave with a lighter heart. It’s free and you don't want to miss it!

Need Childcare to attend? Register online! (only $5.00/child - must pre-register) www.fccchurch.com/eventsinfo/womenspraise

Want to be the Best Mom Possible?

You’re not alone...

Are you a mother of a child, newborn-18 years old? Are you an expectant mother or stepmother? Ever asked yourself, “Is this normal? Do other children do this too? Are other moms as tired as me?”

Then FCC’s MOPS group is for you!

What is MOPS/MOMSNext?

Our MOPS/MOMSNext ministry is a supportive and informative group designed for moms by moms. Our group is a welcoming environment where moms can meet other moms, build relationships, get guidance, and participate in informative discussions about issues impacting today’s parents.

Want to learn more?

Our MOPS groups meet on Wednesday, December 16, 2015 and will continue the first and third Wednesday of each month through May 2016. First time visitors are always welcome to be our guests.

Moppets Childcare Moppets childcare is for ages 9 months thru Kindergarten. Infants ages 8 months and younger may come in to the MOPS meetings with mom.

Fees? $60/Mom for the 2015/16 year (December 2015 - May 2016)

Includes a MOPS International Membership

~ See website for Moppets Childcare Fees ~

MOPS ~ MOMSNext ~ MOPPETS Register online at: http://fccchurch.net/classes/mops

Better 2gether Marriage Ministry

:: Bunco Night ::

Saturday, February 13, 2016 @ 6:00 PM to 9:30 PM for married couples of all ages!

~ February Couples Event ~

Looking to connect with other couples in your community and navigate the realities of life? Then FCC’s “Better Together” Marriage Ministry is the place for you. We join together for several fun events and outings throughout the year. This is a great way to make new friends and invite other people to visit FCC with you.

Bunco is a super fun and fast paced dice game played in continuously changing groups of 4. It’s a terrific way to spend an evening and meet new people!

Cost: $5.00/person

(Plus potluck item/couple) • Last Name: A - M = Main Dish • Last Name: N - Z = Dessert • Salads & Drinks will be provided

February 15 - 19, 2016 9:00 AM

to

3:00 PM Daily

Performance

Potluck starts at 6:00PM Bunco starts at 7:00 PM

This exciting camp is five days of performing arts fun for 1st–6th graders.

To register for the Evites, go to the kiosk in our main lobby, or on our website at: www.FCCchurch. com/better-together, and register to receive all “Better Together” Ministry emails and evites.

Activities include music, singing, drama, dance, instruments and art, but the camp is much more than that—it’s an opportunity to see God working in kids lives as they come together to discover and share their creativity.

Questions or need Info?

Contact George and Yvonne at: better2getheratFCC@yahoo.com

Our goal is to help kids discover new gifts as they experience God’s love. Kids are transformed as they

on

Friday

discover the joy of using their gifts to honor God and bless others.

Students should bring their lunch daily. Performance will take place on Friday.

Cost: $80.00/child Register online: www.fccchurch.com/eventsinfo/ creativeartswintercamp Contact Rebecca Gallagos: RGallegos@FCCchurch.net Spirit Newspaper • Winter 2015 - 2016 • 7

GriefShare Support Group

Thurdays @ 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM ~ Starts January 7, 2016 It may be hard for you to feel optimistic about the future right now. If you’ve lost a spouse, child, family member, or friend, you’ve probably found there are not many people who understand the deep hurt you feel.

This can be a confusing time when you feel isolated and have many questions about things you’ve never faced before.

“Going to GriefShare feels like having warm arms wrapped around you when you’re shivering.”

GriefShare groups meet weekly to help you face these challenges and move toward rebuilding your life.

Each GriefShare session has three distinct elements: Video seminar with experts Each week your GriefShare group will watch a video seminar featuring top experts on grief and recovery subjects. These videos are produced

in an interesting television magazine format featuring expert interviews, real-life case studies, and dramatic reenactments.

Support group discussion with focus

After viewing the video, you and the other group members will spend time as a support group, discussing what was presented in that week’s video seminar and what is going on in your lives.

Personal study and reflection

During the week you will have the opportunity to use your workbook for further personal study of the grieving process and to help sort out your emotions through journaling.

