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NEW IN 2015!
ESSENTIALS 101: OVERVIEW OF GOD’S STORY How do you fit into His amazing plan?
Wednesdays beginning January 14
CPC BOOK CLUB Feed your brain with great books and discussion.
Thursdays, January 15 & February 19
SINGLE-PARENT FAMILY MINISTRY
RACE & FAITH: A ROUNDTABLE DISCUSSION
A new group for single parents and their children.
How can we be reconcilers in the name of Jesus?
Thursdays, January 15 & February 19
Thursday, January 15
MOSAIC WORSHIP SERVICE
TIME TO LAUGH!
For kids and students with special needs and their families.
Comedian Michael Jr. performs at CPC.
Sundays, January 25 & February 22
Saturday, January 31
THE PLUNGE Learn about poverty in the Twin Cities.
Saturday, February 7
PARENTAL GUIDANCE Equipping parents to raise Christian kids in a secular world.
Wednesdays, February 25March 18
WINTER FAM JAM FOR PRESCHOOLERS AND FAMILIES Crafts, cookie decorating, face painting, and air jumping!
Saturday, February 7
WOMEN WHO INSPIRE Grab a friend for a night of inspiration with Vicki Escarra, CEO of Opportunity International.
Friday, February 27
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e are our stories, our hidden parts as well as what everyone sees. Drama, mystery, tragedy, comedy—that’s your life and mine. One of the great gifts of a church community is the privilege of hearing another’s story. Tales of struggle, of triumph. Of being lost, then found. To witness both the anguish and the exhilaration of change, because we all want to know what happens next, because the story has sucked us in, because we care. Life seems to matter more when it changes, either for the harder or the better, doesn’t it? And when we hear that they felt as if God was involved, even in ways
they don’t understand . . . somehow it makes you wonder about your own life, your own story. Your doubts and faith and fears and hopes. I think that’s why Jesus told stories all the time, to suck people in and make them feel the story could be about any of them . . . or about us.
“We are our stories, our hidden parts as well as what everyone sees.” Stories aren’t intellectual arguments or sermons to agree or disagree with. As you read the stories on the following pages, listen for what God might be saying to you, or about you. You’re really very extraordinary,
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you know, and your story really does matter. C. S. Lewis wrote, “There are no ordinary people. You have never talked to a mere mortal. Nations, cultures, arts, civilizations—these are mortal, and their life is to ours as the life of a gnat. But it is immortals whom we joke with, work with, marry, snub, and exploit—immortal horrors or everlasting splendors.” Now, there’s a story!
John Crosby serves as Senior Pastor.
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come from a family with a long history of alcoholism. We didn’t have much of a faith, but I had that “hole in the soul.” I wondered about people who went to church, so I started participating in Bible studies, youth ministries, and eventually began a personal relationship with Christ through Young Life. I felt led to enter the ministry myself. I’d hoped my faith would alleviate some of the pain of my dad’s alcoholism and help me transcend my own addiction, but I was spiritualizing my life and not being honest about what it meant to be human. I had a period of sobriety from 1984-1990, but I didn’t understand what alcoholism was: a chronic brain disorder. Around the birth of our second child, I started using again. It was about a thirteen-year run. At the time I was really enjoying the frenetic pace of attending seminary, working, preparing for my pastoral appointment, and raising a family. Our fourth child was born after I was appointed to a church in St. Cloud. Though I’d been in ministry before, I had never been a leader of a congregation. At this church I was working days, evenings, weekends, holidays, and was also on call. We were raising a family on my income. There wasn’t any time for vacation, but it was easy to just get a pint of whiskey—I could escape without going anywhere. I used to hold both worlds in tension: I loved ministry and I loved people, but I also loved to get drunk. I wanted relief from my inadequacy and the pressure of ministry. The obsession, the compulsion to “relief drink,” became a go-to behavior, and the longer I drank,
the more I couldn’t control it. It was all-consuming. In April 2002, I got a DUI. I was in jail overnight. Instead of going to my appointments the next day with parishioners, I called, lied, and bought some more booze. I thought, This is insane—beyond anything I’ve ever experienced. This thing had me. For the next two years, I was either in jail, drunk, or in the psych ward. I left my family, my ministry. I had seven jobs in one year; I couldn’t hold a job, couldn’t stay sober, was suicidal.