Your group will spend time discussing questions and comments from the workbook study. $15/person, includes workbook Register on our website at: www.fccchurch.com/classes/griefshare

for married couples of all ages!

~ March 2016 Event ~

Looking to connect with other couples in your community and navigate the realities of life? Then FCC’s “Better Together” Marriage Ministry is the place for you. We join together for several fun events and outings throughout the year. This is a great way to make new friends and invite other people to visit FCC with you.

Bocce Ball at Almaden Lake

To register for the Evites, go to the kiosk in our main lobby, or on our website at: www.FCCchurch. com/better-together, and register to receive all “Better Together” Ministry emails and evites.

Questions or need Info?

Contact George and Yvonne better2getheratFCC@yahoo.com

Sunday, March 20, 2016 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM

Location: Almaden Lake Park 15652 Almaden Expressway San Jose, CA 95120 (408) 277-5130 Cost: Parking $6.00 Come and join us at the Bocce Ball courts, we will have two courts.

Feel free to picnic before hand and enjoy the park.

Bible 75

A Journey through ‘Revelations’

DivorceCare Support Group Thursdays @ 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM Starts January 7, 2016

Separation and Divorce hurt and you don’t have to go through it alone. Most people will tell you that separation and divorce are the most painful and stressful experiences they’ve ever faced. It’s a confusing time when you feel isolated and have questions about issues you’ve never faced before.

DivorceC are groups meet weekly to help you face these challenges and move toward rebuilding your life. Each DivorceCare week has two distinct elements: A Seminar with Experts: During the first 30 - 40 minutes of the meeting, the group watches a video seminar featuring top experts on Spirit Newspaper • Winter 2015 - 2016 • 8

Thursday Nights - starts January 7 7:00 PM - 8:15 PM

divorce and recovery subjects.

These videos are produced in an interesting-to-watch television magazine format featuring expert interviews, real-life case studies and on-location video.

A Support Group with Focus: After viewing the video, you will spend time as a support group, discussing what was presented in that week’s video seminar and what is going on in your lives.

Don’t hesitate to start your healing journey! $15/person, includes workbook Register on our website at:

www.fccchurch.com/classes/divorcecare

If you’re single and over 35, be sure to check out our Singles Ministry! We get together for fun activities, game nights, outdoor hikes, Bible studies, and holiday dances. Join us for lunch after the Sunday 10:45 AM service each week. It’s a great place to have fun and build relationships.

White Elephant Gift Exchange and Game Night

Join us for a 75 minute in-depth Bible Study. Each week stands on its own. We start right at 7:00 PM and end at 8:15 PM. This is an exciting time of discovery of great truths in God’s word. Join us and connect with others as we dig deeper into the Bible! Bible75 meets in the Family Room located right off of FCC’s main lobby.

December 12 @ 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM at FCC in Room 252. Come on out to enjoy some great food and connect with other Bay Area singles. We’ll play games and exchange fun gifts. Bring a gift item under $15 and a Potluck item (side dish/main dish/dessert).

Singles Bible Study Every Wednesday @ 7:00pm - 9:00pm at home location. Email John Lopez: Jnch3verse16@sbcglobal.net for home address.

Visit www.FCCchurch.com or email Singles@FCCchurch.com

con’t>> I want my boys to understand the power of power tools, as well as the intricacies of doing electrical work.

Each time I work, I invite them in.

Sure I could get it done faster without them, but there is something about slowing down and accepting their help that is satsfying.

Being a Strong Father in a Culture of Weak Men...

By Kevin East

B

oys should be able to describe what a godly man looks like, having watched one from the time they were a little boy.

Unfortunately, this isn’t the case for most.

For many boys, a godly man is something like Superman or Big Foot. It is not something that can be grasped.

A couple of weeks ago I brought my two boys with me to a home and garden center.

As I was checking out, the old man behind the counter stopped me in my tracks with what he said. My boys were off to the side, gently playing with the wind chimes.

They, too, didn’t know how to respond to the old man’s comment.

“What are you two girls up to today?”

I don’t think he meant anything bad by it. It’s not like they were in trouble or something. Rather, he was probably just a good-ole country boy looking to ruffle some feathers in my sons. My boys sheepishly smiled, and even softly replied, “We’re not girls.” Unfortunately, my reply was equally as soft. “Oh, boys, he’s just being crazy saying you are girls.”