“The kindness of Christ came and found me. It was like God said, ‘I’m with you. Even though you’ve got a mess to clean up, I’m with you.’” During one of my stays in the psych ward, they asked if I wanted a chaplain to come see me. I was so arrogant and angry. I said, “Send him in. He’s an intern—I’ll tell him a thing or two.” He was kind, but I couldn’t even emote— I had flat-lined emotionally. He asked to close in the Lord’s Prayer together. I said one line and couldn’t remember the rest; he had to finish it without me. Where had my life gone? How had I once had such enthusiasm for God, for ministry, for following Him? How could I call out to Christ now when I should have known better? I had knowingly betrayed my faith, my family, everything. In 2004, I went into my second treatment after another DUI and jail time. In treatment, I surrendered not just my drinking but my whole life. I let go of trying so hard—only Jesus could save me. I had lost sight of what it meant to
be saved by grace through faith. Recovery is about being rigorously honest with yourself, and as I got comfortable with the truth and just being me, the kindness of Christ came and found me. It was like God said, “I’m with you. Even though you’ve got a mess to clean up, I’m with you.” I wondered, Now that I’m sober, what do I do with my life? I had been a husband, a pastor, a community leader— but all those titles were gone. I went back to the denomination I had served, but they wouldn’t take me on. I was really hurt and confused. But Christ said, “Remember how we met, before any of this? I’ve always loved you. I still love you. Let’s focus on us, not on what you do for Me. Just trust Me.” I had to repair all the hurt I’d done, so I apologized and asked for forgiveness from my ex-wife. My four children came around in their own time. There’s been healing and reconciliation there. Eventually I went to Hazelden’s Graduate School of Addiction Studies, got a Master’s of Addiction Counseling, and got licensed as a counselor. Now I have a private practice and am a chaplain at MN Adult and Teen Challenge. I also helped start a monthly worship service for those in recovery and their families [SpLINT at Church of Peace in Richfield]. So now I get to share my faith with those who are struggling with addiction as well. I’ve done wrong, and I’ve suffered because of my sin. But I trust the words of Romans 5—God proves His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for the ungodly. That’s what I believe is true. CPC LIFE
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hen my husband, Mike, and I were dating, our relationship was not rooted in faith. We had both grown up going to church—and I was very involved in my youth group—but faith wasn’t something either of us continued into college and our early 20s. When we were first married and living in Chicago, our weekends were about going out to dinner, spending time with friends, and our Sunday ritual had nothing to do with church. But once we had kids, we knew we needed to bring faith into their lives. Mike and I laugh at this now, because we were like, “Oh, our kids really need this.” We weren’t thinking about ourselves at all! But what God has done for Mike and me—and in turn our three children—through coming to faith is amazing. After a lot of church shopping, we came to CPC in December 2009. I bawled my way through that entire service, I was so moved. As we drove off, Mike said, “So, I think we found our church.” We started the membership process the next month. That fall I received a Mom’s Morning postcard in the mail that asked, Are you thirsty? As I stood in my kitchen, I remember saying out loud, “Yes.” I came to Mom’s Morning the first time by myself. I looked at the other women and thought they had it all together and knew so much more about faith than I did. Women would talk about having daily quiet time, and I would think, “That is so not what I’m doing. I want that, but I don’t understand it yet.”
“It’s not just Christmas and Easter and holding Him at arm’s length. It is about bringing Him into your life, your heart.” At Mom’s Morning, Debbie Ducar [Director of Women’s Ministry] told us that she was forty years old the first time she realized she could have a relationship with Jesus. And it just clicked for me. The ladies at Mom’s Morning want to spend time with Jesus because they are in a relationship with Him! It’s not just Christmas and Easter and holding Him at arm’s length. It is about bringing Him into your life, your heart. We aren’t worshiping someone who isn’t accessible. He is here. And I saw in myself a longing for something, for someone. In March of 2011 my sister-in-law and I sat in the front seat of my husband’s car, and she asked, “Do you want to do this?” She said she felt Jesus calling out to me, pursuing me. I gave control of my life over to Jesus right then. I remember feeling this indescribable joy and peace for days afterwards. My husband and I now know that faith needs to start with us. You can’t just bring your kids to church and expect the work to be done for the two hours a week they’re here. Just like I attend Mom’s Morning and am in a small group, my husband is also in a Bible study. It’s so wonderful seeing how God has grown him as a dad, a husband, a businessman. Faith in Jesus has changed both of us so dramatically. As someone who grew up in the church but didn’t truly “get it” till I was an adult, I just really want people to know that if you feel something stirring inside, Jesus is pursuing you. He wants to be in relationship with you, just the way you are.
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y parents are solid believers, so they modeled for me a faith that very few people have the opportunity to see. But I was so immersed in the culture of Christianity, I thought being a Christian meant going to church and getting involved—which I did. I taught Sunday school, was in a small group, and led a small group of middle schoolers when I was in high school. But I didn’t truly understand my need for a Savior. I saw Jesus as a coupon that got me into heaven, but I did not understand the idea of having a relationship with Christ and surrendering everything to Him until I went to college. I thought I was going to Virginia Tech to play football, to be seen; it was about me and my glory. But on my official visit, my recruiting host said, “Would you like to go to this worship concert with me?” My life has been completely different ever since. My host was really involved in Athletes in Action, the athletic arm of Campus Crusade for Christ. He introduced me to the campus director, who explained to me the concept of surrendering to Christ as the Lord of my life. But as he discipled me, it became very apparent that I didn’t understand the Gospel myself.