It wasn’t until I was driving away did I begin kicking myself. I realized I missed an opportunity to speak into my sons.

They needed me to. They were watching how I would handle that situation. That day my boys needed a strong father.

I have seen so many weak boys get married, begin working, and even start reproducing with their new brides. They wouldn’t tell you they are weak – probably because they don’t know they are.

For years I have quoted a verse that jumped out at me the first time I read it: “Praise the Lord! Blessed is the man who fears the LORD, who greatly delights in his commandments! His offspring will be mighty in the land.”

Psalms 122:1,2a As a father, I pray that my boys will grow up to be strong, godly men. In the meantime, there are certain things I hold to in an effort to help lead them that way.

1. Show them the power in weakness.

We’ve been led to think that broken, emotional, and dependent men are all signs of a lesser male. This is a

6. Teach them The Story. As they grow up, I want to continue to unfold the story of God to them. It’s not just about memorizing Scripture. It is about them coming to understand God as Father. They need someone who can hear their tough questions about God, and dig through the Scriptures to help uncover the answer.

And when those times come when we don’t fully understand the answer, I want to explain to them exactly what faith is, and how it is something to not be afraid of.

lie. I want all my kids to hear from me about my imperfection. I want them to hear how grateful I am for the grace of God. That grace will bring me to tears at times. It does because it is overwhelming. It is freeing. As opposed to teaching them to pull themselves up by their bootstraps, I want them to learn what it’s like to approach a powerful, mighty, gracious God who welcomes dependent, broken, faith-filled people.

2. Help them realize their strength.

I consider it “papa bear” time. I’ve been wrestling with my kids since they were babies. They’re getting to that age where their punches actually hurt. With each of their best wrestling moves or carefully placed punches, I let them know I see an improvement in their strength. This is something I never want them to question. They have what it takes.

By the way, after a few weeks of stewing on how I handled that old guy at the home and garden center, I brought my boys back. I brought them in to dare him to say something like he did before. I felt like John Wayne, calling out a man to a duel.

Sure enough, he was there, right behind the same counter he was before. I walked straight up to him and looked him square in the eyes. Unfortunately, he didn’t go running his mouth that day. BUT, if he had, I was prepared to tell him this: “Oh, these aren’t girls. They are future men. And each day it is my responsibility to teach them how to get there!”

Kevin East is the President of the Boys & Girls Clubs of East Texas. He formerly served Pine Cove Camps as their Executive Director of Ministries. He writes at his blog, “Following to Lead”. Connect with him on Twitter @kevinteast.

Kids Club Outreach After School Program Stipe Elementary -Tuesdays Oakridge Elementary - Thursdays

FCC is privileged to sponsor a faith based after-school program at two schools in south San Jose. Kids Club is a free after-school program designed to teach positive life skills to children through games, music, and Bible discussions. Through Kids Club, FCC is able to help kids build relationships, find out who God is, and learn how much He loves them.

Contact Riva Trujillo RTrujillo@FCCchurch.net

3. Model for them how to love and honor their wife. When my kids were little, they would cry if we told them we were going on a date. Now it is such a regular event that they barely notice. We’ve explained many times that mommy and daddy love each other, so we want to go spend time together – just the two of us.

They see me get excited about a gift idea, and they help me surprise my wife in unexpected ways. I hope that someday I will be able to help them surprise their wives as well.

4. Teach them to fight fairly. My wife and I get under each other’s skin at times. We conflict. We bicker. We snip at each other. I can be grumpy, or too curt. My kids get front row seats to all this. I don’t want them to wonder if they have a bad marriage someday because they are arguing with their spouse. I want them to see that conflict is a good thing. It brings growth, freedom and friendship if done well.

5. Provide an apprenticeship. I love it when my boys work around the house with me. So many teachable moments open up as we are building a bike rack (like last weekend) or splitting firewood in the backyard.

Daniel: Lives of Integrity, Words of Prophecy Starts Friday, March 4, 2016 @ 9:00 AM - 11:00 AM Ladies - Beth Moore provides a personal study experience five days a week plus viewer guides for the group video sessions of this in-depth women’s Bible study. The prophet Daniel faced unbelievable pressures to compromise his faith, to live in a hostile culture, and to confront temptations and threats.