“I didn’t get that God’s love for me wasn’t based on what I did or didn’t do.” Because I didn’t get that God’s love for me wasn’t based on what I did or didn’t do, I went through a phase of trying to manage my sin because I didn’t want God to be upset with me. I wasn’t trusting the blood of Christ to be enough. I didn’t know how truly secure I was in Christ until I understood that Christ pursued me in His love based on nothing that I did. This is grace. I discovered that God had given me gifts in writing and storytelling, so I decided to get my Master’s in Broadcasting from Northwestern University in Chicago. A job as a TV news reporter in El Paso followed in 2013. But whether because of the loneliness of late nights in the newsroom or the void I felt by failing to achieve recognition through TV, I spent many self-destructive nights in multiple fast food drive-thrus. This struggle really flared in college; my roommate once called me a “legendary fueler,” which was a high honor for a former D1 football player. But it’s also sugar coating what Scripture calls a glutton. I wish I could say overeating was my only obsessive-compulsive tendency. Yet through my struggles with pornography, which began in middle school, I had trained myself to value women for their physical appearance and, before long, subtly began to value myself that way, too. I lived in fear that I wasn’t attractive enough to avoid rejection, so I began rigidly managing what I ate. Satan would urge me to escape that anxiety through overeating—which made me gain weight and feel more insecure. But the Holy Spirit continues to heal me, and I have a relationship with Christ—the Bread of Life—in whom I will never go hungry. It’s jarring that a kid who “prayed the prayer” in fourth grade at CPC’s Camp Soar—and who was involved in almost every Sunday and Wednesday activity—could take this long to begin trusting God’s unconditional faithfulness. I’ve far from figured it out, but Romans 8:39 says “neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Not even my gluttony, nor my lust, nor my pride, nor my selfishness. Instead, I have found life-altering peace and purpose in Jesus and the loving grace He has so freely given me. CPC LIFE
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here isn’t a striking moment, like many people have, that marks the start of my faith. But I do remember a moment in a class I took here at CPC of really understanding the love Jesus had for me. It was like an arrow went through my heart. This was something that I’d heard before, but now it literally took my breath away. A true Holy Spirit moment. And I understood. So though all my life I’d been one who believed God loved me and was there for me, I didn’t really, really feel it and know it until that moment. I was probably in my early 30s then. I spent many years not working outside the home while raising my two children. I was the volunteer queen, helping at school and church, in the neighborhood and community. When the kids were older, I decided I needed to move into something of my own, yet I didn’t know what that might be. I dabbled with getting back into my field of dietetics, but there were roadblocks to that and it was frustrating and discouraging. I went through a dark time of confusion, feeling lost about what I was good at that was worth anything to anybody. It was really hard. But knowing Christ and becoming closer to Him has made me realize that there is an intended purpose for my being—who I am and where I am and the people I am with—that I can impact His kingdom. And that doesn’t necessarily mean that I will make millions. It means that I might touch one person, one day. In fact, years ago
I went to a friend’s house because she was in the midst of a difficult relationship. I listened to her, held her hand, and cried with her. And then I came home and said to my husband, “You know, if I did nothing else on any given day, I would still feel fulfilled.” I didn’t know then that that was what God made me for—to listen to people.
“Knowing Christ and becoming closer to Him has made me realize that there is an intended purpose for my being.” Eventually I heard about this place called Christos Center for Spiritual Formation, which trains people in spiritual direction. I began to be curious about that, and I talked to several people who urged me to look into it. Before I knew it—and this is so unlike me because I can think about doing something for ten years and tell myself that I could never and I’m not good enough—I was applying, interviewing, finding my own spiritual mentor, and being trained within the span of a few months. I was terrified and trembling and literally sick to my stomach for the two years I went through the training. During that time I was in this tension of great fear and excitement, which I definitely think is God moving— and found that I was among my people. A lot of things came clear for me, and it was a huge growing time for me. So now I’m a spiritual director, helping people discern the
Holy Spirit’s calling, though I don’t really make any money from it. So to fundraise I teach preschool! There’s a book called Dark Night of the Soul, and when you hear that expression, you often think of a heavy, gray cloud, a depressive kind of time. And it can be, but I think a lot of times what we’re going through is a time of spiritual shifting and a time of God showing us something new. While I was trying to figure out what I was going to do with my life, I also found that spiritually I was feeling dissatisfied. Certain ways of studying Scripture, certain prayer routines started to become stale and without life to me. I felt like I wasn’t as good of a Christian as I used to be. And those are horrible words to think because what’s really happening is that you are growing into another stage, into another level of depth with Jesus. And to not fight it but to just examine it and contemplate what might be happening. I began a season of just quiet, sitting with my coffee, staring out my window. Just listening. I think as Christians we often beat ourselves up because we aren’t doing it the “right way.” But I think we need to learn to listen to what those dark times are telling us. To realize God is showing us something else. Something different, something more beautiful. A different angle, something new about Him, something new about ourselves. I found myself when I found Jesus. CPC LIFE | 2015 STORIES ISSUE
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lived in Europe on and off in my early childhood. When we moved back to Minnesota, I started attending CPC. In 6th and 7th grade, I was mostly just coming to youth group for my friends. But by the time I entered 8th grade Commitment Class, I started to understand what Christianity is all about. On the spring retreat, the leaders washed the students’ feet, which was very emotional. They were imitating the love and humility of Jesus when He washed His disciples’ feet. All the students were also given letters from family members. I read notes from my parents and my brother and sister, each of them explaining that this is the time you need to choose where you’re going. And I realized my faith was something I wanted to pursue. In 9th grade I started noticing kids making different decisions. We were growing up, our grades started counting for college, and people started to feel pressure. Entering high school in 10th grade was a particularly hard transition. Friend groups were forming, and I needed to balance my social life with my church life. I felt uneasy and unsure of myself. I talked to my mom, my older sister, and Brooke Toftoy [Co-Director of High School Ministries]. Things were hard throughout my sophomore year. They said it would get better and although it was a slow process, it did get better. I learned how to say “No, thank you” but still enjoy my friends. I did not want to be the judging girl, the isolated girl. I wanted to be a good friend and enjoy my high school years. I kept my faith and my goals for my future in mind. As an 11th grader, I feel confident in my choices. Now, my peers know about my faith and are good about not pressuring me to do anything I don’t want to do. I lead 7th grade girls here at CPC on Wednesday nights, and I always think of them when I make decisions. When I post on social media or decide whether or not to do or say something, I ask myself, If my girls were here, what would they think? My youth group leader throughout junior high was so good at being a safe place for us. It helps to have an older person of faith pouring into your life outside of your mom or sister. I want to be that for my girls, too. High school can be very tough, cliquey, and exclusive, but I think I’ve used my faith to help people feel included. Every Wednesday a group of students and I go to the Special Ed room at school to hang out and do activities. I have discovered the many skills that kids with severe disabilities have and the pre-conceived judgments I made. By getting to know them, I have meaningful relationships with them. Now, if I see them in the hallway, I say “Hi!” and give them high fives. I want them to know that they aren’t just “those kids with disabilities”—they have names and are important. I want to continue working on my faith in college. My faith isn’t perfect—it never will be—but it’s really important to me. For me, I don’t want to be someone who just goes to church. I don’t just want to tweet a Bible verse and think I’m a really good Christian. I want to feel connected to my faith and to show my love through how I act with other people.
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Learn first-hand about poverty in the Twin Cities through an urban poverty simulator.
Eat a hearty breakfast. Hang out with the guys. Hear from a philanthropy expert.
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SATURDAY, JANUARY 24 FROM 7:00-9:00AM FELLOWSHIP HALL
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CPC Ministry Programming January/February 2015
At CPC, we seek to inspire all generations to follow Jesus, love others, and live missionally. Please look through the various programs for kids, students, and adults—and join us! For fuller descriptions and more information on any of these programs, please visit cpconline.org. CHOIRS FOR ALL AGES
GENERAL NEW MEMBERS’ CLASS
Sundays, January 11-March 8 Classes include an intro lunch, three small group meetings, meeting with a pastor, and more. Contact: Karen Heine at x210; karenh@cpconline.org. Register by January 8: cpconline.org/membership.
RACE & FAITH: A ROUNDTABLE DISCUSSION
Thursday, January 15 from 7:00-9:00PM in Anderson Hall As followers of Jesus in a broken world, CPC is hosting a roundtable discussion on race and faith in America. How can we be reconcilers and peacemakers in the name of Jesus? Come with humility and grace as we listen and discuss.
MID-MONTH CHAPEL SERVICE
Wednesdays, January 21 & February 18 at 12:00PM A traditional service with a short message, hymns, Communion, and prayers. Lunch follows.
COMEDIAN MICHAEL JR. AT CPC
Saturday, January 31 at 7:30PM at CPC Beat the winter blues with comedian Michael Jr., who has been featured on “The Tonight Show,” “Comedy Central,” “Oprah,” and at the Willow Creek Leadership Summit.
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Wednesdays beginning January 14 from 6:00-7:30PM in a nearby home Get the big picture of God’s story from Genesis to Revelation, and learn how you fit into His amazing plan. Join us for this ten-week class led by Dave and Laura Scherf. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Deb Carlson at x316; debc@ cpconline.org.
CPC BOOK CLUB
Thursdays, January 15 & February 19 at 7:00PM in the Parlor; meets 3rd Thursdays In January we discuss The Kitchen House by Kathleen Grissom. In February, we discuss My Beloved World by Sonia Sotomayor. Contact: Nancy Reutiman at 952.920.1837.
FINANCIAL PEACE UNIVERSITY
Wednesday, February 18 Join us for the start of the Lenten season with a time of reflection and worship as we prepare for the journey to the cross and resurrection. 12:00PM – Chapel Service 6:00PM – Sanctuary Service 7:30PM – Sanctuary Service led by Student Ministries
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Choirs and handbell groups resume in January (including a new Kindergarten Choir). New members are welcome to become a part of one or more of our worship ensembles. Contact: Heather Hood at x204; heatherh@cpconline.org.
Thursdays beginning January 22 from 6:30-8:30PM in Anderson Hall This nine-week series from Dave Ramsey offers practical, biblical resources for financial management. Cost: $100/ household. Register: cpconline.org/ register. Contact: Dan Anderson at x298; danderson@cpconline.org.
PARENTAL GUIDANCE
Wednesdays, February 25-March 18 from 6:15-7:30PM in Anderson Hall PG seeks to equip parents through the challenges and joys
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of raising Christian kids in a secular world. February 25: Pete and Lynn Larson (Family Fest Ministries) – “Building Blocks for a Resilient Marriage” March 4: Megan Stone (President, Stone Foundations of Learning) – “Kids’ Owning Their Own Education” March 11: Laurel Bunker (Campus Pastor, Bethel University) – “Preparing Your Kids for College” March 18: Tiger McLuen (President, Youth Leadership) – “Raising Right-Side-Up Kids in an Upside Down World”
SUNDAY COMMUNITIES
Sundays at 9:30AM & 10:45AM Sunday Communities offer a place to belong and a place to grow with people in a similar life stage. We continue in our new topical studies. Contact: Dan Anderson at x298; danderson@cpconline.org. MIXED TAPES (20s & 30s) “Transforming Initiatives in the Sermon on the Mount” with Steve Carlson – 9:30AM in Fellowship Hall-West S.A.L.T. (40s & 50s) “The Grace-Transformed Life” with James and Anna Madsen – 9:30AM in Fellowship Hall-East A.C.T.S. (First-Wave Baby Boomers) “Christian Calling” with Jon Keller – 9:30AM in Fellowship Hall-Center MORE (Active Retired) “People Who Changed the World: God’s New Family in the Book of Acts” with Dan Anderson – 10:45AM in Room 107 CREDO (Intergenerational) “A Man of Grace and Grit: Gleanings from the Apostle Paul” with Randy Andersen – 10:45AM in Fellowship Hall-West
IN THE WORD
Mondays from 9:30-11:30AM in Room 107 An intergenerational discussion-oriented study on the Gospel of Mark for men and
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women. Childcare available ($50/semester). Contact: James Madsen at x308; jamesm@cpconline.org.
SMALL GROUPS Wherever you are in your spiritual journey, being in relationship is essential to your transformation. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Deb Carlson at x316; debc@cpconline.org.
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TUESDAY EVENING GROUP
Tuesdays from 7:00-8:00PM in Room 201
DADS’ GROUP
Wednesdays from 6:15-7:30PM in the Parlor Led by Allen Pofahl and Tom Wagner, this group focuses on growing in our roles as dads of young children through early high schoolers.