Today, believers in Jesus Christ face many of the same trials. Join Beth in a faith-building study of prophecy

and learn how to live with integrity in today’s self-absorbed society.

Only $20 per person (includes book and materials) Register online at: http://www.fccchurch.com/classes/ womensfridaystudy Contact: Pastor Melody Buchholz MBuchholz@FCCchurch.net Spirit Newspaper • Winter 2015 - 2016 • 9

“Prime Time” Seniors Connections for Seniors age 55 and up!

Monthly Potluck Fellowship

Second Thursday of every month @ Noon in FCC’s Cafe. Bring a dish to share. Enjoy fellowship with friends and hear from a guest speaker.

Traditions Service in the Chapel: Sundays @ 9:00 AM

Weekend service option for those who prefer traditional hymns & worship choruses. Live music in the Chapel and the same message from Pastor Bill via video from the Main Auditorium.

available Sundays @ 9:00 AM & 10:45 AM

Adopt a Highway Saturdays @ 8:45 AM - Noon Once a month

Special Hearts ministers to the hearts

Visit website for a list of upcoming dates. Join us as we do our part to keep our area clean!

and needs of people with disabilities and their families, providing spiritual and emotional support through parent groups, fellowship, and special needs buddies. We also connect with other groups that provide special needs resources, events and respite care.

Special Needs Buddies are available to provide support for children during Sunday morning services at 9:00 AM and 10:45 AM. Visit our website at:

http://www.fccchurch.com/ministries/ outreach/adopt-a-highway

http://www.fccchurch.com/ministries/ children/special-hearts

FCC has the privilege of serving our community by cleaning a stretch of Highway 85 South between Cottle and Great Oaks once a month. We invite you to join us on our next outing! We meet at FCC at 8:45 AM in the parking lot near the outdoor playground.

Ages 15 or older are welcome. Vests and gloves are provided.

Fine Arts Ministry artists photographers artisians

1st Tuesday each month @ 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM The Chapel at FCC

Each month, we discuss art topics, plan art related activities and events, share our work seeking constructive feedback and encourage each other to be creative and productive with the gifts God has given us. All levels of artists and supporters of the arts are welcome. Please join us the 1st Tuesday night of each month! For more information, contact Cynthia at FineArts@FCCchurch.net.

Lay Chaplain Ministry Do you know someone in a convalescent home or senior center who would enjoy a visit from a caring individual? FCC has a team of lay chaplains who provide visits to seniors who are often forgotten.

Email Christie@FCCchurch.com or call our church office at 408-365-0313 to request a visit. Just provide the name and location and FCC’s lay chaplains will come brighten up their day! Please note, the ministry does not make home visits.

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Media Ministry Come join us! No experience necessary - We will train you!

Our dynamic weekend services are made possible by our amazing behind the scenes Media team! This team operates the video cameras during services, as well as the media equipment that puts the words for songs and sermons on the screens in our Auditorium, and special events. We are always looking to add more volunteers.

Come tour the Media Backstage Control Room and watch the team direct a service LIVE! If you like what you see, we’ll train you to join the team! No experience is necessary. This is a fun, hands-on ministry. Contact Pastor Tony Liardon at TLiardon@FCCchurch.net for information. Hope to see you soon!

Watch Our Services Online!

Visit www.FCCchurch.com FCC Archived Service Videos: Browse through recent services to enjoy worship music and a relevant message from a recent series.

FCC iTunes Podcasts: Listen to sermons while on the go with our iTunes podcast!

Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/fccchurch Check out photos from events!

FCC Reusable Shopping Bags Convenient and easy to use!

Purchase at FCC’s Information Center

con’t >> of Rights says is “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.”

A Charlie Brown Christmas!

By Kim Sheffield I will let you in on a little secret.

Promise not to tell anyone because it will change the way we think about certain days and seasons. It will shock your socks off!

OK. Maybe that is an exaggeration, but promise anyway. OK? But first, a story. I am a teacher and for many years I had the privilege of teaching U.S. History to 8th graders.

I say “privilege” because I like U.S. History.