Beth Moore’s Children of the Day. Whatever our circumstances, God’s timing is perfect! Our format includes weekly homework, DVD lecture, small group discussion, and fellowship.
NEW! EVENING MOM’S GROUP
2nd Thursdays from 7:00-8:30PM in Room 200 Join with other moms to connect and grow together in faith. Geared toward moms with young kids through elementary age.
HOLY BOLDNESS
Tuesdays beginning January 6 from 6:007:30PM in Room 203 Looking for a few more believers to take a bold step and join our friendly small group. We choose our reading and discussion material and take turns facilitating.
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THURSDAY MORNING GROUP
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Thursdays from 7:00-8:00AM in Room 108 James Madsen leads in studying The Gospel-Centered Life at Work. Thursdays from 7:00-8:00AM in Room 201 Led by Matt Faulkner, this group discusses Unbroken by Laura Hillebrand.
WOMEN TUESDAY EVENING WOMEN’S SMALL GROUP STUDY
Winter session: Tuesdays, January 13-March 10 from 6:45-8:45PM in Room 10; meets 2nd & 4th Tuesdays Do you need some breathing room? With a jam-packed life, what’s missing is space—for God to speak, for you to hear. We study Priscilla Shirer’s Breathe to discover Sabbath margin. Our format features DVD lecture, homework, small group discussion, fellowship, and prayer. Led by Jane Pooler.
NEW! THURSDAY WOMEN’S SMALL GROUP BIBLE STUDY
Thursdays beginning January 15 from 6:45-8:15PM Women of all ages are welcome to join this new group led by Deb Paulson studying 1 and 2 Thessalonians using
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THURSDAY MORNING GROUP
Sundays at 6:30PM; meets twice monthly Join this group as we dig into God’s Word together.
LENTEN SMALL GROUPS
Beginning the week of February 22: Sundays from 9:30-10:45AM Tuesdays from 7:00-8:15PM Thursdays from 12:00-1:00PM This short-term group is a great way to connect with others and try out a small group experience. The study follows the sermon series on hope.
FAMILY SMALL GROUPS
WOMEN IN THE WORD
Mondays beginning January 5 from 9:3011:45AM in Anderson Hall Our winter study is Always True: God’s 5 Promises When Life is Hard by James MacDonald. During our spring session beginning March 2, we study Hebrews: The Nearness of King Jesus by Lisa Harper. Cost: $20/ one study; $35/both studies. DVD lecture, small group discussion, and fellowship. Childcare: $50/child. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Ann Schofield at womenintheword@cpconline.org.
NEEDLEWORK GUILD
Saturday, January 10 from 10:00AM2:00PM in the Fellowship Hall; meets 2nd Saturdays Our mission is to make warm garments and blankets for local agencies that serve the needy. We have yarn, fabric, and knitters to get you started. Contact: Sally Stoutenburgh at 952.927.6915.
MOM’S MORNING
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COUPLES
Being in a couples’ group is a great way to strenghten your marriage and grow together. Groups are based on age ranges and life stages and generally meet one evening a month. Visit cpconline.org/register for options.
MEN MEN’S BREAKFAST
All men are invited for food, fellowship, and a speaker. Mark Lutz, senior vice president of global philanthropy at Opportunity International, speaks on “The Extremely Poor Will Not Always Be with You.” Faith story by CPCer Bob Tinsley. Cost: $12 by 12:00PM on January 22; $15 at the door. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Deb Carlson at x316; debc@cpconline.org.
Saturday, January 24 from 7:00-9:00AM in Fellowship Hall
Large Group Wednesdays, January 14 & 28, February 11 & 25 in the Fireside Room from 9:30-11:30AM; usually meets 2nd & 4th Wednesdays Join other moms for fellowship and inspirational speakers. Register: Tara Wagner at taramwagner@gmail.com. January 14: Steve Wiens on “Nothing is Missing” January 28: Todd Mulliken on “Marriage Keys” February 11: Lynne Jackson on “Peaceful Mothering” February 25: Jen Sletten on “Good Nutrition for You and Your Family”
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MOMS OF TEENS
Large Group Thursdays, January 15 & February 19 from 9:15-11:30AM in the Fellowship Hall In January, local counselor and author Todd Mulliken speaks on “Fight or Flight? Understanding Emotions, Ours and Our Teens!” In February Tom Cardle speaks on “How NOT to be Your Teen’s Bottomless ATM.” Tom and his wife are members of Wooddale Church where Tom has taught numerous financial classes over 20 years. Cost: $5. Contact: Colette Prohofsky at 952.920.8714; coprohof@gmail.com. Small Groups DAYTIME SMALL GROUPS Thursdays twice monthly from 9:3011:00AM in Rooms 200, 201, & 202 Receive more in-depth support, study, and discussion, and study a Christian teen parenting book. Contact: Colette Prohofsky at 952.920.8714; coprohof@ gmail.com. EVENING SMALL GROUP 1st & 3rd Mondays from 7:00-8:30PM in Room 203 Are your mornings busy with work or at home? Take a break to get together with other moms in the evening! We watch a video of a recent Large Group speaker and also foster discussion, support one another, and share perspectives on everyday Christian parenting ideas. Bring a friend or make some new ones! Contact: Cheryl LaMone at 612.275.3436; cheryllam@me.com.
WOMEN WHO INSPIRE
Friday, February 27 from 7:00-9:00PM in the Great Room Join us for an inspiring evening that will warm up a cold winter night as we spend time with Vicki Escarra, the current CEO of Opportunity International, and previous CEO of Feeding America and CMO of Delta. Enjoy desserts, great fellowship, special music, a faith story from Lauren Withers (Opportunity International volunteer and CPC member), and an inspiring message from Vicki. Cost: $15. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Debbie Ducar at x226; debbied@ cpconline.org.
TUESDAY AFTERNOON WOMEN’S STUDY
Tuesdays from 1:00-2:30PM in Room 107 Carolyn Beatty leads an in-depth Bible study on John. This group generates
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lively discussions and cares for one another. Contact: Judy Romine at 952.929.4973.
CIRCLES
Circles combine fellowship, learning, and service in a small group setting. They consist primarily of women over 50; new members always welcome. Martha Circle Wednesdays, January 21 & February 18 at 10:00AM in the Parlor; meets 3rd Wednesdays Martha warmly welcomes friends and new members. Contact: Pat Haberkorn at 952.941.4188. Lydia Circle Saturdays, January 24 & February 28 at 9:30AM in the Parlor; meets 4th Saturdays Terre Thomas, Executive Director of Small Sums, is our guest speaker. Contact: Ellen Hastings at 952.896.0066. Ruth Circle Meets every Wednesday at 9:30AM On the first and third Wednesdays, we meet in a home for food, fellowship, devotions, and prayers. On the other Wednesdays, we serve at Feed My Starving Children and at CPC. Contact: Barb Bucha at 952.470.4414.
50+ EDYNAMOES
Register: Judy Romine at 952.929.4983. Cost: $5. Please bring Jerry’s cash receipts, Campbell’s soup labels, and can tabs. January: Wednesday, January 28 at 11:30AM in the Fellowship Hall Ring in the New Year enjoying “Souper” Pastor Rich’s menu for lunch and then share in the blessing of the biblical portrayal of Hannah as performed by Pastor Deb Kielsmeier. Register by January 26. February: Wednesday, February 25 at 11:30AM in the Fellowship Hall Bring a friend and join the Edynamoes for lunch and a program entitled “Music and Humor” by Colleen Hiebeler—a great show filled with songs and laughter. Pure fun and entertainment! Cost $5. Register by February 23.
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NESTERS: CPC’S ACTIVE RETIREMENTAGE COMMUNITY
Saturday, February 7 at 6:30PM in Anderson Hall Enjoy an evening of bunco and pie. No cost but there will be a signup to bring a pie if desired. Register: Mary Allen at x243; marya@cpconline.org.
FLORIDA SNOWBIRD GATHERING WITH THE CROSBYS
Monday, February 16 from 6:008:00PM at the home of Bill and Sally Hall in Naples, FL Join John and Laura Crosby for dinner, fellowship, and a CPC update along with other CPC Florida Snowbirds. The Halls will provide the main course/ beverages, and guests are invited to bring an appetizer. No cost. RSVP by February 12: Sally Hall at salmchall@gmail.com preferred or 239.597.1935.
CARE ABUNDANTLY SATISFIED: WEIGHT CARE GROUP
Sundays, January 4 & 18, February 1 & 15 from 9:30-10:30AM in Room 203; meets 1st & 3rd Sundays We support each other with weight issues that keep us from experiencing the abundant life God wants for us. No weigh-ins; lots of grace and support! Contact: Sandy Radeke at 952.452.1205; sandy_radeke@earthlink.net.
ALZHEIMER’S EDUCATION SERIES
Thursdays, January 8 & February 12 from 6:30-8:00PM in the Fireside Room; meets 2nd Thursdays through March A series for care partners and those with Alzheimer’s and related dementias. January: Mary Frances Price speaks about “What You Need to Know about Legal and Financial Planning.” February: Debbie Richman from the Alzheimer Association of MN-ND leads “A Conversation on Communication and Behavior.” No registration needed. Contact: Mary Allen at x243; marya@cpconline.org.
PRAYER SHAWL MINISTRY
Fridays, January 9 & February 13 from 10:00AM-12:00PM in the Parlor; Saturdays, January 24 &
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February 28 from 10:00AM12:00PM in Room 203; usually meets 2nd Fridays & 4th Saturdays Our mission is to prayerfully knit and crochet shawls with the hope of being vessels for God’s presence and comfort. No knitting experience needed; all are welcome. Coaching and materials can be provided. Contact: Pat Johnson at 952.947.0734.
and occasional guest speakers. January: support and fellowship. February: hear a presenter from National Alliance on Mental Illness speak on a moving story of success and recovery entitled “In Our Own Voice.” Contact: Doug Brown at 612.839.9992; dbrown@ dcbrowninc.com.
MISSIONS
GRIEF RECOVERY
Tuesdays, January 13 & February 10 from 6:00-8:30PM in the Parlor; meets 2nd Tuesdays Grief Recovery is for those who have lost a loved one. We experience God’s hope and healing through fellowship, prayer, and sharing a meal. Grief counselor Paul Johnson is the guest speaker for both dates. Contact: Debbie Manning at x275; debbiem@cpconline.org.
LIFE TOGETHER: SINGLEPARENT FAMILY MINISTRY
Thursdays, January 15 & February 19 from 6:00-8:00PM in the Fireside Room; meets 3rd Thursday of the month Life Together is a new community for single parents and their children. We meet to share a family meal together, then parents break off to hear a speaker on topics that encourage single parents and experience a guided time of prayer. January topic: “Families Come in All Shapes and Sizes.” Childcare and programming for infants through 12 years. Contact: Sarah Norton x208; sarahn@cpconline.org.