There are some pretty amazing events and other stuff (a word we historians use…it has deep meanings) that make U.S. History very exciting.

8th grade students are different than 7th grade students because 7th graders think they are funny. They think they are hilarious. They think they invented humor.

8th grade students have a little maturity (“little” being the key word in this sentence) and are able to think more, not just laugh at how funny they think they are.

Each November, I would ask my students, “Who are the Pilgrims giving thanks to in this Thanksgiving season?” Their response, year after year, was the same; the Pilgrims were giving thanks to the Indians who had helped them survive in the new world.

Side note: Middle School kids would also overwhelmingly want to vote for democrats when we would do mock elections. When I finally asked them why, their response was that since they were for democracy, they were for democrats – thinking that democrats were for democracy and republicans were not.

End Side Note.

At first, their answers surprised me, but as time went on, I realized something. As I pressed them for the “why” of their answer it was not what I expected.

I expected them to say things like, “It’s what our Kindergarten (1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th) teachers taught us.”

They did not say that.

They used logic. Their logic was that the Indians taught them how to farm and what to farm in the new world, therefore, when they got together for the first Thanksgiving feast, they were thanking the Indians.

Makes sense, riiiiiiiight?

Before I tell you the secret, I have another story for you.

Reading through the news online a while back, I saw an article that was entitled, “Some Want to Remove Christ from Christmas.”

Does anyone see the absurdity in that headline?

Here is the secret – The holidays we celebrate as the year comes to a close are uniquely godly holidays. We give thanks to God at Thanksgiving for what he has done for us. It started with the Pilgrims thanking God (and yes, they thanked the Indians also because they saw the help they received from the Indians as given from God) and has become a national holiday. Abraham Lincoln in 1863, after admitting that God’s mercy has sustained the country in a difficult time, called on the people of the United States to “set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next, as a day of Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens.”

Christmas…Christ mass…Christ, Messiah, God’s Son, Jesus’s birthday.

We all know the story of Christmas as told by Linus on the empty stage in “A Charlie Brown Christmas.” How in the world can you take Christ out of his own birthday celebration?!

Granted, Jesus was most likely not born on December 25, but still it is beyond me.

I know, I know. Lawyers, courts, and atheists argue that the government cannot favor one religion over another.

What the first amendment of the Bill

Congress cannot make a law establishing a religion (which was a direct response to the Church of England which was the only religion allowed in England at the time).

However, the Constitution does not limit the President from making Christmas a national holiday, which is why every year it is a national holiday (or at least a day off most everyone except for 7-11 workers).

It is also why the President of the United States has made Thanksgiving, a holiday to thank God for his goodness to us.

Another Side Note: the very word, holiday, is a short version of the phrase “holy day.” Holy refers to God’s sacredness. So when you wish someone a “nice holiday,” you are wishing him or her a “nice day of God’s sacredness.”

So…

“And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flocks by night, and lo the angel of the Lord came upon them and the glory of the Lord shone round about them, and they were sore afraid, and the angel said unto them, “Fear not, for behold, I bring you tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.

For unto you is born this day in the city of David, a savior, ‘tis Christ the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you. You shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes lying in a manger.

And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly hosts, praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.”

That’s what Christmas is all about Charlie Brown.

Kim Alan Sheffield is an excited grandfather to the cutest girl in the world, father to two great young men, and the husband of a wonderful woman. He is a public school principal in San Jose and writes a blog you can follow at: www.kimalansheffield2. blogspot.com

Facility

FACILITY RENTALS FCC is a huge 17 acres 130,000 SF campus that accommodates small weddings, large conventions or family events like parties and Quinceañeras.

Available Facilities 2 large auditoriums, 8,000+ SF, stage, theater lighting, and multi media projectors. Seats 400 for wedding or special meetings and conventions.

1 large auditorium, 20,000 SF, seats 1,450, large stage, food court/lobby that accommodates another 950 people.

Additional meeting rooms available for corporate/private events.

Perfect set up for Wedding & Reception The 8,000 SF auditoriums are next to each other. For weddings or conventions you can have a ceremony/meeting in one auditorium and go right into a meal reception or dance in the adjacent auditorium.

For details, Contact Cindy at Cindy@FCCchurch.com or call 408-365-0313.

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