BEGINNING AGAIN
Saturdays, January 17 & February 21 from 9:00-11:00AM in the Fireside Room; meets 3rd Saturday of the month Beginning Again is CPC’s support group for those dealing with the practical issues that follow the death of a spouse. Join us for breakfast and fellowship. Cost: $10, pay at the door. Register: Mary Allen x243; marya@cpconline.org.
GRACE & HOPE FOR OUR CHILDREN
Tuesdays, January 20 & February 17 from 7:00-8:30PM in the Parlor; meets 3rd Tuesdays Does your child experience emotional or mental health issues? You are not alone. Join other parents, friends, and caregivers as we care for one another on our journeys. Meetings include sharing time
CPC GO! TRIP WEEKEND
Saturday/Sunday, January 24/25 after all services in the Great Room Are you called to GO? Where is up to you! Join us for our annual GO! Trip Weekend to explore your passion to serve. Contact: Eli Mansfield at x311; elizabethm@cpconline.org.
2015 GO! TRIPS
Trip Dates Subject to Change HSM Jamaica (World Servants): March 28-April 4 Moyo, Zambia (World Vision and CPC sponsored children): May 16-26 Nicaragua (Habitat): June 13-21 Nicaragua (Opportunity International): June 20-26 Kids’ Ministries (Youthworks): July 30-August 2 Lusaka, Zambia (Global Leadership Summit): November 3-14 Nicaragua (Opportunity International): Fall 2015 Middle East (Telos): November-December
TAKE THE PLUNGE!
Saturday, February 7 from 9:00AM1:00PM; meet at Urban Ventures or ride the shuttle bus from CPC Take your missional engagement to the next level! Join us for part two of The Plunge experience where participants learn first-hand about poverty in the Twin Cities through an urban poverty simulator. Ages 13+. Register: cpconline. org/register. Contact: Dee McIntosh at x214; doneilam@cpconline.org. Next Plunge event: April 25.
DEACON NOMINATIONS
Open January 1-February 15 Help influence the future leadership of CPC by nominating yourself or others to join the Class of 2018 Deacon Board. Deacons are the hands and feet of Jesus, helping CPC fulfill its mission by meet-
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ing practical needs inside and outside the church. Nominate using cards found in the office and Great Room Welcome Center. Please keep confidential as a nomination does not guarantee a position. Contact: Debbie Ducar at x226; debbied@cpconline.org.
PURSUIT
Wednesdays, January 14-February 4 from 6:00-7:30PM in Anderson Hall Where might God be calling you? Pursuit is a four-week missional engagement experience addressing the question of missional calling through the lenses of discipleship, compassion, justice, and reconciliation. The class includes readings, multimedia, and discussion. Contact: Eli Mansfield at x311; elizabethm@cpconline.org.
KIDS WEDNESDAY NIGHT PROGRAMS
Wednesdays, January 14, 21, 28 & February 4, 11, 25 from 6:00-7:30PM 1st-5th grade Wednesday night programming is an opportunity for kids to learn more about God and live out their faith through music, friendship, reading the Bible, and connection with leaders. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Sara Lightbody at x203; saral@ cpconline.org.
WEEKEND PROGRAMS
Saturday 5:15PM; Sunday 9:30AM, 11:00AM, & 5:00PM services During weekend services, we minister to children (six weeks through 6th grade) and families by engaging kids in their relationship with Jesus. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Tammy Mitchell at x216; tammym@ cpconline.org.
KINDERGARTEN CHOIR FOR THE WINTER
Wednesdays from 6:00-6:45PM, January through mid-March Kindergarten students are invited and encouraged to participate in a special Kindergarten choir for the winter months, led by Heather Hood. Kids will explore the singing voice as part of how we express our worship of God. Childcare is available from 6:45-7:30PM for those kids whose parents are in CPC CPC LIFE | 2015 STORIES ISSUE
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adult classes or are volunteering in CPC Wednesday night programs. Register: cpconline.org/register. Choir questions: Heather Hood at x204; heatherh@ cpconline.org. Registration questions: Sara Lightbody at x203; saral@ cpconline.org.
WINTER FAM JAM FOR PRESCHOOLERS AND FAMILIES
Saturday, February 7 from 9:0010:45AM in the Multi-Purpose Room Join us for a morning of crafts, cookie decorating, face painting, and air jumping. Sign up by emailing Martha North at marthan@cpconline. org with your name and how many plan to attend.
STUDENTS TAPESTRY
Tuesdays, January 13 & 27 (Anderson Hall) & February 10 & 24 (Fireside Room) from 6:30-7:30PM A ministry for kids and students with special needs. We explore who God is and how we can have a relationship with Him through Bible study, service projects, games, guest speakers, and story/drama. Contact: Kari Dubord at x261; karid@cpconline.org.
MOSAIC WORSHIP SERVICE
Sundays, January 25 & February 22 at 12:30PM in the Sanctuary Mosaic is a worship service for kids and students with special needs and their families. Noises, sounds, and movements are welcome! Followed by a light lunch. Contact: Kari Dubord x261; karid@cpconline.org.
RUCKUS: SNOW TUBING
Friday, January 30 from 5:30-8:30PM; meet at CPC Ruckus is our fun-filled outing for Elevate and Engage students. This month come tubing with us at Buck Hill! Cost: $12. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Van Chounlamountry at x306; vanc@cpconline.org.
AVALANCHE SKI/SNOWBOARD WEEKEND
Saturday-Monday, February 1416 at Spirit Mountain in Duluth; leave Saturday at 8:00AM, return Monday at 11:30AM Avalanche is a fun-filled weekend of skiing and snowboarding! Middleschoolers, come by yourself or bring your parents for an unforgettable weekend. Cost: $225/person. Registration opens January 1: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Van Chounlamountry at x306; vanc@cpconline.org.
ELEVATE AND ENGAGE
Wednesdays, January 14, 21, 28 & February 4, 11, 26 from 6:15-7:30PM (no programming February 18—Ash Wednesday Service at 7:30PM at CPC) A night of fun, large-group learning and small-group discussion for 6th8th graders. Please make sure your student is registered if they plan to attend this year. Contact for 6th-7th grade Elevate: Van Chounlamountry at x306; vanc@cpconline.org. Contact for 8th grade Engage: Lexi Soldo at x279; lexis@cpconline.org.
JAMAICA GO! TRIP
Wednesday, February 18 at 7:30PM at CPC Our annual Ash Wednesday Service is a great opportunity for the entire family to come together to worship, be in community, and prepare our hearts for Lent. Please join us for an exciting evening. The service takes place of regular programming.
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March 28-April 3 CPC students and their parents are invited on a GO! Trip to Jamaica with World Servants. We’ll serve families in need and do community outreach through a kids’ club. Leisure activities as well. Trip leaders: Trevor and Amanda Tinsley from CPC and Patti Juarez from World Servants. Cost: $845/person (plus airfare ~$1,100). Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Trevor Tinsley at x304; trevort@cpconline.org.
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HSM HOUSE GROUPS
Wednesdays, January 14, 21, 28 & February 4, 11, 25 (no house groups on Feb (Dy 18—Ash Wednesday Service at 7:30PM at CPC) All house groups meet in area homes. Contact: Trevor Tinsley at x304; trevort@cpconline.org.
FAMILY FAMILY SMALL GROUPS
Sign up by Tuesday, January 20 Once a month from February through May, you and your family can give a family small group a try! First hour: kids and parents share a meal together. Second hour: adults study while kids have a separate activity and/or childcare. Register: cpconline. org/register. Contact: Deb Carlson at x316; debc@cpconline.org.
YOUTHWORKS FAMILY MISSION TRIP
July 30-August 2 in Duluth, MN Learn, work, worship, play, explore, and create as a family! Designed for kids in 3rd through 8th grades, but all ages welcome. Cost: $129/ family member (children 3 and under are free). Includes room and board and service activities; transportation not included. Contact: Tammy Mitchell at x216; tammym@cpconline.org.
PARTNERS IN MINISTRY FAMILY FEST WINTER WEEKEND
January 16-19 & February 13-16 Join Family Fest, CPC’s friend in ministry, at Winter Weekend, a multi-generational getaway at Grand View Lodge. Enjoy speakers, winter sports, bonfires, plus great accommodations and food. Contact: Pete Larson at 952.881.0939; mail@familyfestministries.org. Visit: familyfestministries.org.
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WOULD YOU LIKE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT GOD AS A FAMILY? FAMILIES: SHARE A MEAL TOGETHER PARENTS: ENGAGE IN ADULT STUDY KIDS: ENJOY FUN ACTIVITIES
CONGRATULATIONS TO:
The family and friends of Alice Wayne, who passed away on December 14. She was 99 years old and had been a member of CPC since 1960.
Clay and Jenny Kilber on the birth of their son, Nolan Clayton, on November 14.
RECENTLY HOSPITALIZED:
Peter and Anne Deanovic on the birth of their daughter, Greta Geraldine, on October 15. Grandparents are Jim and Deb Deanovic.
Jim and Deb Kielsmeier on the birth of their grandson, Rowan Finley KielsmeierCook, on December 4. Deb serves as Associate Pastor for Membership. Katie Michelle Halek and Chad Douglas Zachman, who were married on December 13. The Rev. Rich Phenow officiated.
SINGLE-PARENT FAMILY MINISTRY
Thursdays, January 15 & February 19 from 6:00-8:00PM; 3rd Thursdays of the month
SYMPATHY TO:
Stuart and Peggy Erickson on the passing of Stuart’s mother, Nancy Erickson, on November 12.
STAFF TRANSITIONS:
Meg Garrett on the passing her father, Mike Garrett, on November 23.
FINANCIAL UPDATE:
Kenney Hanzley joins Worship & Music Ministries as Tech Assistant.
June 1-November 30, 2014 Ministry Offering Budget: $2,039,994.34 Actual Offering: $1,882,212.23 Variance: ($157,782.11) November Mission Focus (Barnabas Fund): $13,683.44 YTD Mission Focus Total: $85,703.72
Joe DeWit on the passing of his wife, Sue DeWit, on December 8.
FAMILY SMALL GROUPS Once a month from February through May
Margaret Longlet on the passing of her husband, Don Longlet, on December 11. David and Linda Palmquist on the passing of David’s father, James Palmquist, on December 12.
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Bob Hartley Cenith Carlson Louise Nesbitt Bob Colvin Chris Hagstrom Dave Priddy Deb Apuli Dave Scherf Luanne Lind Katie Klevesahl Dave Beadie Gene Takach Lance Olson
Expenses are under budget year-to-date.
Adam Bufis on the passing of his father, Keith Bufis. Adam serves as CPC’s Technical Director. CPC LIFE | 2015 STORIES ISSUE
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Join us for worship in 2015! Saturdays at 5:15PM | Contemporary Worship Sundays at 9:30AM | Traditional Worship Sundays at 11:00AM | Contemporary Worship Sundays at 5:00PM | The Table at CPC
LAUGH AWAY the WINTER BLUES! Comedian Michael Jr. comes to CPC to entertain and delight us! SATURDAY, JANUARY 31 AT 7:30PM | NO COST
Michael Jr. has been featured on “The Tonight Show,” “Comedy Central,” “Oprah,” and at the Willow Creek Leadership Summit.
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